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NAUGHTON, Pamela Parsons
Pamela Parsons Naughton, 66, beloved wife of James Naughton (both raised in West Hartford) died April 9 at home. She passed with the same grace with which she waged her 4 year battle with pancreatic cancer. She was surrounded by her husband, their children, Greg and Keira; and her three siblings, Patricia Parsons Poe, Deborah Parsons Slocum and David Parsons. Daughter of the late John and Jean Parsons of West Hartford, she graduated from Hall High in 1964, before studying literature at Middlebury College, VT. She married James in 1967, and their two children were born in New Haven, while Jim was studying at Yale Drama School. After several years in CA, they settled down for good in Weston in 1977. Pamela received a Master's of Social Work from Fordham University and worked at Hallbrook Hospital (Westport) and in the special ed department at Weston Middle School. In 1995 she put her people talents to work as Director of Development for her son's Blue Light Theater Co. in NYC. Her passions included the family "farm" where she spent many weekends and summers throughout her life. She was the undisputed hub of a large and tight-knit extended family. Her greatest pride of recent years, were her grandchildren: Owen (3) and Charlie (10 mos).
The family will be holding a private memorial in Westport. Memorial donations may be made to: PANCREATIC CANCER ACTION NETWORK; WILDLIFE IN CRISIS (Weston, CT); or HOLE IN THE WALL GANG CAMP (Ashford, CT).
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Memories and Condolences
for Pamela NAUGHTON
Maureen Crandall
January 17, 2014
Dear Mr. Naughton,
I do not know you or your dearly departed wife, but I have followed your work throughout the years. I am 43 and have always been a fan of yours. I just wanted you to know that I am so sorry for your loss. Pam seemed like such a lovely woman - she had a very classy look to her...and I am sure she brought much light and life to you and your family. God bless you and your children and grand children today and every day. - Maureen Crandall, Dearborn, MI
Susan park weissman
November 15, 2013
Jimmy,
Just caught up with Middlebury alumni mag and read about Pam-heart is with you-fond shared memories of duffee school, walking to piano lessons , selling lunch tickets , then hanging out at middlebury waiting for Pam- have loved following your successes,still see Kitty, now married to peter oakes and Susie Haas -take good care
Pamela WaltonFuller
July 17, 2013
Hello Jimmy, (Conard High Drama/Nettie: Climb Every Mountain)
My heart goes out to you at learning today of the death of
your wife. I did not know her, but if you chose her I am sure she was an exceptional woman.
I remember your kindness/support for me in high school. I was not in the pop crowd and as young then as you were, you
were a man of honor. This too is exceptional.
I was a composer/musician for some years. Teaching too. Waiting in the wings was the painter I am today.
Prayers and blessings Jimmy.
My Best,
Pamela Walton Fuller
Mary Riley
May 28, 2013
Dear Jim,
I just learned about Pam. Needless to say, I was totally devastated. She was the brightest star in your life and you should have had many more years together. If her brother was the same Dave Parsons that we went to school with, my deepest sympathies go out to him and his family as well. You all are in my heart and always will be.
Blake Hyfield
May 19, 2013
To the Naughton family so sorry to hear about your loss. My twin sister and I lived down Waredwell from Pam and Pat, graduating in the same class from Hall. Our thoughts are with you.
Diane (Gorski) Ballou
May 14, 2013
I was saddened when I read about Pam's death. I graduated from Conard High in your Class of '63 and remember you and Dave Parsons. I will pray for you and Dave and your families at this difficult time.
Kelly DePanfilis
May 13, 2013
To the Naughton Family:
I am so sorry about Pamela's passing. I felt blessed to be able to get to know her even if only for a short while (6East). I immediately felt a connection with her, she was always so strong and positive. Her family always by her side, she often told me stories of you all while I put her hair in pig tails for fun (I'm not much of a hair person) but she would say “my daughter will get a kick out of this” and she would take self iphone shots as a joke (She also mentioned the pesto sauce!) Mr.Naughton, you were so supportive, she always talked about her family. Anyways, I have thought about her often and after learning of her passing I just wanted to let you know I'm so sorry for her loss and I know you will all miss her dearly. I hope you are able to find comfort in your wonderful memories with her, I know she made an impact on me and I only knew her for a short time.
Rolando Capanna
April 30, 2013
Jim, It's been a very long time. This is Rolando that lived next to you on Mitchell street. I am so sadden by you and your family's loss. It's hard to put my mind around it. Your beautiful bride left us way too soon. I'll pray for you and your children. You were always so nice to me and our family. I wish you Peace.
Adria "Capanna" Battani
April 30, 2013
Jim I cannot express enough my sincerest sympathies. Our paths crossed for a brief moment in time, your next door neighbor, Bianca's daughter. I was very young, but remember, with sweet memories, you and your family. Hold each other close.....
Cabiria Simpson
April 30, 2013
Dear Jim and Family -
Not sure you will remember me, I used to babysit Greg and Keira when you lived on Mitchell Street in Stamford. A friend of mine sent this to me and I just had to write you to send my condolences. I always admired Pam. At 13, I wished that I could be as beautiful as she. I am remembering you in my prayers. May God bless and keep you.
Cabiria
Kate Hughes
April 29, 2013
Dear Naughton family,
The lesson of enduring, incredible love shared by Jim & Pam lives on with the next generation in its bounty. Her beauty, smiles, will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ron & Kate McLarty
April 26, 2013
We feel so blessed to have known Pam and had her light shine on us from time to time--she will be sorely missed by all who knew her and I know your grief at her passing must be enormous. We send our deepest sympathies to all of you. Kate & Ron McLarty
April 26, 2013
Jim, have not seen you in 30 or more years but have fond memories of you and the jaberwocks. What a great career you have had. I am sure Pamela was a fabulous wife which you deserve. I am so sorry for your Los. Kate Hughes told me about it. Best wishes. Ross jones
April 26, 2013
Jim, I was deeply saddened to learn about your terrible loss. I fondly recall our time together with Pam in that diner (near the summer theater) when you were considering a career in the theater. Pat and I send our sincere condolences.
April 25, 2013
Dear Naughton Family, Love and sweet thoughts of Pam to you all.
Richard
Mary (Johnston) Watt
April 23, 2013
James, I am so sorry to hear of Pam. Although I didn't know Pam a mutual friend of her's (Cheryl Lawless Leach) let me know today of her passing. I love the happy picture you have included. You and I graduated from Conard '63. Too many years ago to count - I was Mary Johnston then. Just want to extend my sympathy to your family and the Parsons. Godspeed Pam - what a lovely family you have.
Judi Beckwith Swift
April 23, 2013
To all of your family,
My sincere condolences.
Midge Deverin
April 23, 2013
James, I am so terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your wife. One of the Y members just told me (I was on vacation for the past couple of weeks). My thoughts and prayers are with you.
April 23, 2013
James, I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. One of our Y members just told me (I was on vacation the past couple of weeks). I pray for you and your family and know that the love you all have for each other will give you the solace and wisdom you need thru this terrible loss.
My thoughts are with you,
Midge Herz Deverin
Judy Gellin Goldfarb
April 22, 2013
Dear Jim,
Our lives have been so enriched since graduating from high school. May the richness Pam brought to your lives live on in the kindness she showed, the comfort she shared, and the love she brought into your lives. Extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
Margie Browner
April 22, 2013
Dear Jim and family,
Although you don't remember me, I want to express my sincere condolences on the loss of your beautiful Pam. I was so saddened to learn of your terrible loss. Pam and I were friends in high school and graduated together, her uncle was my family doctor. I will always remember her beautiful smile and vibrant personality. I always looked forward to seeing her at reunions.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Margie (Cohn) Browner
April 22, 2013
Dear Jim and family,
I was so sad to hear about Pam. I have such fond memories of her during my time on City of Angels. You both were always so kind and gracious to someone who was new to the city and the business. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Lori Borek (Lorraine)
(Tommy Boyer's roommate)
April 21, 2013
Dear Jim,
I am so sorry to hear of Pam's death. What a difficult time for you and your famiy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Best Regards,
Sally Burns Adams
Leona Collier
April 21, 2013
Jim,
You probably don't remember me but I am
Leona "Lee" Collier and graduated from Conard in 1962....you were in my brother Jim's class of '63. You and your family will be in my prayers during this difficult time. It sounds like Pam was a fantastic woman. I used to live on Miles Standish Drive but now live in TX. You may be sure all of us in the Class of '62 will be praying for you and your family.
April 21, 2013
I am deeply saddened to learn of Pam's death. My sympathy to the Naughton and Parsons families. I grew up one block away from the Parson's family home on Wardwell Road in West Hartford. My parents were good friends with Pam's parents. One fond memory was all of us kids playing Tiddlywinks on the floor and losing some of the pieces.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sara Pettengill Petersen
April 21, 2013
James and family-
Thinking of you at this very sad time in your lives and hoping that the wonderful memories you shared will be a source of strength in the difficult moments. Fondly, Arleen Hurwitz Zuckerman
Hope Noar
April 21, 2013
Jim,
I don't know if you remember me, but I am Hope Canter Noar, from your high school class. I read about your wife's passing in today's paper, and I want to express my deepest condolences. It sounds as if you had a beautiful life together, with wonderful children and grandchildren, and that will be something that I am sure you will always cherish! My thoughts are with you at this time, and I hope that your supportive family and great memories will carry you through this difficult time.
james addison
April 21, 2013
may she rest in peace...i remember the day at Middlebury College when word went around school that she had eloped back to connecticut with jimmy, i think it was 1965...she will be missed...may all her family find strength during this difficult time.
Jane Dowling
April 21, 2013
God bless you and your loved ones ~ Rest in peace.
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