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Joyce, Bill, & Stacy - (9/28/2007) - Cathy & John's Wedding
July 31, 2009
Cathy, Joyce, Stacy
July 31, 2009
Stacy, Granny, and Aunt Patty - (9/28/2007) - Cathy & John's Wedding
July 31, 2009
Claire, Mallory & Stacy - (2009) - Who wouldn't want an interior designed by these girls ??
August 14, 2009
Stacy and the Tom family - (05/2004) - Lamar Graduation - Austin, Preston, Eric and Alec, Momma Tom, Granny, Phylllis and Dan
August 13, 2009
Jane, Stacy, Preston & Travis - (09/2007) - Whooping it up at Cathy & John's Wedding
August 13, 2009
Kendra, Laura, Papa, Stacy & Cathy - (12/2006) - Nice bookends for Papa !
August 13, 2009
Laura and Stacy - (12/2006) - How 'bout a smile for Xmas ?
August 13, 2009
With Grandad - (05/2009) - He's so proud of you Stacy!
August 12, 2009
Stacy's Artwork - People were Stacy's best subject in art and life
August 10, 2009
Stacy and Papa - (05/2004) - Proud Papa
August 10, 2009
Stacy and Jenny - (05/2004) - Lamar High grad !
August 10, 2009
Stephanie and Stacy - How about a litte hug ?
August 10, 2009
Stacy, Mal and Tay - (05/2009) - Who can laugh longest ?
August 10, 2009
Stacy and Bennett - (05/2009) - Always leaning on each other
August 10, 2009
Stacy and Jane - Traveling buddies
August 10, 2009
Apt 409 - (2005) - What a fun group!
August 9, 2009
Graduation at UT - (05/2009) - What a happy day!
August 9, 2009
Peas in a pod - Stacy and Cathy in the house on W 34th
August 9, 2009
Bubbles - (07/2009) - Bubbles always made her laugh
August 8, 2009
Suzie Derkins - Stacy's tutor nicknamed her Suzie Derkins from the Calvin & Hobbes cartoon
August 8, 2009
Always Smiling
August 8, 2009
Sam
March 8, 2019
I came upon the story of Stacy and her life while perusing the internet today. Until today, I did not know of her or her life. Please allow a complete stranger to add his condolences to the family of such a warm and loving young lady.
Your passing has touched me deeply. Perhaps it is your resemblance to my dearly departed. Perhaps it is your radiant smile and the loving thoughts left here by those who knew you. Whatever the reason, know that you are greatly missed and will be loved forever.
You were a wonderful soul and touched many lives with your joy and spirit. You remind me so much of someone I have lost.
I thank you for being such a warm, giving and loving person. This world was better for having you in it. Thank you for reminding me of beauty, kindness and love. I will be forever in your debt.
I do not pretend to know you or your family. But I feel a kinship and a closeness to you and them that is difficult to describe. May your loved ones find peace in the knowledge they will see you again.
Rest in peace Stacy. For you are loved. And you will be forever cherished.
In the end, I hope we can all find solace in the fact that you outlived us all.
Michael Garland
November 16, 2018
I only know of Stacy because of the tragic outcome of her too short life, but her family and friends should take comfort in knowing that it appears she saw and gave far more love than many people who out lived her by thrice. I hope to be able to adopt some of this young woman's courage and strength, as it takes both to love and support as she apparently did. To the young woman and young man whom this all too familiar crime was perpetrated on, may you both rest not only in peace, but ( at least in Stacy's case because I haven't read as much about him ) also in assurance that you may not have reached your full potential, but you sure as the sun is hot set a very good example of a loved one one is....
pres,dori, aust,sharon,eric,alec
September 5, 2018
Happy Birthday Stacy ,
Stacy's Tree at the West University Colonial Park
Elaine Roberts
July 20, 2018
September 5, 2017
Happy birthday Stacy , miss you
love,
pres and dori
July 21, 2017
In our hearts,
love,
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi
September 5, 2016
Missing you , especially today . Happy Birthday Stacy .
Love,
preston,dori,austin,sharon,
eric and alec
Nancy Kwallek
April 8, 2016
Thinking of you--especially today,
Love,
Dr. K
December 27, 2015
Thinking of you always especially now .
Love,
Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin, Kristi
September 5, 2015
Happy Birthday Stacy , love you and miss you.
austin
July 21, 2015
Love you.
aunt phyllis
July 21, 2015
Thinking of you Stacy ,
love,
Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin, Kristi
January 1, 2015
Hate these days - they're supposed to be happy, but when they mean another year without you here, they just can't be. We miss you so so much Stace. Big hugs to you in heaven.
Your sissy
December 27, 2014
Stacy, Aunt Shevonnie and Uncle Tommy had us over on Christmas day and we really miss you . The last time we had Christmas there , you were with us. I still remember that Christmas. You had a pretty black dress on and diamond earrings. You were glowing with holiday cheers and I remember thinking what did your mom and you do to get your teeth so even and white and beautiful.We miss you a lot and the boys go with me to the cemetery and at school your bench comforts them . You are there.Your mom , dad and Cathy are pillars of strength and I admire them.
I love you and wish you were here.
aunt phyllis
December 25, 2014
Thinking of you always ,Merry Christmas Stacy .
love,
Aunt Helen, Kristi, Uncle Darin
September 5, 2014
Happy Birthday Stacy,
love,
austin
Austin
July 21, 2014
Miss you Stacy
Love,
Rachel
July 21, 2014
I miss you so much, not just today, but every day. I had a chance to catch up with your parents and sister this weekend and play with your adorable niece and nephew. I see so much of you in them, and it makes me smile. I know you're looking down and doing the same. Love, love, love :)
July 21, 2014
Thinking of you with love.
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi
May 7, 2014
So Soory!
[email protected]
Cathy
April 10, 2014
There will never be words to describe how much we miss you Stace. Now that we're back in town near all the things we grew up around, it's that much harder to be here without you. What I wish most is that you could be see the kids grow up and play with them and make them laugh and giggle like you always did. I know you would have been the very best aunt. Sending you so much love and big hugs up there.
Emily
January 16, 2014
Stacy, I didn't know you very well but we went to school together and I remember you were one of the sweetest people I have ever met. I was just thinking about you today as I do occasionally. I'm glad I found this book because I really want your family to know that my memory of you inspires me to be a better person, even to people I don't know very well. I wish there were more people in the world like you.
December 25, 2013
Missing you so much today. Remembering all those mornings opening presents together. Part of me is missing. Love you, your Sissy
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas Stacy,you are in our hearts always,
love,
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi
November 28, 2013
Thinking of you as always . Remembering
you especially today , thinking of all the wonderful things that you did for us in the past, thank you for looking after us now.
Always missing you,
love,
aunt phyllis
Cathy
October 25, 2013
We all miss you so much. It's still so strange that time is going by without you here. Love you Stace.
September 5, 2013
Thinking of you,Happy Birthday Stacy,
love,
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin, Kristi
September 5, 2013
Happy Birthday Stacy!
love you,miss you.
austin
Maggi Gori
September 3, 2013
Maggie Gori
8:44pm Aug 31
hi cathy,
thank you for accepting my request to be in stacy's facebook page a few weeks ago. we have never met and unfortunately i only met stacy a handful of times, but it was enough to leave a lifetime of impressions on me that i will never forget. one of my good friends from st. edward's university lived with taylor de la torre and i recall us three girls talking in taylor's room with most of her conversations revolving around past and future plans with stacy. they were always such fun stories. she and stacy seemed to have the most beautiful and genuine friendship that i really admired. when i finally met stacy i was blown away how someone at such a young age could be so graceful, classy, genuine, and profoundly sweet. most people in college are a bit of a mess but stacy just always seemed to have this calm and happy aura around her. i wish i could have known her better and feel honored to have shared even a few moments with her. i hope that in my life i can evolve into a person that leaves even half the impression that she did. since her passing i always wanted to write you or your parents but did not know when/how would be the right time. there are no words to express how sorry i am for the loss that your family went through. most people hope to know someone like stacy in their life for even a moment. being someone that didn't have very close relations with her, i can only imagine how special and lucky it feels to have had her as a best friend or sister.
take care,
maggie
Cathy
July 23, 2013
On Sunday, Jack had to bring all his ugly dolls. He asked Dad about you at church. When I play with the kids, I just can't believe that you're not here to play with them and laugh with them. They would have had so much fun with you. I know you would have been the best aunt. We miss you so much every minute of every day. Love you Stace.
Love, Dad
July 22, 2013
Bubbles, bubbles, bubbles. Ever since those last pictures of you playing with bubbles they have cheered me up. Sunday I was sitting in my easy chair, the same easy chair you used to climb into so we could watch your favorite shows. I was thinking how much better life would be if you were still here. Just then a bubble (Mom was washing dishes) floated right in front of my face. So I suppose in many ways you are here – just not in the same old ways. I'm still adjusting . . .
July 21, 2013
Stacy, I miss you, love
austin
July 21, 2013
We love you,
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi
April 12, 2013
Hey Stacy, finally managed to get your monument in place. Hope you like it - if not, rain on us Sunday! Love, Dad
March 14, 2013
At the park today there was a mom and her younger sister playing with her two little kids. It was so painful to watch and hold back tears. I can't even imagine how much fun you would be having right now with Jack and Stacy. We love you, Cathy
February 21, 2013
You would love that the Top Chef finale is at Craft in Century City, LA too. We had so much fun there celebrating your 22nd birthday. What a great memory. Love you Stace.
Dad
February 8, 2013
Hey Stacy, bumped into you on Pinterest:
http://pinterest.com/utsoa/our-buildings/
Always thinking of you,
December 25, 2012
Merry Christmas Stacy, miss you.
love,
aust,pres,eric,alec
December 25, 2012
Thinking of you Stacy .
love,
Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin , Kristi
December 24, 2012
Christmas can never be the same without you. We miss you so much. Love, love, love you Stace,
Cathy
December 14, 2012
Oh, this period from Thanksgiving to New Year's is the worst of all. Seems like it goes on forever and each day is even harder. It's strange for everyone to be celebrating and happy when your heart hurts and we miss you so much more. We're always thinking of you. Never stop.
Love you so so much, Cathy
November 22, 2012
Miss you Stacy ! You would be cooking for all of us today and making sure we were all taken care of. Love you.
eric,alec,aust,pres
October 27, 2012
We will miss you even more today as Stacy gets baptized, but we all know that you are watching over her and Jack as their heavenly godmother. Love you, Cathy
Trang Nguyen Maglitto
October 25, 2012
Hey Stace,
Steven and I moved into our new home. We will be forever reminded of you, it is on Stacy Park Circle.
love - Trang
October 24, 2012
I too think of Johnny and Stacy all the time and what could have been, but I have only sensed Johnny and he has come to me in dreams to reassure me. But not recently, so that I think it means that he may have moved on. I sense a peace with them and all of my memories of Stacy are so happy.
We are blessed that we had them in our lives and that we have such strong families and friends to support us.
with love, Claire
Dad
October 23, 2012
Pretty amazing Stacy, all in the past two weeks - Milly said she felt your spirit in her Church in the Phillipines, we rec'd a photo album from Coach Beck with all your soccer buddies, Joste talked about you at Eva's wedding and Ann, a friend from work, said you convinced her in a dream that you were happy. Pretty amazing.
September 5, 2012
happy birthday stacy!
love austin
September 5, 2012
Thinking of you today . Happy Birthday Stacy!
Love ,
Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin, Kristi
August 11, 2012
Still thinking of you Stacy. Saw a movie last evening, "An Unfulfilled Life," wherein the father in the movie regularly visited his son's grave and talked with him. Reminds me of your father communicating with you--marvelous way to keep you in our hearts.
Nancy Kwallek, UT
July 21, 2012
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched .They must be felt with the heart.
Helen Keller
We love you so much ,
aunts almaz and phyllis
July 21, 2012
Thinking of you today... Love, Candace, Marc & Anna Cation
July 21, 2012
Stace,
Juno was on the other day and Project Runway started its tenth season this week - just two of your favorites. I love seeing things that remind me of you. Just wish that we could piece them all together and it would bring you back. Miss you so much. Love you always.
Love, love, love.
Cathy
July 21, 2012
You are in our thoughts always , especially today.
With love,
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi
Samantha Ramos
July 20, 2012
Mcfrassy,
You are an incredibly special person. I think about you and all the joy and happiness from our friendship comes rushing back. Here is an assortment of our memories ... Our joyrides around town( From Kirby to MLK), Onion Creek, you setting up my first AOL sn to join the bariee bunch, all of the post cards you sent me throughout the years so I could share the experience, you and Janie picking me up from the airport, picking up "homies" collectibles and laughing at their priceless taglines, rollerblading in West U, being cult followers together for Audrey Tatou and Wynona Ryder, you always laughing at my sense of humor even when i wasn't funny, gossiping with you (because sometimes you had a teensy hard time keeping a secret) and always having fun on our many many of adventures. You really taught me how to define a friendship, showing me a lot of faith and a lot of love. Stacy bear you set the bar pretty high! Always there with a kind word of encouragement and smile on your face. Your footprints will always be in my heart. I love you and I miss you a ton.
May 9, 2012
I miss your thoughtful birthday cards. They always made me feel so good and loved. I can't truly enjoy my birthdays without you. I miss you even more on special days. Wish you were here. Love, love, love you, Cathy
April 7, 2012
It's times like these that are so bitter sweet when we miss you even more. I can see you playing with Jack and holding little Stacy's hand. I just wish with all my heart and soul that it could be real. I know that you're there are them as their guardian angel. We all love you, Cathy
Hout Bay, South Africa
Dad
March 1, 2012
I know you were there with us in South AFrica – I felt you there, I saw you there. We were on the boat cruising around the indescribably beautiful Hout Bay – cruising through water that seemed like liquid sapphire. The air was so clear I felt I could see to the end of the universe. The towering cliff at the point loomed over us and I got sad thinking about how much fun you would have had. Right then a few seagulls flew out to greet us and I saw you silhouetted against the cliffs – diving and soaring, swooping down over us. I knew it was you, you alone followed us all the way back to the dock. I know you are sublimely happy, I feel it. I know you are experiencing our lives through us. Love you Stacy.
February 23, 2012
Stace,
I hate that you're missing so much. Nothing is the same without you. Wish you could be here for everything. As my shower approaches and the due date, I miss you even more, if that's possible.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy
January 14, 2012
Stacy,in this new year teach us to love as you love , to be unselfish as you are unselfish , to be generous as you are generous , to be patient as you are and all the other goodness that you are.
December 30, 2011
Nothing is the same without you. Nothing is quite right. We miss you so much, especially during the holidays. Wish you could be here to watch Jack open his gifts. And give me hugs to calm me down.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy
December 25, 2011
I know that you were with us today as we cooked Papa's favorite foods on his wok and outdoor stove in the back yard. Miss you more than ever,Stacy.
love,
austin
December 25, 2011
In this beautiful season of Christmas ,you are especially in our thoughts.With love,
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi
Dad
December 19, 2011
Your memories are like butterflies - bright, sparkling dashes of color dancing and swirling through my head. When I think of you apart from us the sadness is so dense I can't breathe. You came through us, lived in us - there was no us without you. Part of us lies with you and part of you breathes in us. This is the time of year you would come home, sleep for a day and then start handing out candy canes. I miss that, that and so many other things. Love you, punkin.
preston
December 5, 2011
hey cousin!
my last final is this saturday, another semester another year gone by in law school...man i miss you tons...if the weather is right, i plan on lighting up our makeshift fire pit and making a few smores for the twins, you can watch them have their first smores with us! oh and travis has a girlfriend so kristi and I have to give him "the talk", hahah! i will let you know how it goes!
smile always
November 25, 2011
Stace,
We really missed you at Thanksgiving. It was weird to be around all our cousins and Mom's family without you there, laughing with all the boys. I couldn't help but imagine it as we all sat there watching movies. Every day is hard without you, but the holidays are especially tough. We miss you beyond words. Wish I could get one of your hugs right now and always.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy
November 24, 2011
Miss you cousin , more than ever.
love,
pres, aust, eric , alec
November 24, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving Stacy
We all think about you and miss you every day.
November 7, 2011
I was just going through our senior yearbook for some reason and I found what you wrote to me. I miss you so much and wish you were here to laugh with me and remember all the silly things we did over the course of our 12 years as friends. Not a day goes by where I don't think about you. I love and miss you tons.
XOXO
R
Trang
September 27, 2011
Stace,
I miss you. Who doesn't? You would drive across town to pick me up and we would go out just the two of us, you made me feel so special. We would have our movie night. The last movie we saw was Mambo Italiano. I will never forget how much you had touched my heart, you gave unconditionally and I was amazed that you chose to be my friend. I wish you were here so I can ask your advice. I loved your ear and your shoulder, your advice and your spirit.
September 5, 2011
Happy birthday, Stace!
See- you didn't need to be on Facebook for us to remember your birthday- even though we always joked about why that was the reason you should join! Thinking of you today and always, and I know that you're up there celebrating and dancing the night away. Love you and miss you.
September 5, 2011
Happy Birthday Stacy, we love you
Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin,Kristi
September 5, 2011
Thinking of you , Happy Birthday Stacy.
Love,
austin
August 21, 2011
I saw two quotes recently that are so true:
"You want to memorialize someone, you do it here and here (pointing to his heart and head). You tell people about them." (from Show Rescue Me about firefighters after 9/11)
"You don't move on. You adjust your life. I have not adjusted my heart to his loss, but have reached a point where I'm calm." (ten years after losing her husband on 9/11)
Stace, we can never move on or get over losing you. We'll always make sure that people know how important you are to us. You will always be in our hearts and minds.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy
August 7, 2011
Stac,
Everyone missed you so much at Steph's wedding, especially me, Mom, Dad, and Steph. It was just like you would have wanted yours - small, short, and sweet. We were glad that it was at one of the places where you spent time volunteering. Jack had a good time with the turtles. You would have laughed a lot.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy
July 30, 2011
Stacy
My thoughts are with you and your family
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