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Nancy Grinstead Obituary

Nancy Hobbie Grinstead, 71, of Durham, NC, passed away Friday February 15th, 2019 after a long battle with cancer and related complications. Nancy is survived by two children, Susannah (Mark) Winden and Joshua Grinstead (Ana Moreno Reig), five grandchildren – Evan, Cecilia, Erin, Becka, and Sydney. Nancy had two brothers and two sisters, Dennis, Henry, Becky and Anne. She was the daughter of Henry Waldo Hobbie and Frances Helms Hobbie, also of Durham, NC.
Nancy loved life and learning. She earned a BA in Art History from Duke University later in life and it inspired her to be a life-long student thereafter. She attended classes at Oxford University and traveled throughout Europe exploring its great works of art and architecture. Nancy worked for the better part of her career at Duke University in the education department and as a part-time substitute teacher in retirement. She enjoyed shag dancing at the beach, played sports recreationally until her late thirties, volunteered supporting senior care center compliance, and was an active member at her church, Aldersgate United Methodist, in Durham. Nancy was a history buff and actively read and took courses about the early 20th century. She was a voracious reader and enjoyed political and philosophical discourse.
Nancy was a strong, independent spirit and fought her health challenges defiantly every step of the way until the end.
A funeral will be held at Aldersgate Church, 1320 Umstead Rd, Durham, NC 27712, on Wednesday February 20th at 1pm followed by a reception. In lieu of sending flowers, the family asks to respectfully make a donation to your favorite charity in Nancy's honor. She would be proud to assist in leaving the world a better place.
Published by The Herald Sun from Feb. 19 to Feb. 20, 2019.

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Jane Lovette

February 22, 2019

Henry and family, God bless you and your family. Thinking about you. Love, Jane and Edd Lovette

February 20, 2019

Thinking of all of Nancy's family growing up on Knox Street. I was sorry to read about Nancy this morning in the paper, have not seen her in a long time. I send my deepest sympathy and prayers to all of you. Ellen Hinshaw Young

Lynne Brown (Whitaker)

February 20, 2019

Rest In Peace sweet Friend.... I have so many childhood memories of Nancy. She was my best friend growing up on West Knox Street in Durham. I am so thankful we were able to reconnect about 5 years ago and we managed to keep in touch. Heaven has certainly gained a a very special angel❤

Beverly Jackson

February 20, 2019

Nancy was a very special lady.She holds a special place in my heart. We loved having her in our Sunday school class. She will be missed by many. Rest now Nancy, we'll done. You have won the fight.

Patsy Holmes

February 19, 2019

She will always be in my heart. I loved her smile and warm friendly way to all that she met. Rest sweet lady in God's hands..

Jane Crabtree O'Brien

February 19, 2019

A wonderful friend, strong woman, devoted mother and grandmother. I remember our times at West Durham Youth Center when we were teenagers. My best memory was when Patsy and I spent our birthdays with Nancy at OD in 2006. We are March babies, Patsy and Nancy the 4th and mine the 7th.
Love and blessings to Nancy's family.

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