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Joseph "Mark" Zehnder July 9, 1950 - November 5, 2019 Joseph "Mark" Zehnder was born July 9, 1950 in Tacoma, WA. He attended Lake Stevens High School. After attending Western Washington University and Washington State University, Mark served for 34 years in the Everett Police Department as a patrolman, detective, and training officer before retiring in 2010 to enjoy time with his family, table tennis, and weekly breakfasts with his friends from the police force. He and his wife of 31 years, Ruth, loved traveling and camping, and had several adventures together over the summer, most recently in Cannon Beach, OR, and Lincoln Rock State Park, WA. He passed away from pancreatic cancer on November 5, 2019. He touched the lives of hundreds of people with his wisdom, friendship, humor, generosity, love, and faith in Jesus. He is survived and sorely missed by his wife and best friend, Ruth; his three children: Julie, Curtis, and Jake; his six siblings: Kathy, Mike, Paul, Terri, Steve, and Maria; his 20 nieces and nephews; and his many, many friends. May the Lord be with him and keep him always. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Pancreatic Cancer Research.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) on Nov. 12, 2019.

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Laurie McGladrey Lasley

June 15, 2023

To Ruth, I am so sad to hear that Mark past. I Knew him way back in the 80's. I met him through G.R Cambell and my dad George McGladrey. Wow I just found this, I saw a picture of G.R on face book and thought of Mark. I hope you get this message. Mark came to my wedding and played bartender. Mark was a great police officer and a good friend. Again sorry for you loss, Laurie McGladrey Lasley.

Mr.& Mrs. Handson

July 9, 2022

Mrs. Zehnder and family,
It is with sadness in our heart today that we learned of your husbands death. We were just sitting here reminiscing about the kindness of your family towards ours. We did a Google search and learned of Mr. Marks death. He was such a generous man. We are your former tenants on Lombard. We want to express our sincerest heart felt sympathy. Thank you for the love Mr. Mark and your family shared with ours. May God continue to comfort and bless you all.
Deepest sympathy,
Garren and Erica Handson and family

David Ryan Cousin on Mother's side

March 26, 2022

Mark was my Cousin. We were born within three weeks of each other. As kids we enjoyed each others company. Mark was a unique, fun-loving guy who was take to early. My condolences and love to the family & his friends.

Suzanne Eviston

November 19, 2019

Blessed to have known such a special human being. A great cop, trainer, and co-worker. RIP Mark. To Ruth and family, so sorry for your great loss. Know that Mark spoke of you all often and with deep love and admiration.

Fred Helfers

November 18, 2019

I have known Mark since 1979 when i started with Everett PD. In our early years with the PD, Mark and I traveled the world together, Hiked the Pacific Crest Trail and went skiing up at Whistler. We vacationed together to Mexico when he met the love of his life Ruth. Good times with a good friend. We worked together in special investigations and always enjoyed each others company. Mark was always there for me through rough times and the good. He was that type of man. Caring, concerned for others and willing to help his brothers. I will miss you dearly my friend.

Pat Sebald

November 15, 2019

Rest well my wonderful friend. Until we meet again. Someday -- Somewhere

Micheal McAvoy

November 14, 2019

Mark was always friendly to me. I enjoyed seeing him around the station and talking to him. My condolences to his family.

Micheal McAvoy

November 14, 2019

Mark was always friendly to me. I enjoyed seeing him around the station and talking to him. My condolences to his family.

Pete Grassi

November 13, 2019

I had the pleasure of working with Mark in patrol and also as his supervisor in the Major Crimes unit, Accident Investigations unit. Mark always gave 110 percent in whatever he was doing. He was a consummate police officer. He will be missed.

Sally VanBeek

November 12, 2019

Mark was a most respectable officer. He was always available to help out with investigation. A true professional. He spent likely thousands of hours on a Kawasaki 1000 helping to keep the streets of Everett safer. I look forward to seeing brother Mark in heaven one day. And, I pray for comfort in the coming days for his wife Ruth, his family and friends. God welcomed home a good one.

Lori Whitley

November 12, 2019

Dear Zehnder family
We are so sorry for your loss Mark was a wonderful guy and a great neighbor. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you as you navigate this tremendous loss.
Bill, Lori, Mikayla, Adam Whitley

Jeanne Innes

November 12, 2019

So sorry Ruth and kids. I always liked mark. He was a great friend to my husband. I will miss mark.He was always a sweetheart and willing to help in anyway he could.

Steve Hardy

November 12, 2019

I was privileged to work with Mark at EPD. Served twenty years along side of him.
He was an unflappable officer, and a true friend.

Billy Roberson

November 12, 2019

I had the pleasure of attending the police academy with Mark. He was a fun guy and a genuine tough guy. He will be missed. Billy

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