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Irving Rothman Obituary

Irving Nathan Rothman
1935-2019
Dr. Irving Nathan Rothman passed away on Monday, April 22, 2019. He was 84 years old. He was born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, the son of immigrants, Max Roitman and Ida Weber. The name was changed to Rothman when Max entered America at Ellis Island.
Dr. Rothman was an identical twin. He and Elliot, along with their older brother, were reared in a small apartment above their father's barber supply shop. When the boys were young, their parents took in three more boys, the children of cousins who had been killed in a car accident. All six boys grew up in one small bedroom and they all went on to do remarkable things with their lives. When the twins were about 12 years old, they met a young man, Bob Geminder, who had survived the Holocaust and landed in Pittsburgh unable to speak English. They befriended him and invited him to join their Jewish youth group chapter, the Squirrel Hill chapter of Aleph Zadik Aleph, and that young man became their best friend and remained their best friend until Bob's recent death in January.
Dr. Rothman attended the University of Pittsburgh where he received an undergraduate degree, a Masters' Degree and his Ph.D. in English Literature. He was student editor of The Pitt News from 1955-1957 and also Director of Publications for the University of Pittsburgh.
In 1961, he met Hava Rae Bernstien from Lincoln, Nebraska, who had moved to Pittsburgh to teach special education in a steel mill area high school. They were engaged about seven months later and married in December 1962. They were married for over 56 years. They had two daughters. When the children were young, Dr. Rothman would turn the great classics of world literature into bedtime stories, and the girls would be spellbound. Later, when they went to school, they recognized the classics when the stories of their earliest childhood unfolded in their classrooms.
In 1967 he came to Houston to teach at the prestigious University of Houston Department of English. Dr. Rothman was the longest serving member of the department with a well-known devotion to his students and their education. He served as Director of Graduate Studies for the English Department. He was advisor to the University's ODK Honor Society for many years. He leaves behind legions of grateful students and a few, less talented, who felt he was too tough. One of his finest students from the 1970s, Perry Riggs, came from North Carolina, three weeks ago to visit.
Upon hearing of Dr. Rothman's demise, the current chair of the department remarked in quiet shock that "Dr. Rothman is the department." There is not enough space to adequately express the breadth and depth of Dr. Rothman's fine career.
Dr. Rothman was one of the finest scholars in the world in his area of study. He was one of the leading experts in the world in 18th Century English Literature. In an arena where scholarship, clarity of expression, creativity, and attention to detail all matter, he was peerless. He was studious, brilliant, thoughtful, meticulous, and prolific. He was well published and adhered to rigorous standards and required the same of all around him. He participated in international academic debates in the Journal of Arts and Letters. He was awarded a patent from the U.S. Patent Office in 1978 for an editing desk. He published a multi-volume treatise, The Editions of Daniel Defoe, and he also recently produced Barbers and Barbershops: An Annotated Bibliography, a body of work that spanned decades and pays tribute to his childhood.
In addition to his academic career, he built a wonderful technical writing business. During the energy boom in Texas and afterward, he wrote manuals, procedures and reports for some of the most significant energy and energy service companies: Brown & Root, Gulf State Utilities, Texas Eastern Corporation, Wanda Petroleum, Fluor Constructors, Halliburton, ARCO, Exxon, and others. He worked on the South Texas Nuclear Project and was featured in a full-page story in the May 5, 2008 edition of Chemical & Engineering News. He also wrote for the University of Houston's Space Vacuum Epitaxy Center and for NASA Life Sciences Division, earning a VIP invitation for himself and Hava to view the February 1994 space shuttle launch from the Kennedy Space Center in Florida. Ever unselfish, Dr. Rothman used the revenue from that to ensure that his daughters were able to complete their undergraduate and graduate studies debt-free.
Dr. Rothman was a man of deep and unwavering commitment to his Jewish faith and the State of Israel. Upon moving to Houston in 1967, he and Hava joined Congregation Beth Yeshurun, where they have been active members for all the years since. He served on the Board of Directors for the congregation. He taught religious school at the synagogue for 40 years, having educated a large number of the Jewish youth who grew up in Houston during those years.
He served on the Board of the Jewish Family Service. In 1974, he and Hava were appointed as leaders of that summer's annual Houston Youth Pilgrimage to Israel. This was a seven-week Pilgrimage in which the couple led over 50 young Houstonians to Israel to learn about the Jewish faith and its ties to the land. In 1994, he was awarded the Irving L. Samuels Outstanding Teacher Award for Judaic Studies by the Bureau of Jewish Education of the Jewish Federation of Greater Houston. In 1995, he was awarded the Ner Tamid (Eternal Light) Award. In 2015, Dr. Rothman was named the Minyanaire of the Year, for his faithful attendance at daily prayers; his reason for doing so related to his compassion for others. He wanted to make sure the daily quorum of attendees was met so that anyone who needed to say mourner's prayers would have the required number of people present. He participated in the development of the first Torah Learning College. He raised the funds to rescue a Torah scroll which had survived the Holocaust and bring it to the University of Houston. He devoted countless hours to strengthening Hillel Houston, which serves the University of Houston and Rice University.
His final act of faith was to find the strength to get up and go to synagogue on the Saturday morning before his death, to chant the Haftarah, the ancient way of singing thousand-year old selections from the Books of the Prophets.
He was a Zionist and a believer in the biblical mandate of the Jewish State. Along with his Israeli cousin, David, he was the glue that held his American and Israeli family together and created relationships that endure and are unbreakable today. He was vigilant about watching for and correcting misinformation and anti-Israel propaganda in local newspapers. He was so happy to have been able to visit twice in recent years, accompanied by his wife, his daughter and daughter-in-law. He was proud of the fact that he published in Hebrew on Gulliver's Travels.
He was a man of arts and letters, a man of faith, and above all, a family man. Dr. Rothman is survived by his wife, Hava, daughter Marcy Rothman and her wife, Tammy Pye, daughter Andrea Stoler and her husband Robert Stoler, grandchildren Daniele Miri Stoler and Garrett Nathan Stoler, identical twin brother Elliot Rothman and sister-in-law Martha Rothman, sister-in-law Maxine Rothman and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and extended family in America and Israel. He was a generous spirit and his entire family, the Houston Jewish community, the educational community, and colleagues and friends everywhere will miss this remarkable man.
The funeral will be at Congregation Beth Yeshurun, 4525 Beechnut in Houston, Wednesday, April 24, 2019, at 10 a.m. In lieu of flowers, the family would prefer donations to Congregation Beth Yeshurun for the Greenfield Chapel.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Apr. 24, 2019.

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Matthew Harper

February 6, 2023

I am saddened to learn this news, and even though I am years late, I wept this morning reading this article. Many statements have been made already about Dr. Rothman and they are all true, and I would like to add that while many of us knew him as a professor, we know he wasn't just a professor - he was a mentor. When I first came to UH, he taught my first class. He was my first impression of UH and what would be to come for the remainder of my time there. My time with Dr. Rothman was no more special than that of any other student that walked with him around the campus, that stayed for hours in his office, often talking about works we read and enjoyed but also (and much more frequently) begging him to decipher his hard-to-read handwritten notes on my essays.

I would like to share my favorite memory of him and one of his classes, a memory I only recently was sharing with some friends: In our Jewish American Literature class, Dr. Rothman had us read "The Bagel" by David Ignatow. Upon reading this short, seemingly simple poem, he asked us, "So, what is a Bagel?" After a few moments, we started to raise our hands, stating it was a metaphor, or symbolism for life in America...while we are offering possible answers, a not impressed Dr. Rothman stops pacing, returns to his desk and states firmly "How do all of you not know what a bagel is? It is bread, round with a hole..."
The next class, Dr. Rothman brought us all bagels, since, we had "made it to college without somehow ever eating a bagel."
While I may be misremembering some of the details and paraphrasing some parts, I doubt I or anyone else in that class will ever forget that moment, or many others we shared with Dr. Rothman.

Tomas Banos

January 20, 2022

I first met Dr. Rothman in Spring of 1987. I was a poor Hispanic 20 year old kid from a working class family and really did not know what I was going to do with my life. Like countless English majors before and after me, I was a student in his 18th century literature class. I had just changed my major to English and taking his class solidified my choice. The class was immensely interesting and Dr. Rothman was an immensely scholarly professor. I later took his 20th century fiction class and still have all of the books on my shelf of classics (along with my well worn 18th century literature textbook). Thirty-five years later I can honestly say that he was one of the handful of people that truly influenced the trajectory of my life.

One day after class, he asked if I could work for him as a proof reader on an oil and gas magazine that he edited. I jumped at the chance. Several months later he recommended me to a law firm as a data summarizer. Over the next year or so, I had several conversations with him about law as a career and because of these conversations I found the self-confidence to apply to law school and become a lawyer (he graciously wrote my letter of recommendation).

When my father died in 2015, I took stock of my life and realized how much of an influence Dr. Rothman had been on me. I will always regret that I did not visit him in 2016 or 2017 as I had planned. I will always remember his professionalism, his dry wit, his graciousness, and his kindness and even though belated, I give my condolences to his family. It was a blessing and an honor to have crossed paths with him in this life.

Amy Williams

June 22, 2020

I'm so sorry to hear you have passed. I thought of you today, as I have many great memories from your classes. You had such a impact on our lives. Thank you, Dr. Rothman!

Linda Herring

March 12, 2020

Dr. Rothman, how sad I am to read of your passing but how honored I am to have been your student. Your devotion to scholarship and sacredness are insurmountable.

SD H

December 30, 2019

As one often does in the last days of the year, in this case of a decade, I've spent time remembering people in my life whose memory lives with me still.
One of these people was Dr Rothman.

I graduated from UofH in 1994 and had the privilege of taking 2 classes with this amazing man.

I consider myself lucky to have studied with him, and I think of him often

SDH

512 Hunt Club Drive

July 5, 2019

Irv Rothman helped change my life during my student days on the campus newspaper at Pitt. He boosted me for awards and recognition. He lifted my development by several notches. I was able to locate him a few years back in Houston where he was still working in the academic world and I had the opportunity to thank him several times. You are lucky when people such as Irv Rothman come along to lift you higher. May he rest in peace. He was a good man. Best, Jim O'Brien, Pittsburgh sports author and historian

R Verma

June 21, 2019

Dr. Rothman was a great professor, a true scholar and a thorough gentleman. I feel it was my great fortune to have known him. I will miss him.

Elaine Claiborne

May 7, 2019

To Hava and family...This noble man, our dear Irving, has been a steady inspiration to many for years. When I fixed a Kosher meal for Hava and Irving at our table in KC, he praised my efforts and always managed to bolster my confidence, whatever the endeavor. Ron, Gill, Billy and my Mother loved him too. I know he's at peace now. Rest well, Irving.
Elaine Claiborne

Regina Noble

April 29, 2019

Marcy and Family,

Please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss. By all accounts, your dad's life was one superbly well-lived, making and leaving indelible, loving memories for those whose lives he touched. May those memories comfort you in this time of mourning and remembrance.

Victor

April 27, 2019

UH people, this week we lost a treasure of a man.
This week, I felt a great tremor in The Force. My favorite English Professor, Irving Rothman, PhD. passed away. What he did for me would require a book to tell. He is the reason I didn't change majors to Economics and why English is a way of life for me. He did what I believe I aspire to do every day he made the irrelevant relevant and gave meaning to literature. There are different kinds of English majors. I tend to classify them like this: those who plan on going to graduate school to pursue other ambitions, those who love words and language and don't care if they have employable skills later in life (that was me) and then there are those who study literature in the same way philosophy students study philosophy literature is studied to search for meaning in life. That is the kind of student I became. And I became this way because of my professor, Irving Rothman PhD. In education today, we often say education must be relevant to the kids, or they won't engage. But a lot of what we teach, or is in our curriculum is completely irrelevant to the kids. This is a quandary. What to do? Make the irrelevant relevant and give it meaning. One semester, we had to study Tristram Shandy, a British novel no kid in the class wanted to read, not even the Cliff Notes. Of course, I had to give the presentation on it. We always had to teach in Dr. Rothman's class every kid. I had him for The British Novel I, II and III and Restoration and 18th Century Literature lots of dry, irrelevant works. I go to him, like Danielsan to Mr. Miyagi and ask him Sir, how am I going to get their attention with this? He did not hesitate. Focus your study on fiddlesticks and sausage making. I laughed, but he was serious. He told me Go to the library, get off on the 5th floor and go through the pathway, turn left, go down 2 rows of shelves. Look up and walk down until you see a lime green book. In that you will find what you need. That's how well he knew all 8 floors of the UH library. I took this book no one wanted to read and we had a blast with it for an entire class, what was supposed to be a 20 minute presentation. I have a million stories about this man and my years as his research assistant, but the most important one is that if you know how to look with your eyes and heart, everything in life has meaning. He was my first Mr. Miyagi and I was his Danielsan. He was my Master Po and I was his Caine. He was my Mik and I his Rocky. I will miss him very much.

Ronald Scott

April 26, 2019

As a graduate of the University of Pittsburgh I knew Irv when he was a young graduate student there and linked up again later when I moved to Houston. He and Hava often attended functions of the Houston Pitt Alumni Club and he enjoyed meeting younger Pitt Alumni and discussing their Pittsburgh roots and current professions that had brought them to Houston. He was always a good friend and a wise academic scholar. He will be missed, but his many friends will always Remember. I think the word in Hebrew is "Zachor."

Sam Brawand

April 25, 2019

I had the honor to work with Irving Rothman in the spring of 2016. He was delightful. I am sorry to hear of his passing. Whenever I think of him, I think of the ending lines of the poem, "The Blue Birds" by Alexander Wilson. I saw my first Blue Bird of the season this past Saturday, perched outside my office, and its visit brought thoughts Irving. He included this poem in his writing:
. . .
While spring's lovely season, serene, dewy, warm,
The green face of earth, and the pure blue of heaven,
Or love's native music have influence to charm.
Or Sympathy's glow to our feelings are given,
Still dear to each bosom the Blue-Bird shall be;
His voice, like the thrillings of hope, is a treasure;
For, through bleakest storms, if a calm he but see,
He comes to remind us of sunshine and pleasure!

Rest peacefully and thank you for your service to humanity.

S.B.

Chris Brady

April 24, 2019

Dr. Rothman is and always will be one of my favorite teachers. He had a way of instilling the most difficult lessons in an impactful manner, and he strongly encouraged against the use of the word "thing" in all its permutations. He made better scholars and writers of all his students, and we were lucky to have had the opportunity to learn and get to know him.

Thomas Wigington

April 24, 2019

I am sorry for your loss. Always remember that God is loving and kind and He cares for you. 1Peter 5:6,7

Darlene Hanks-Villarreal

April 24, 2019

Dr. Rothman was a frequent customer of mine at the University of Houston Art Department. I worked with him on many illustrations and pages for his many published works. He was a man of wit and very devoted to his work. I saw him and his wife recently at a nearby restaurant and we visited. I'll alway remember him fondly. May he be at peace.

The Becker Family (Jeff, Shelley, Ryan & Alec)

April 24, 2019

What a remarkable man, brother, son, husband, father, and grandfather. It is obvious that he was an inspiration and example for all privledged to know him. He has left a lifelong legacy. His life truly was a blessing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all his wonderful family. May your wonderful memories of this amazing man help comfort you.

Bonnie McIlveen

April 24, 2019

What a wonderful life he lived. So sorry for your loss, prayers for the family. May he Rest in Peace.

Annita Menogan and David Greene

April 23, 2019

How beautiful! What an amazing man Dr. Rothman was; how does one even keep track of such a full, accomplished life?? What a wonderful tribute. We see his legacy in his family and all that they have accomplished following his example. We loved reading his story. We are sorry we never had the opportunity to meet him. Our hearts are with you.

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