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SATTER, Robert


Connecticut Superior Court Judge Robert Satter of Avon died on January 16, 2012, at the age of 92. He was a highly respected jurist, former Connecticut legislator, community activist, author, proud liberal, lifelong Red Sox fan, great celebrator of Thanksgiving and loving husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. Born on August 19, 1919, in Chicago to Patty and Henry Satter, Bob was the oldest of six children. He grew up during the Depression in Cranston, New Jersey, where he excelled as a scholar and athlete. His family had little money, but the Roosevelt administration's moratorium on home foreclosures allowed them to stay in that middle-class town. A Roosevelt Democrat his whole life, Bob believed that government should act to help people in need. Bob worked his way through Rutgers College and graduated Phi Beta Kappa. He played on the Rutgers tennis team and continued to compete in tennis into his 80s. During World War II, Bob enlisted in the Navy and served as a gunnery officer on battleships in the Pacific. He described his service as "many routine months at sea, punctuated by spasms of action: bombarding islands in support of invasions, repulsing air attacks, engaging in one major ship-to-ship battle." On long watches at night, he memorized Shakespeare—which he would quote frequently throughout his life—and learned the constellations. Bob earned his law degree at Columbia University and practiced in New York City before forming the law firm of Satter and Ritter in Hartford. His law partners included George Ritter, Jon Newman (who later served as a federal appellate judge) and Karl Fleishmann. Bob handled cases of all kinds. He took particular pride in his work on behalf of labor unions and the Connecticut Civil Liberties Union. Bob married Ruth Lyttle in 1946 and together they raised four children. They took their family camping each summer and enjoyed many biking trips together in European countries, often pitching their tents in farmers' fields. They organized trips to Tanglewood each summer with their friends, a tradition that has continued for decades. An early proponent of women's rights, Bob encouraged Ruth to pursue a graduate degree and career in botany. During the final years of her life, he lovingly cared for her. They were married for 42 years, until her death in 1989. Bob served three terms in the Connecticut Legislature in the late 1950s and early 1960s. While he did not succeed in his efforts to end the death sentence, he did prevail in passing a bill that prohibited sentences of life without parole and another measure that requires a two-part verdict in capital cases. Bob personally became involved in the cases of two men convicted of murder. One of them was released from jail with Bob's help after serving decades of his sentence and went on to lead an upstanding life. Bob presided at the man's wedding and stayed in touch with him throughout the rest of his life. Bob served in the late 1960s and early 1970s as the counsel to Connecticut's Democratic party, drafting bills at the Legislature. He taught a course about the legislative process at the University of Connecticut Law School for more than 25 years. His book on that topic, "Under the Gold Dome," is given to all of Connecticut's freshman legislators. In 1975, Bob was appointed as a state judge. Over his 36-year judicial career, he heard everything from criminal cases to foreclosures. Other judges often sought his advice. His book, "Doing Justice," published in 1990 by Random House, described the thought and ethics that went into his judicial decision-making. He continued serving on the bench until October 6, 2011, two days before he entered the hospital. In 1993, Bob married Phyllis Johnson. They enjoyed a rich intellectual life, many years of companionship and a spirited cribbage competition. In Bob's final years, she was his devoted caregiver. Bob's community activities include serving as an officer of the Hartford Community Renewal Team (an anti-poverty agency), and on the board of the Hartford Symphony Orchestra, several foundation boards and many other organizations. He participated for many decades in a writers group, a judges' group, a book group and a poker group. He was a great friend and role model to people of all ages. Bob leaves his wife, Phyllis; his sisters, Barbara Trubin and Joan Merle, his children, Dick Satter, Mimi Satter and her husband, Terry Mundy, Shoshana Hoose, and Jane Satter and her husband, David Vernon; his grandchildren, Bryan, Andrew, Hannah, Julia, Lily, Rosa, Ruby, Nate, Zoe and Molly; his great-grandchildren, Celina and Rex; and his stepsons, Brian and Jory Johnson, and their families.
Funeral services will be private. A memorial service will be held on February 11, at 1 p.m. in the Connecticut state capitol building. In lieu of flowers, please send a donation to a cause dear to Bob's heart: helping released prisoners get back on their feet, by contributing to Community Partners in Action, 100 Bartholomew Ave., Hartford, CT 06106.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 18, 2012.

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May 27, 2012

prior post -- Laura Beth (Steinhardt) Donna

May 27, 2012

I remember (if memory serves) riding up ski slopes with my childhood best friend Janie - forget if these were rope tows, T bars or chairlifts, with the strains of Bob singing in the background: "I'll do anything for you, dear, anything, for you mean everything to me."

Gary Lopez

February 13, 2012

My sympathy to the extended Satter family. My wife was one of the secretaries in the law firm of Satter & Fleischman. It was a bustling, successful firm where everyone had to put a shoulder into their work. I would visit my then girlfriend and Bob Satter always would say hello and would always acknowledge me and say some kind thing. I'll always remember when my wife's father had a horrific accident. In a very low key manner he told her, don't worry about paying the hospital that he could take care of things. As it turned out we didn't need his help. We never forgot his generosity or the pleasure of knowing him. Truly a remarkable man.

Faith Solomon-Kune

January 24, 2012

I was Ritter & Satter's first full-time secretary when they first came to Hartford. What a wonderful relationship I had with them. It was because of Bob that my husband and I moved to Newington. I will always consider Bob "my friend".
Faith Levine Solomon-Kune.

Jim Remis

January 24, 2012

As chair of the board of the Hartford Symphony I speak for all of us - thank you Bob for all you did for the "Band." We will miss you.

Ben Bishop

January 21, 2012

As Tennis Pro/Manager of Bob's beloved Hartford Tennis Club it was my priviledge to get to know Bob. Always a gentleman with kind words and an understanding of others. Loved his tennis and his tennis friends. We shall miss Bob Satter at Hartford Tennis Club.

Karen Renzulli Lynch

January 21, 2012

My sympathy to the Satter family. I first met Judge Satter in his Legislative Process class, over 30 years ago. I then appeared before him after I passed the bar. He was what a lawyer and judge should be, and he will be missed.

Howard Orenstein

January 20, 2012

To the family:
So very sorry to learn of Bob's passing. He was a person of integrity. He will be greatly missed.

Arlis & Betty Vernon

January 20, 2012

Bob was wonderful father-in-law to our son, David. We shared our grandchildren Nate, Molly and Zoe and shared our pride in them and our love of family. He will be greatly missed.
Arlis and Betty Vernon

January 19, 2012

My interactions with Judge Satter were many and were varied. As a lawyer in Hartford for over 33 years, I occasionally received his mail by mistake (name similarity), appeared before him, and later played tennis with him locally and in the Berkshires. He was a paradigm of how to live a life well, how to be a mentor in word and deed and how to selflessly give to one's community. He will be missed.

Bob Sattin

Charlie Himmelfarb

January 19, 2012

About 40 years ago, I had 2 days prior, just moved into my house on Brookside Rd in Newington, the door chime ding-donged..I opened the door and a stranger extended his hand saying,"My name is Bob Satter. I am your neighbor and I have been coming to this house to watch the NY Giants play football with the former owner Jack for several years. I want to continue doing this. Where is your TV?"
I tried to explain that everything was in disarray. I suggested he come back in couple of weeks. Bob responded with something like "Oh that's OK" He went to the den, cleared a chair, uncovered the TV and sat down to watch his Giants--those were the great days of Y.A. Tittle, Roosevelt Brown, Andy Robustelli.Over the years that followed, Bob would appear for most every game.
My kids and I had more enjoyment watching and listening to Bob watch the game than the game itself. He was to say the least a very enthusiastic fan. Thank you Bob for making those Sundays great.

Maureen Brennan

January 19, 2012

You will be missed by the people
in the Hartford's Clerk Office

Henry Coons

January 19, 2012

I had the great pleasure of knowing Judge Satter for many years as the manager and pro of the Hartford Tennis Club. He was a gentleman, scholar, and fierce competitor on the courts. He will be missed.

Gideon Rutenberg

January 18, 2012

You were a great friend and mentor. I will miss you,

Gideon Rutenberg

January 18, 2012

You were a great friend and mentor. I will miss you.

William P. Murray

January 18, 2012

Judge Satter: We will remember you as a Patriot and a caring jurist. All the best!

Samuel Chester

January 18, 2012

My heartfelt condolences to Judge Satter's family. He was a brilliant jurist and his written decisions, especially on matters of equitable principles, have become benchmark law in CT. I appeared before him hundreds of times. His grasp of the issues and judicial demeanor were exemplary. He will be greatly missed by all of us who practiced law in his court.

Eddie Rodriguez, Jr.

January 18, 2012

Thnk you Judge Satter for the many important contributions to the bench and bar. You won't be soon forgotton for your advice and your writtings.

Ernest Zike

January 18, 2012

Phyllis & Family: We are so sorry for your great loss. Bob was a wonderful friend, a superb tennis partner and opponent, and even introduced a bit of humor when he swore me in as a member of the bar. I will always miss him.
Ernie & Barbara Zike

Anita Hooey

January 18, 2012

We all should live by Judge Satter's example...live life to the fullest. He surely did that each and every day. He will be missed.

Gerry Smyth

January 18, 2012

Above and beyond his many professional accomplishments, Judge Satter was first and foremost a kind and decent human being. I had great admiration and respect for him and his compassion for other people. I had the pleasure of serving on several Boards of Directors with Bob and was also privileged to have his support for the Public Defenders Office and for me personally in my career. I am saddened by his passing and the world will be diminished by his absence.

January 18, 2012

A good mind, and a good judge! Judge Satter's passing is a loss to the Connecticut legal community. Condolences to his family.

Tom Grodecki

January 18, 2012

What a life, so full of adventure and accomplishment. In his presence you could sense that this was a man who had experienced and given much. Truly a man of great wisdom but with an ordinary mannerism. We have lost a good man.

January 18, 2012

Great professor, terrific judge. He will be missed.

Genevieve P. Salvatore

David Stone

January 18, 2012

Judge Satter had a huge positive impact on my life. My time spent clerking for him was better training than UCONN Law School. He asked my opinion, and challenged my thinking.

David Margolis

January 18, 2012

Bob was a fine lawyer, a respected jurist, a great boss, and a loyal friend. Our condolences to his family.
Debby and David Margolis

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