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LeRoy Joseph Spaniol

1938 - 2020

LeRoy Joseph Spaniol obituary, 1938-2020, Hartford, CT

LeRoy Spaniol Obituary

It is with great sadness that the family of LeRoy Joseph Spaniol of West Hartford announces his death on Tuesday, May 19 due to COVID-19. Born in Milwaukee, WI in 1938, LeRoy was a remarkable, yet humble man who enriched the lives of all who knew him. He graced the world with gentle, loving kindness through both his personal and professional lives because he had faith in people even when they lacked faith in themselves. LeRoy grew up in a family of 10 children and spent seven years in the Maryknoll Seminary in Maryknoll, New York. After leaving the seminary, LeRoy obtained a doctoral degree in Rehabilitation Counseling from the University of Wisconsin, Madison, and had over 40 years of experience in the mental health field as counselor, advocate, program developer, administrator, and educator. Throughout decades, he improved the lives of countless people with severe mental illness by helping them gain a sense of meaning and purpose. He also worked closely and empathically with family members to heal wounds and strengthen bonds. A professor at Boston University for 31 years, LeRoy was a co-founder and Senior Director at the Center for Psychiatric Rehabilitation since 1974. He was the founder and Executive Publisher of the Psychiatric Rehabilitation Journal for 23 years. One of his proudest accomplishments was founding and teaching in the Recovery Center, a rehabilitation program for people with psychiatric disabilities at the Center for Psychiatric Rehabilitation. When he retired in 2004, the Psychiatric Rehabilitation Association established the LeRoy Spaniol Award for those making significant contributions as new leaders in the field. After retiring, LeRoy lived in Wellfleet, MA for eight years, serving as President of NAMI of Cape Cod. A prolific writer, he published 18 books and many book chapters and articles about psychiatric rehabilitation, recovery, and families of people with mental illness. Despite his many achievements, LeRoy will be missed most for his gentle wisdom, loving kindness, and selfless grace. We will also miss his subtle sense of humor, corny jokes, and knowing smile. He will be lovingly remembered by his family: his wife, Susan Spaniol; his daughters, Rachel Wilson and Melissa Wilson; his grandchildren, Erin O'Connor and Ryan O'Connor; his son-in-law Sean O'Connor, Rachel's partner, Chris Bracken; and his six surviving sisters; Janice and Elvira Schraufnagel; Ruth Ann McCallum, Audrey Mikilousky, Beverly Pouquette, and Arlene Groff. He will be especially missed by his schnoodle, Albert. We are celebrating LeRoy's life with an on-line virtual memorial until the COVID crises passes, when we will celebrate in person with a mass and memorial service. Memorial donations to the Recovery Center may be made online at cpr.bu.edu. (Click 'MENU.' Scroll to bottom to locate 'DONATE' button.)

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 24, 2020.

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John Woods, Lambertville NJ

June 27, 2022

I just discovered that LeRoy passed. I wish his wife and daughters and families peace and joy. I knew LeRoy in my role as board member of IAPSRS and knew him to be brilliant, generous and valued leader.

bonnie twomey

October 12, 2020

I'm deeply saddened to learn of LeRoy's passing. He changed my life putting and making recovery possible in my life by extending an invitation to attend his recovery course at Boston University. I presented him with a 300 page rough draft of my memoir. He told me it was, "important." With that, I had published Sweet Freedom, Mending a Heart Broken by Mental Illness. It will be completed in print in a few weeks. He was a strong figure and influence in my life. I mentioned him in my dedication because he showed me a life of promise and one that brought connections and friendships who shared many similar experiences.

dave hartlerode

June 17, 2020

I did not know LeRoy that well. But any time we had a chance to see each other and chat for a bit, it was easy to tell that he was a man full of dignity. Always had compassion for others. A very intelligent man , that will truly be missed by many people.
R.I.P.

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DIANE L MIKULOVSKY

May 24, 2020

I was married to allan. We were married for 15 yrs then got divorced so the time we were married Leroy was a joy to know you could talk to him with ease and he would make you laugh I am proud to have met and known him

Phil and Vivien Speiser

May 24, 2020

Our heartfelt sympathies to all in the family.

Rob Trafford

May 24, 2020

Susan, my thoughts are with you. Take care.

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