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Stacy Barnett Obituary

On the 21st of July 2009, STACY MARIE BARNETT passed away in Austin, Texas. She was twenty-two years old. Stacy was born in Houston, Texas on the 5th of September, 1986 to Joyce and Bill Barnett and her sister Cathy. Stacy attended West University Elementary School and Lanier Middle School. She graduated from Mirabeau B. Lamar High School in 2004 with highest honors and just graduated with a degree in Interior Design from the School of Architecture at the University of Texas in May of this year. She was moving back to Houston to pursue a career in Interior Design. Stacy enjoyed internships with the architecture firms of L. Barry Davidson and Zeigler Cooper. She also dedicated many hours to charity work including Texas Children's Hospital and the Austin Museum of Art. Most people were unaware that Stacy's ever-changing hair styles were a result of her ongoing participation in the Locks of Love program during the past six years. Stacy travelled extensively with friends and family. The trips were always a joy due to Stacy's unbridled enthusiasm, thorough planning, and sense of adventure with a Frommer's guide always at hand. Stacy loved driving down Allen Parkway with the windows down, wind in her hair, and the words of her favorite songs coming through the speakers. Her love for art, music, and literature showed through in her passion for life which she shared with her large group of friends. During her brief life Stacy touched the hearts of so many with her bright smile and constant laughter. Her memory will be a living inspiration. She is survived by her parents, Joyce and Bill Barnett; her sister, Cathy Lawrence and husband John Lawrence; her grandfather, Ray Barnett and her many aunts, uncles, cousins and countless friends who loved her more than they can express. A beautiful light has gone out of this world. We love you Stacy and we miss you. Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from five o'clock in the afternoon until eight o'clock in the evening, with a vigil service to be conducted at seven o'clock in the evening, on Sunday, the 26th of July, in the Jasek Chapel of Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive, in Houston. A funeral mass will be celebrated at ten o'clock in the morning on Monday, the 27th of July at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church, 6800 Buffalo Speedway, in Houston. Rite of committal will follow, via an escorted cortege, at Glenwood Cemetery, 2525 Washington Ave., in Houston. In lieu of usual remembrances, memorial contributions may be directed to St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church, 6800 Buffalo Speedway, Houston, TX 77025.

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Published by Houston Chronicle from Jul. 25 to Jul. 26, 2009.

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Joyce, Bill, & Stacy - (9/28/2007) - Cathy & John's Wedding

July 31, 2009

Cathy, Joyce, Stacy

July 31, 2009

Stacy, Granny, and Aunt Patty - (9/28/2007) - Cathy & John's Wedding

July 31, 2009

Claire, Mallory & Stacy - (2009) - Who wouldn't want an interior designed by these girls ??

August 14, 2009

Stacy and the Tom family - (05/2004) - Lamar Graduation - Austin, Preston, Eric and Alec, Momma Tom, Granny, Phylllis and Dan

August 13, 2009

Jane, Stacy, Preston & Travis - (09/2007) - Whooping it up at Cathy & John's Wedding

August 13, 2009

Kendra, Laura, Papa, Stacy & Cathy - (12/2006) - Nice bookends for Papa !

August 13, 2009

Laura and Stacy - (12/2006) - How 'bout a smile for Xmas ?

August 13, 2009

With Grandad - (05/2009) - He's so proud of you Stacy!

August 12, 2009

Stacy's Artwork - People were Stacy's best subject in art and life

August 10, 2009

Stacy and Papa - (05/2004) - Proud Papa

August 10, 2009

Stacy and Jenny - (05/2004) - Lamar High grad !

August 10, 2009

Stephanie and Stacy - How about a litte hug ?

August 10, 2009

Stacy, Mal and Tay - (05/2009) - Who can laugh longest ?

August 10, 2009

Stacy and Bennett - (05/2009) - Always leaning on each other

August 10, 2009

Stacy and Jane - Traveling buddies

August 10, 2009

Apt 409 - (2005) - What a fun group!

August 9, 2009

Graduation at UT - (05/2009) - What a happy day!

August 9, 2009

Peas in a pod - Stacy and Cathy in the house on W 34th

August 9, 2009

Bubbles - (07/2009) - Bubbles always made her laugh

August 8, 2009

Suzie Derkins - Stacy's tutor nicknamed her Suzie Derkins from the Calvin & Hobbes cartoon

August 8, 2009

Always Smiling

August 8, 2009

Sam

March 8, 2019

I came upon the story of Stacy and her life while perusing the internet today. Until today, I did not know of her or her life. Please allow a complete stranger to add his condolences to the family of such a warm and loving young lady.

Your passing has touched me deeply. Perhaps it is your resemblance to my dearly departed. Perhaps it is your radiant smile and the loving thoughts left here by those who knew you. Whatever the reason, know that you are greatly missed and will be loved forever.

You were a wonderful soul and touched many lives with your joy and spirit. You remind me so much of someone I have lost.

I thank you for being such a warm, giving and loving person. This world was better for having you in it. Thank you for reminding me of beauty, kindness and love. I will be forever in your debt.

I do not pretend to know you or your family. But I feel a kinship and a closeness to you and them that is difficult to describe. May your loved ones find peace in the knowledge they will see you again.

Rest in peace Stacy. For you are loved. And you will be forever cherished.

In the end, I hope we can all find solace in the fact that you outlived us all.

Michael Garland

November 16, 2018

I only know of Stacy because of the tragic outcome of her too short life, but her family and friends should take comfort in knowing that it appears she saw and gave far more love than many people who out lived her by thrice. I hope to be able to adopt some of this young woman's courage and strength, as it takes both to love and support as she apparently did. To the young woman and young man whom this all too familiar crime was perpetrated on, may you both rest not only in peace, but ( at least in Stacy's case because I haven't read as much about him ) also in assurance that you may not have reached your full potential, but you sure as the sun is hot set a very good example of a loved one one is....

pres,dori, aust,sharon,eric,alec

September 5, 2018

Happy Birthday Stacy ,

Stacy's Tree at the West University Colonial Park

Elaine Roberts

July 20, 2018

September 5, 2017

Happy birthday Stacy , miss you

love,
pres and dori

July 21, 2017

In our hearts,

love,

Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi

September 5, 2016

Missing you , especially today . Happy Birthday Stacy .

Love,

preston,dori,austin,sharon,
eric and alec

Nancy Kwallek

April 8, 2016

Thinking of you--especially today,

Love,

Dr. K

December 27, 2015

Thinking of you always especially now .

Love,

Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin, Kristi

September 5, 2015

Happy Birthday Stacy , love you and miss you.

austin

July 21, 2015

Love you.

aunt phyllis

July 21, 2015

Thinking of you Stacy ,

love,
Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin, Kristi

January 1, 2015

Hate these days - they're supposed to be happy, but when they mean another year without you here, they just can't be. We miss you so so much Stace. Big hugs to you in heaven.
Your sissy

December 27, 2014

Stacy, Aunt Shevonnie and Uncle Tommy had us over on Christmas day and we really miss you . The last time we had Christmas there , you were with us. I still remember that Christmas. You had a pretty black dress on and diamond earrings. You were glowing with holiday cheers and I remember thinking what did your mom and you do to get your teeth so even and white and beautiful.We miss you a lot and the boys go with me to the cemetery and at school your bench comforts them . You are there.Your mom , dad and Cathy are pillars of strength and I admire them.
I love you and wish you were here.

aunt phyllis

December 25, 2014

Thinking of you always ,Merry Christmas Stacy .

love,

Aunt Helen, Kristi, Uncle Darin

September 5, 2014

Happy Birthday Stacy,

love,
austin

Austin

July 21, 2014

Miss you Stacy

Love,

Rachel

July 21, 2014

I miss you so much, not just today, but every day. I had a chance to catch up with your parents and sister this weekend and play with your adorable niece and nephew. I see so much of you in them, and it makes me smile. I know you're looking down and doing the same. Love, love, love :)

July 21, 2014

Thinking of you with love.

Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi

May 7, 2014

Cathy

April 10, 2014

There will never be words to describe how much we miss you Stace. Now that we're back in town near all the things we grew up around, it's that much harder to be here without you. What I wish most is that you could be see the kids grow up and play with them and make them laugh and giggle like you always did. I know you would have been the very best aunt. Sending you so much love and big hugs up there.

Emily

January 16, 2014

Stacy, I didn't know you very well but we went to school together and I remember you were one of the sweetest people I have ever met. I was just thinking about you today as I do occasionally. I'm glad I found this book because I really want your family to know that my memory of you inspires me to be a better person, even to people I don't know very well. I wish there were more people in the world like you.

December 25, 2013

Missing you so much today. Remembering all those mornings opening presents together. Part of me is missing. Love you, your Sissy

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas Stacy,you are in our hearts always,

love,
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi

November 28, 2013

Thinking of you as always . Remembering
you especially today , thinking of all the wonderful things that you did for us in the past, thank you for looking after us now.

Always missing you,
love,
aunt phyllis

Cathy

October 25, 2013

We all miss you so much. It's still so strange that time is going by without you here. Love you Stace.

September 5, 2013

Thinking of you,Happy Birthday Stacy,
love,
Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin, Kristi

September 5, 2013

Happy Birthday Stacy!

love you,miss you.

austin

Maggi Gori

September 3, 2013

Maggie Gori
8:44pm Aug 31
hi cathy,

thank you for accepting my request to be in stacy's facebook page a few weeks ago. we have never met and unfortunately i only met stacy a handful of times, but it was enough to leave a lifetime of impressions on me that i will never forget. one of my good friends from st. edward's university lived with taylor de la torre and i recall us three girls talking in taylor's room with most of her conversations revolving around past and future plans with stacy. they were always such fun stories. she and stacy seemed to have the most beautiful and genuine friendship that i really admired. when i finally met stacy i was blown away how someone at such a young age could be so graceful, classy, genuine, and profoundly sweet. most people in college are a bit of a mess but stacy just always seemed to have this calm and happy aura around her. i wish i could have known her better and feel honored to have shared even a few moments with her. i hope that in my life i can evolve into a person that leaves even half the impression that she did. since her passing i always wanted to write you or your parents but did not know when/how would be the right time. there are no words to express how sorry i am for the loss that your family went through. most people hope to know someone like stacy in their life for even a moment. being someone that didn't have very close relations with her, i can only imagine how special and lucky it feels to have had her as a best friend or sister.

take care,

maggie

Cathy

July 23, 2013

On Sunday, Jack had to bring all his ugly dolls. He asked Dad about you at church. When I play with the kids, I just can't believe that you're not here to play with them and laugh with them. They would have had so much fun with you. I know you would have been the best aunt. We miss you so much every minute of every day. Love you Stace.

Love, Dad

July 22, 2013

Bubbles, bubbles, bubbles. Ever since those last pictures of you playing with bubbles they have cheered me up. Sunday I was sitting in my easy chair, the same easy chair you used to climb into so we could watch your favorite shows. I was thinking how much better life would be if you were still here. Just then a bubble (Mom was washing dishes) floated right in front of my face. So I suppose in many ways you are here – just not in the same old ways. I'm still adjusting . . .

July 21, 2013

Stacy, I miss you, love

austin

July 21, 2013

We love you,

Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi

April 12, 2013

Hey Stacy, finally managed to get your monument in place. Hope you like it - if not, rain on us Sunday! Love, Dad

March 14, 2013

At the park today there was a mom and her younger sister playing with her two little kids. It was so painful to watch and hold back tears. I can't even imagine how much fun you would be having right now with Jack and Stacy. We love you, Cathy

February 21, 2013

You would love that the Top Chef finale is at Craft in Century City, LA too. We had so much fun there celebrating your 22nd birthday. What a great memory. Love you Stace.

Dad

February 8, 2013

Hey Stacy, bumped into you on Pinterest:

http://pinterest.com/utsoa/our-buildings/


Always thinking of you,

December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas Stacy, miss you.
love,
aust,pres,eric,alec

December 25, 2012

Thinking of you Stacy .
love,

Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin , Kristi

December 24, 2012

Christmas can never be the same without you. We miss you so much. Love, love, love you Stace,
Cathy

December 14, 2012

Oh, this period from Thanksgiving to New Year's is the worst of all. Seems like it goes on forever and each day is even harder. It's strange for everyone to be celebrating and happy when your heart hurts and we miss you so much more. We're always thinking of you. Never stop.
Love you so so much, Cathy

November 22, 2012

Miss you Stacy ! You would be cooking for all of us today and making sure we were all taken care of. Love you.

eric,alec,aust,pres

October 27, 2012

We will miss you even more today as Stacy gets baptized, but we all know that you are watching over her and Jack as their heavenly godmother. Love you, Cathy

Trang Nguyen Maglitto

October 25, 2012

Hey Stace,

Steven and I moved into our new home. We will be forever reminded of you, it is on Stacy Park Circle.

love - Trang

October 24, 2012

I too think of Johnny and Stacy all the time and what could have been, but I have only sensed Johnny and he has come to me in dreams to reassure me. But not recently, so that I think it means that he may have moved on. I sense a peace with them and all of my memories of Stacy are so happy.
We are blessed that we had them in our lives and that we have such strong families and friends to support us.
with love, Claire

Dad

October 23, 2012

Pretty amazing Stacy, all in the past two weeks - Milly said she felt your spirit in her Church in the Phillipines, we rec'd a photo album from Coach Beck with all your soccer buddies, Joste talked about you at Eva's wedding and Ann, a friend from work, said you convinced her in a dream that you were happy. Pretty amazing.

September 5, 2012

happy birthday stacy!

love austin

September 5, 2012

Thinking of you today . Happy Birthday Stacy!

Love ,
Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin, Kristi

August 11, 2012

Still thinking of you Stacy. Saw a movie last evening, "An Unfulfilled Life," wherein the father in the movie regularly visited his son's grave and talked with him. Reminds me of your father communicating with you--marvelous way to keep you in our hearts.

Nancy Kwallek, UT

July 21, 2012

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched .They must be felt with the heart.
Helen Keller

We love you so much ,

aunts almaz and phyllis

July 21, 2012

Thinking of you today... Love, Candace, Marc & Anna Cation

July 21, 2012

Stace,
Juno was on the other day and Project Runway started its tenth season this week - just two of your favorites. I love seeing things that remind me of you. Just wish that we could piece them all together and it would bring you back. Miss you so much. Love you always.
Love, love, love.
Cathy

July 21, 2012

You are in our thoughts always , especially today.
With love,

Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi

Samantha Ramos

July 20, 2012

Mcfrassy,
You are an incredibly special person. I think about you and all the joy and happiness from our friendship comes rushing back. Here is an assortment of our memories ... Our joyrides around town( From Kirby to MLK), Onion Creek, you setting up my first AOL sn to join the bariee bunch, all of the post cards you sent me throughout the years so I could share the experience, you and Janie picking me up from the airport, picking up "homies" collectibles and laughing at their priceless taglines, rollerblading in West U, being cult followers together for Audrey Tatou and Wynona Ryder, you always laughing at my sense of humor even when i wasn't funny, gossiping with you (because sometimes you had a teensy hard time keeping a secret) and always having fun on our many many of adventures. You really taught me how to define a friendship, showing me a lot of faith and a lot of love. Stacy bear you set the bar pretty high! Always there with a kind word of encouragement and smile on your face. Your footprints will always be in my heart. I love you and I miss you a ton.

May 9, 2012

I miss your thoughtful birthday cards. They always made me feel so good and loved. I can't truly enjoy my birthdays without you. I miss you even more on special days. Wish you were here. Love, love, love you, Cathy

April 7, 2012

It's times like these that are so bitter sweet when we miss you even more. I can see you playing with Jack and holding little Stacy's hand. I just wish with all my heart and soul that it could be real. I know that you're there are them as their guardian angel. We all love you, Cathy

Hout Bay, South Africa

Dad

March 1, 2012

I know you were there with us in South AFrica – I felt you there, I saw you there. We were on the boat cruising around the indescribably beautiful Hout Bay – cruising through water that seemed like liquid sapphire. The air was so clear I felt I could see to the end of the universe. The towering cliff at the point loomed over us and I got sad thinking about how much fun you would have had. Right then a few seagulls flew out to greet us and I saw you silhouetted against the cliffs – diving and soaring, swooping down over us. I knew it was you, you alone followed us all the way back to the dock. I know you are sublimely happy, I feel it. I know you are experiencing our lives through us. Love you Stacy.

February 23, 2012

Stace,
I hate that you're missing so much. Nothing is the same without you. Wish you could be here for everything. As my shower approaches and the due date, I miss you even more, if that's possible.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy

January 14, 2012

Stacy,in this new year teach us to love as you love , to be unselfish as you are unselfish , to be generous as you are generous , to be patient as you are and all the other goodness that you are.

December 30, 2011

Nothing is the same without you. Nothing is quite right. We miss you so much, especially during the holidays. Wish you could be here to watch Jack open his gifts. And give me hugs to calm me down.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy

December 25, 2011

I know that you were with us today as we cooked Papa's favorite foods on his wok and outdoor stove in the back yard. Miss you more than ever,Stacy.
love,

austin

December 25, 2011

In this beautiful season of Christmas ,you are especially in our thoughts.With love,

Aunt Helen,Uncle Darin,Kristi

Dad

December 19, 2011

Your memories are like butterflies - bright, sparkling dashes of color dancing and swirling through my head. When I think of you apart from us the sadness is so dense I can't breathe. You came through us, lived in us - there was no us without you. Part of us lies with you and part of you breathes in us. This is the time of year you would come home, sleep for a day and then start handing out candy canes. I miss that, that and so many other things. Love you, punkin.

preston

December 5, 2011

hey cousin!

my last final is this saturday, another semester another year gone by in law school...man i miss you tons...if the weather is right, i plan on lighting up our makeshift fire pit and making a few smores for the twins, you can watch them have their first smores with us! oh and travis has a girlfriend so kristi and I have to give him "the talk", hahah! i will let you know how it goes!

smile always

November 25, 2011

Stace,
We really missed you at Thanksgiving. It was weird to be around all our cousins and Mom's family without you there, laughing with all the boys. I couldn't help but imagine it as we all sat there watching movies. Every day is hard without you, but the holidays are especially tough. We miss you beyond words. Wish I could get one of your hugs right now and always.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy

November 24, 2011

Miss you cousin , more than ever.
love,

pres, aust, eric , alec

November 24, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving Stacy
We all think about you and miss you every day.

November 7, 2011

I was just going through our senior yearbook for some reason and I found what you wrote to me. I miss you so much and wish you were here to laugh with me and remember all the silly things we did over the course of our 12 years as friends. Not a day goes by where I don't think about you. I love and miss you tons.
XOXO
R

Trang

September 27, 2011

Stace,

I miss you. Who doesn't? You would drive across town to pick me up and we would go out just the two of us, you made me feel so special. We would have our movie night. The last movie we saw was Mambo Italiano. I will never forget how much you had touched my heart, you gave unconditionally and I was amazed that you chose to be my friend. I wish you were here so I can ask your advice. I loved your ear and your shoulder, your advice and your spirit.

September 5, 2011

Happy birthday, Stace!
See- you didn't need to be on Facebook for us to remember your birthday- even though we always joked about why that was the reason you should join! Thinking of you today and always, and I know that you're up there celebrating and dancing the night away. Love you and miss you.

September 5, 2011

Happy Birthday Stacy, we love you

Aunt Helen, Uncle Darin,Kristi

September 5, 2011

Thinking of you , Happy Birthday Stacy.
Love,

austin

August 21, 2011

I saw two quotes recently that are so true:

"You want to memorialize someone, you do it here and here (pointing to his heart and head). You tell people about them." (from Show Rescue Me about firefighters after 9/11)

"You don't move on. You adjust your life. I have not adjusted my heart to his loss, but have reached a point where I'm calm." (ten years after losing her husband on 9/11)

Stace, we can never move on or get over losing you. We'll always make sure that people know how important you are to us. You will always be in our hearts and minds.

Love, love, love you,
Cathy

August 7, 2011

Stac,
Everyone missed you so much at Steph's wedding, especially me, Mom, Dad, and Steph. It was just like you would have wanted yours - small, short, and sweet. We were glad that it was at one of the places where you spent time volunteering. Jack had a good time with the turtles. You would have laughed a lot.
Love, love, love you,
Cathy

July 30, 2011

Stacy

My thoughts are with you and your family

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