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Scott McLaughlin Hathaway

Scott Hathaway Obituary

Hathaway, Scott McLaughlin
Sept. 28, 1959 - July 17, 2010

Scott McLaughlin Hathaway, 50, of Sarasota, died July 17, 2010.
A celebration of life service will be at 2 p.m. Saturday at the Incarnation Church.
Survivors include his wife, Mary Jane, a son, Evan, a daughter, Lauren and mother, Melissa McDowell, all of Sarasota; a brother, Mark of Genoa City, Wis.; and sisters Holly Welsh of Granby, Colo., and Candace Woltz of Auburn, Calif.
Scott was a loving husband and wonderful father, and will be deeply missed by his family and friends.

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Published by Herald Tribune from Jul. 20 to Jul. 21, 2010.

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Steve Lackey

July 22, 2010

I've thought of Scott often through the years, always with respect for his talent and easy-going personality. A truly good person.

Ruth Albert

July 22, 2010

I worked with Scott for many years at Arthur Andersen/Vertex and then occasionally at Jackson Hewitt. He always had a smile for the ole lady - my condolences on the passing of this gentle soul.

Alan Houtzer

July 21, 2010

M.J. and family,

I met Scott in 1987. He joined a project that I was working on at Arthur. Although I was the incumbent, it was Scott who welcomed me. He brought me to your apartment after work (before any of the kids) where we sat outside and enjoyed the simple pleasure of a long-neck bottle of beer and conversation. Scott had a thing for simple pleasures.

He was best man at our wedding. With Val, we were lunch buddies for year after year. This is really geeky, but Scott and I wrote code together so closely that we once sat back to back and called out programming code to each other, creating the pieces of puzzles that we were assembling. We taught classes, and he would write one part of the course and I would write another.

I doubt that I will ever know another friend like Scott. I'm glad that I had the time that I had with him. I hope that you will also have that kind of gladness. You have been blessed!

Laura Wilson

July 21, 2010

Dear Mary Jane, Evan and Lauren, the news of your loss is very sad indeed. Reflecting on my years working with Scott, I remember his mild manner and willingness to help everyone around him. His sensitive nature was a blessing to everyone. I am very sorry for eveyone's loss and hope that you find comfort in knowing how much of an impact he had on so many people.

Steve Lewis

July 21, 2010

Mary Jane, Evan and Lauren,

My prayers go out to you all. Scott was a wonderful person who was always there when needed. I worked with Scott for many years. I remember the first time I met Scott and how impressed I was with his knowledge and skills. As a tax "geek" and not a programmer, Scott helped me succeed in a world I knew nothing about. I will be forever grateful to him.

May god bless you all.

Kim Shaw

July 21, 2010

Mary Jane, Evan, and Lauren,
I like many others had the pleasure of working with Scott for 20 years. In those 20 years I have never seen his expression change to anything other than a warm smile. Always kind and very easy to work with. He taught me many many things and for that I am eternally grateful.

To Evan - You may not remember me but I remember you played baseball at Cal Ripken. I coached against you. Our ace player hit a shot at you that hit you and knocked your hat off while you were pitching. I think it scared myself and my head coach more than anyone. STILL your father was calm as ever and I can still see that warm smile on his face. He was a great man and I will surely miss him...

My thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Jane Shandoff

July 21, 2010

Mary Jane, Evan, and Lauren,
My first memory of Scott was during one of the Hathaway's visit to Windsor during the summer. Scott was just a toddler and he spoke his first sentence: "Hogies (horses) eat hay". He was a gentle kind soul. My heart goes out to you at this most difficult time.
Love, Jane

Steve Weiss

July 21, 2010

Scott's actions and impact on others speak louder than either his words, or the words that will be spoken or written about him. He truly had the Heart of a Champion. Scott always did his best, he did what was right, and he treated others the way he would want to be treated.

Scott's family and friends are in my thoughts and in my heart.

July 20, 2010

Dear Mary Jane and Family, My family owns a local sandwich shop that Scott frequented. I saw Scott almost on a daily basis while I worked there. It saddens me to realize how little we get to know people even after crossing paths with them daily. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. ~ Cathleen Martirano (Charlie's Steak and Hoagie)

July 20, 2010

Dear Mary Jane, Evan, Lauren, and Melissa,
I have been inspired by Scott's quiet strength and inner peace. He was just about the most kind and considerate person that I have ever known. Even as he was going through this battle, he was more concerned about asking how I was and those around him. I have a firm belief that Scott is at peace. He touched many people with his kindness and was a shining example of how life should be lived. God bless you all.
Peter and Kelly Quarles

Valerie Call

July 20, 2010

How fortunate I was to become Scott's friend and to have that friendship live on for over 20 years. I owe him greatly for the good counsel that he provided, for the confidence he showed in me, for his fairness and sharp mind. Scott was generous - the word doesn't say enough - as he would assist whenever solutions were needed. I've benefited more times than I can count.

A little word for the geeks among us. I shared with my husband Barry how it broke me up to see Scott's entry in Communicator (IM) with his status listing as "out of the office" and how I wanted to see the icon "go green" again to show he was online. Barry brought me back saying that Scott is in another contact list now and the green light is shining there.

Scott was a leader by example. He left us a good path.

Ian Welsh

July 20, 2010

In April 1999 I moved to the USA to marry Scott’s sister Holly. My first meeting with Scott will always stay with me; what a wonderful guy I thought, he welcomed me as if we had known each other for years. He was simply a great guy and as he later became my “bonding buddy”. I will always remember the trips to Sarasota to see the family and spend time with him. Scott even tried, many times, to explain baseball to me. The ski trips to our home in Colorado will also be a fond memory as will the “many” après ski parties, steam’s and times in the cinema; such good times. In closing I must note Scott’s greatest attribute, that of being a wonderful husband and father. If you have not had the opportunity to spend time with Evan or Lauren you should. They are amazing “young adults”, a direct reflection of both their parents. Scott I miss you as I am sure do many others. Thanks for such a good time; I love you.
Ian Welsh – Brother In Law & Bonding Buddy.

Jim Shedivy

July 20, 2010

Dear Mary Jane and Family,

We are truly saddened to learn of Scott's passing and extend our deepest sympathy. He was a beautiful human being, and we're sure that Scott will be missed by so many. May wonderful memories, and the support of all who knew him, sustain you in the days ahead.

Sincerely,
Jim and Lavonne Shedivy

Mike Williams

July 20, 2010

My deepest condolences go out to Scott's family during this difficult time. I worked with Scott for 21 years, with Andersen and Jackson Hewitt. Though quiet in demeanor, Scott was an intense worker who just loved to write code, and he was relentless when it came to tracking down and addressing issues. He was always striving to enhance and improve the programs for which he was responsible, for the benefit of the users and ultimately for the benefit of the organizations to which he was so devoted. Scott's contributions to both Andersen and JH have been immeasurable. His work family, past and present, will miss him greatly.

Sincerely,
Mike Williams

Rodger DeRose

July 20, 2010

Dear Mary Jane and family of Scott,

I heard about Scott's passing from a close associate from Arthur Andersen, Steve Weiss. I worked closely with Scott for 10 years at Andersen and had the deepest appreciation and respect for his capabilities and his gentle way with fellow employees. I send along my deepest sympathy to you and the family during this very difficult time. Please know that Scott was deeply appreciated and respected by all who worked with him at Andersen.

Sincerely,

Rodger DeRose

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