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Dr. Jared Emery

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Jared Emery Obituary

Emery, Dr. Jared M.
1940-2019
Dr. Jared Maurice Emery, aged 79, died in Great Barrington, Massachusetts on November 29, 2019. Born March 4th, 1940, in St. Johnsbury, Vermont to Myrtle May and Charles Edward Emery, he went on to lead a life distinguished by ground-breaking accomplishments in his field, deep love for his wife and his four children, and unfailing kindness to all he encountered.
Jared is survived by his wife of 56 years, Juliet, and their four children: Jessica Emery, Claire Emery and husband Steve Zellmer, Sarah Emery Bradley and husband Bill, and Nicolas Emery and wife Giulia. His eight grandchildren are Justin, Oliver, Emmeline, Liam, Fiona, Owen, Leonardo, and Eleanor. He also leaves behind four siblings: Rebecca Wadsworth, Rose Emery, Daniel Emery, and Kathy Canosa.
In the state of Vermont in 1958, public high school valedictorians were offered a full scholarship to the University of Vermont. So, off he went, from Waterbury High School to UVM: the first in his family to attend college. As luck would have it, during orientation week he met his future wife, Juliet Bergan Emery of Lenox, Massachusetts.
Fulfilling his lifelong goal to become a doctor, Jared graduated in 1966 from the Yale University School of Medicine and went on to The Wilmer Eye Institute at Johns Hopkins for his residency and fellowship in ophthalmology. In 1971, he began his career in academic ophthalmology at the Cullen Eye Institute at Baylor College of Medicine in Houston, Texas.
Jared achieved national and international recognition in his field as a surgeon, innovator, researcher, teacher, and mentor. A true pioneer in the specialized realm of cataract surgery, he was one of the earliest proponents of a technique called phacoemulsification, which is the predominant procedure used today. In the face of intense criticism from conservative ophthalmic circles, in 1974 he conducted a groundbreaking study that established the validity of this procedure once and for all. This study was the critical step that brought phacoemulsification into mainstream ophthalmology and was a turning point in the field of cataract surgery.
As a teacher, Jared taught untold numbers of surgeons and medical students around the world, ultimately training nearly 10% of ophthalmologists in the U.S. His students relate that he was a wonderful role model as a teacher: patient, kind and encouraging.
Jared's hard work earned him a reputation for excellence around the world. He was humbled to operate on figures such as President George H. W. Bush, Lady Bird Johnson, and many others who traveled to him in Houston from around the globe. Despite his considerable accomplishments, he was a modest gentleman who put others at ease and was beloved by his patients.
Jared's old-fashioned and compassionate approach to caring for his patients was distinctive and deeply appreciated. In his own words, "My philosophy in patient care is to provide each patient with the treatment or reassurance they need, realizing that this often takes longer than the time that modern medicine allots to each patient."
In retirement, Jared loved taking pictures of Juliet's beautiful gardens, attending family reunions, perfecting his bread-baking skills, and using his surgical knot-tying skills for making jewelry. A lifelong student and seeker of knowledge, he found deep peace in the teachings of the Episcopal and Congregational churches. He practiced meditation and investigated human consciousness and spiritual life through his extensive reading, conversations and personal practice. One of his greatest joys was traveling the world alongside his lifelong companion, his dear Juliet.
From the challenges of his earliest years in rural northern Vermont throughout his life, the words of the poem "Invictus" by William Ernest Henley held deep meaning for him: "I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul."
He leaves behind a wonderful legacy: the family who loved him and whom he loved unconditionally; the patients whose eyesight he restored; the thousands of people who benefited from the ocular lens he developed; the ophthalmology residents who learned from a master during their training; his many friends and colleagues who knew his kindness, wisdom, and appreciated his gentle ways.
His family would like to extend a heartfelt thanks to the compassionate staff at Kimball Farms LEP (Life Enrichment Program) for their loving care in the last year of Jared's life.
A memorial service for Jared will be held at 11:00 a.m. on January 11, 2020 at the First Congregational Church in Stockbridge, Massachusetts.
Donations may be made in Jared's name to HospiceCare in the Berkshires in care of Roche Funeral Home, 120 Main Street, Lenox, MA 01240.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Dec. 4, 2019.

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Rosemary Emery

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January 1, 2020

I am so sorry I was in the hospital on the day you left us, my dear brother. I was quite out of it when i felt someone pinch my nose very hard, I opened my eyes and no one was there, I know you were very spiritual, Jerry. Was that you? Who really knows. I love you and bragged about my genius bro. I will miss you so much, but have your memories to hang on to. Until we meet again. Love, sis Rosie

Carol Osborne Mason

December 27, 2019

I worked in the Baylor ophthalmology clinic for five years in the early to late 70s. It was crystal clear that Dr. Emery cared a great deal about his patients and he always treated them, as well as the clinic staff, with kindness and consideration. I had a great deal of respect for him.

Lisa Stanhope

December 15, 2019

A finer example of an individual truly does not exist. Uncle Jerry was remarkable, both for his exceptional contribution to mankind -living on in the many physicians he has trained to heal- as well as the indelible mark he has left on his loving family and friends. The sheer beauty of his soul will be left sprinkled among the many he has touched. I will be forever grateful to have had you as my uncle. Rest well, and peace be with you, dearest Uncle Jerry.

Wayne Patterson

December 9, 2019

Our condolences. Janie and I, along with our children, Perrin, Shawn, and Andrew were neighbors many years ago in Houston. It was a great block and a source of many fond memories. Our thoughts are with the family.

Douglass Washburn

December 4, 2019

My Condolence to the family. I was a
classmate of Jared's sister Rose.

I remember my Uncle as a very kind and gentle soul.

Andrea Emery

December 4, 2019

December 4, 2019

Waterbury Vermont's small high school graduated less than
50 students in 1958. Among us a quiet, cheerful friend and our class valedictorian, Jerry Emery, who went on to live a remarkable, fulfilling life. We will miss him and seeing him at our class reunions.

It is a comforting memory to have a photo of Jerry and Juliet at
our 50th reunion in 2008.

Our sincere sympathy to Juliet and the family, Class of '58

December 4, 2019

My Little Brother, Jerry,
You weren't supposed to go before me !

I am comforted by sweet memories of us as children, walking the fields and crossing the brooks together, enjoying nature. In the Spring, you picked wild strawberries "for Mama" and presented them to her on our return. They were crushed in your tiny hand, but she accepted them as if they were gold.
I have so many precious memories of you, and I am truly blessed to have been your sister.
We will meet again.
I love you always,
Beccy

Floyd Guest

December 4, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Daniel Emery

December 4, 2019

What I will miss most about Jerry is Jerry. He was a truly exceptional person in every way.

Danny

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