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Honorable Carroll Obituary
Marion County - The Honorable Thomas Joseph Carroll died peacefully on October 5th at the age of 78.
Tom is survived by his wife of 52 years, Carolyn (Fox) Carroll, children T.J. (Catherine) Carroll of Indianland, South Carolina, Adam (Kristen) Carroll of Carmel, Indiana, and grandchildren Jacob, Ally and Avery. His children and grandchildren remember him as a generous and loyal person who encouraged them to work hard and pursue their dreams.
He was born on August 12, 1941 in Muncie, Indiana to Joseph and Lillian Carroll. He graduated from Scecina High School and Indiana University. He was also a graduate of the Indiana University Robert H. McKinney School of Law in Indianapolis in 1967.
He met Carolyn while they were both working for the Indiana Court of Appeals and were married on August 26, 1967. After being admitted to the bar, he worked as a Law Clerk for Federal District Court Judge James N. Nolan. He then worked as an attorney in private practice for twenty years. In 1988 he was appointed Judge of Marion County Municipal Court by Governor Robert D. Orr and re-appointed by Governor Evan Bayh. He retired January 1, 2019 serving out his last six year elected term as Judge of Marion County Superior Court after 31 years on the bench.
His time on the bench can be summed up by the quote from Harry S Truman, "I never gave anybody hell. I just told the truth and they thought it was hell."
Tom was actively involved in the community as a PTA member and officer, volunteer coach and referee, and a Charter Member of the School-to-Career Program. This program enables students to serve apprenticeships and experience job shadowing in various career positions, as well as facilitating school tours of the court system. As a Superior Court Judge, he saw the importance of involving our youth in school and career activities. Tom said, "I have devoted my entire legal career to two things that mean very much to me - the responsible administration of civil justice and the betterment of my community and Marion County through my role as an attorney and judge."
Prior to taking the bench he was a part owner in several Thoroughbred race horses.
A private ceremony will be held by the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in honor of Judge Carroll to the McKinney Law Fund at the Indiana University McKinney School of Law at the Indiana University Foundation, PO Box 6460, Indianapolis, IN 46206-6460, or online at https://mckinneylaw.iu.edu/giving/index.html.
The family would like to thank staff at the IU Simon Cancer Center for their compassion and care.
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Memories and Condolences
for Honorable Carroll
Joseph Romer
April 24, 2020
I knew Tom from the East Side. I know he was from Scecina. I was a few years younger. I think we were at Lourdes together in the 50s. If anyone knows whether he went to Lourdes let me know. He helped me a lot during a difficult time in my life - when I was a teenager. My condolences to Tom's family. Joe Romer, Washington, DC
February 19, 2020
Carol, TJ, Adam,
Brent, Chad and I are so sorry for the reason we are reminiscing about our fun times in Ridge Hill Trails with Tom and all of you. We talked about our days at the pool; usually from 10 to 5, and when Tom and Roger would get home. Roger would stand on the deck and wave to us; that was our signal to abandon the pool and think about dinner. Many evenings I pulled food from the refrigerator and pantry, while you did the same, and we trudged across the cul-de-sac to eat with you. Brent and Chad remember that Tom frequently made chocolate malts for them; their treat after dinner. They also remember Tom piling all four boys in the back of your station wagon, dropping the tailgate, and driving them around the neighborhood; they thought that was cool. More memories: Tom taking them to court one day; going downtown late on Christmas night to buy annual Hallmark Christmas ornaments (which they both received when they married, so Tom is remembered and thanked each Christmas). We all remember Tom's favorite attire after work boxers and a t-shirt. Once he got caught in that attire for our come as you are party. Being the good sport, he came early as caught, but added jeans before others arrived. Roger and I always enjoyed trips to Churchill Downs to watch your horses' race. The memories and love for all of you continue. Tom was one of the greats, an example for us all; our world needs more like him!!
January 24, 2020
Soards and Carroll was much more than a law firm.
We were great friends and enjoy our times together.
Mary (Soards) Pennington
January 23, 2020
It is difficult for me to express how much he meant to me and how grateful I am for all that he did for me. He took a chance on hiring me twenty years ago. He was a great man and an outstanding judge. I learned so much from him about trying cases and all of the other duties and responsibilities of the position. He always supported me in my work. I have thought of him often this past year and missed seeing and talking to him at work every day. I have many great memories of the years that I worked for him.
Chris Haile, Magistrate
Marion County Superior Court
January 23, 2020
Tom was a good friend and a fine Judge. We will miss him and his wry sense of humor! He made the Court a fun place to work.
Judge Cynthia J Ayers
Catherine Carroll
November 26, 2019
I met you before I knew you. I met you the first time I experienced an honest person, not honest because they were being "good", honest because it was just a core part of who they were.
I met you the first time I experienced commitment, the kind you have for people no matter what life brings you. The first time I experienced honor, sacrifice, intelligence, justice and generosity.
I met you for dinner the night your son brought the girl home he would eventually be married to 23 years later. We had beef burgundy, sat in the dining room and you observed and listened more than you spoke. Your love for TJ and life long desire for him to have the best life had to offer were present... as were all of those qualities I had experienced before, but had never known to exist in one human being. It was intimidating but there was just something about you that let me know, I was lucky to be at that table and that the man I loved would require the best I had to offer because you had raised him to believe that is what family is.
I grew to know and love you in person as our marriage grew and then on April 5th, 2000 I met the "you" that would continue on in this world after you left it. Thomas Jacob Carroll is a constant reminder to me of who you were, and when I miss you, all I have to do is listen to his compassion for those who deserve justice, watch as he works diligently to follow his dreams and holds the world to no less accountability than he holds himself... and I am reminded of you.
I am reminded of a man who taught me that honestly comes before all, that family is an unbreakable bond, that I am worth hard work and not settling for less, that it is ok to laugh at myself and that you can disagree with someone you love and still love them very deeply.
I met you before I knew you, I was blessed in a way I can not express in words to have experienced life with you, as your daughter-in-law, and I am forever thankful to you for pouring into the man who has stood by my side through thick and thin because you taught him that... you taught us all that dad.
Your life is marked with so many accomplishments but all someone has to do is look at those of us that remain Mom, Ally, Avery, Jacob, Kristen, Adam, TJ, Miche and I to know you always considered us your greatest prize.
December 13th 2018 was declared Thomas Joseph Carroll Day by Mayor Joe Hogsett for Tom's thirty-one (31) years of public service
Carolyn Carroll
November 20, 2019
November 19, 2019
Honestly, there are too many memories to recount. Our Great Uncle Tom was in an instrumental part of our clan. Whether he took your ear for a quick snack, watched a Colts game with candy or chased us around Nana and Papa's house, we always felt the connection with our Great Uncle Tom. One of our fondest Uncle Tom staples was the 4th of July. He would always show up with show-ending fireworks. And not just one or two or three, but hundreds of amazing fireworks. Growing up all the cousins would pick which firework they wanted to send up and we would orchestrate the order in which we would go. There was no doubt we always would have the best home firework show in the area. We will never forget looking up onto the driveway and seeing Uncle Tom's smiling face as we were launching fireworks. Each year we will be able to watch the 4th of July fireworks and know that now Uncle Tom has the best seat in the house to watch them.
Sending all our love and prayers to this amazing Honorable Great Uncle Tom,
The Gunderman children
(Seth, Luke, Joel, Jana and Allison)
August 13th 2018 Kristen Ally Avery Adam
Carolyn Carroll
November 19, 2019
from Mayor Joe Hogsett
Carolyn Carroll
November 17, 2019
from Congressman Andre Carson
November 17, 2019
December 31st 2018 @ Shapiro's Deli taken by Ann Osborne
November 16, 2019
Ginny McGee
November 16, 2019
Tom will be greatly missed by all that knew him. Bill grew up knowing and adoring, Tom. The first time I met Adam's Dad, I was able to understand why. He had such a great way about him and such a solid presence...a perfect blend of confidence and kindness, intelligence and humor. He was always so warm and welcoming to me. I enjoyed every interaction and every conversation I had with Tom. I will always remember that great big, joyful smile of his. In fact I can't remember seeing him without a smile, probably because I was around him in the happiest of places...like Vegas, Indy 500 parades. Rest In Peace, Tom, in your forever happy heavenly place.
Richard Clem
November 15, 2019
I met Tom in September 1970, when I started to Clerk for Jim Neel, who was a good friend of and law school buddy of Tom's. That started what I am happy and proud to say started an almost 50 year friendship. We owned thoroughbreds together, one of who was very good, and I was the "mystery bidder" when we sold Promising Native at Keeneland. I would come into his Court periodically and in chambers we would exchange stories, some of them true and perhaps some of them not, but they were always enjoyable. We also always had to compare our respective current medical conditions. I last saw him the last week he was on the bench, and was so sorry to hear of his passing. Both Brenta and I want to pass on to Carolyn and their family, our sincere and heartfelt condolences.
Dick Clem
Jane Magnus-Stinson
November 15, 2019
Tom was a straight shooter, and always looked out for the little guy. Despite his gruff exterior, he couldn't hide his love for his family, and his affection for his friends. I smile imagining his reunion with Judge Mayer. I know they have a lot of catching up to do.
I have been reminded of his longstanding commitment to public service on a daily basis as he is pictured in my chambers on the Judge Nolan law clerk composite photo.
My deepest sympathy to Carolyn, the Carroll boys and the grandchildren who were the lights of his life.
November 15, 2019
Dearest Carolyn and family, Marcel and I send our deepest sympathy on your loss. Tom Carroll was a fair and conscientious jurist, well known for his quick wit, sharp sense of humor, and compassion for justice. He was well loved and respected in the Indianapolis legal community. May he rest in peace.
Tanya and Marcel Pratt
Beth & Lillie McDougall May 2019
November 15, 2019
Carolyn carroll
November 15, 2019
Admitted to the Bar in 1968
Carolyn Carroll
November 15, 2019
Judge Heather Welch & Linda Journey 9/2019
November 14, 2019
Magistrate Chris Haile, Terry Dailey, Judge John Hanley & Magistrate Burnett Caudill
Carolyn Carroll
November 14, 2019
Federal Judge Tonya Walton Pratt with Tom
November 14, 2019
Tom & Adam @ Center Cut Steakhouse
November 13, 2019
Terry & Helen Dailey with us @ Bazbaux Pizza 2019
November 13, 2019
Tom & Carolyn @ JW Marriott for Brunch 2019
November 13, 2019
Jacob's Dedication Hartsville, SC 2000 Nana, Papa, Uncle Dick & Aunt Ruby
November 13, 2019
Elisabeth McCandless Edwards
November 12, 2019
So sorry to hear this, Kristen M Carroll. Judge Carroll was always fair and kind to me and to my clients. Thinking of you all during this time.
Ed Treacy
November 12, 2019
A great friend, a character & a great Democrat
Carol Fischer
November 12, 2019
So sorry to hear of the loss of your wonderful father. Prayers to your family.
Angela Krahulik
November 12, 2019
So sorry to see this and know the world and legal community have lost a great man and your family is forever to miss a great dad and grandfather. Thinking of you, Kristen M Carroll and Adam Carroll!❤
Bob Parke
November 12, 2019
Adam sorry to hear about your dad. I have many great memories of your parents and at your house. I'll never forget 1720 Ridge Hill Ln. Prayers to you and the family.
Marc Sedwick
November 12, 2019
Of all the judges I've been in front of, Judge Carroll is the best. I'll never forget him calling me out as a newby lawyer in front of the jury in 2006. He was an awesome person and my sincere condolences to his family .... Judge Carroll was excellent!
Kristen Carroll
November 9, 2019
When Tom and I first met, I was a law student intern in his Court. He embodied everything I imagined a Judge would be. He had a stately and intimidating presence and expected all those who appeared before him to be prepared. He had a vast knowledge of the law and appreciation of the legal process. Soon after my time at his court, I would meet and fall in love with his son, Adam. I remember when Adam and I went out to dinner with his parents for the first time. Tom and I got into a "discussion". I had a rebuttal to each comment he made and did not back down from my opinion. Tom loved it and had a big smile on his face. We had a special bond from that moment on. I loved talking to him about the law and life - I miss those moments.
What brought Tom joy more than anything was being with his family- traveling the world providing lasting memories -and because of this we have been to some amazing places and experienced adventures we would have never been able to experience.
Although I respected Tom for what he had accomplished professionally and am so grateful for the relationship that I had with him, his sweet soft role of Papa to our girls -playing bear and chasing them around the house and getting down on the floor with them-is the part of him that I am blessed to have seen. The smile on his face every time he saw our girls is etched forever in my heart.
I am thankful that Tom treated me like a daughter. I love and miss you Dad. Your daughter, Kristen Carroll
"Your wings were ready, but my heart was not."
Megan Barber
November 7, 2019
I will always remember the amazing times we had out with Judge Carroll and his family during the Indy 500. Thank you for treating us like family. He is greatly missed by many, so grateful I got to know him. May you Rest In Peace. Sincerely,Megan Barber
November 6, 2019
Tom was one of the smartest judges i ever knew. His contributions to the betterment and independence of Indiana's judiciary will resonate for many years. He was a loyal friend and colleague and i was very fortunate to have been his friend for over 30 years. My sincere condolences to his family. May God grant him peace.
Terry Crone
At the White House
Dick and Ruby Fox
November 2, 2019
Memories are a wonderful thing. Dick and I have had many wonderful times with Tom and Carolyn. One of our first times traveling together was a trip to Hartsville, South Carolina. Tj and Catherine lived there with their infant son Jacob. We had the honor to go to his dedication at their church.
We had another trip to Tybee Island with Tom and his two sons and families. Had fun staying in a beautiful beach house catching crabs in traps with chicken parts for bait. Tom arranged many more trips for us, he loved to travel and make all the plans. Especially, his favorite city, Washington DC. We were there for opening session of the United States Supreme Court in 1999.
Tom and Dick even went to Colorado to pan for gold. They met Tim, Tom's brother for dinner in Colorado. Fun, but no gold! We will be forever grateful for Tom's generous heart. He was always asking how our children Lauren and Eric were doing. They loved Uncle Tom and will miss him.
Much love to a generous man,
Dick, Ruby, Laura and Eric Fox
Vince Wong
November 2, 2019
My deepest condolences to Mrs. Carroll, TJ, Adam and their families. Judge Carroll was like a second father to me in my childhood. He and Mrs. Carroll graciously welcomed me into their home, which served as a happy place for my childhood. Many hours were spent in their living room, basement, and backyard, which hosted many basketball, football, and sledding competitions. He inspired me to go to law school, and generously wrote many letters of recommendation on my behalf. Judge Carroll loved his family and was very proud of his boys who have grown up to be fine men, carrying on his legacy. Judge Carroll was a pillar and leader in our community and he will be missed.
Ruth Reid
November 1, 2019
I met the judge years ago through my sister Jean Acton. She was his court reporter for many, many years. We shared pictures and stories over the Internet of our grandchildren and their sports. He was a very proud grandfather. I feel like I got to know the family well and watch the kids grow up.
I was on chemo when he was diagnosed, so we had a lot of late night emails back and forth. We talked about our treatments and the unpleasant side effects. Through it all, the judge was more concerned about Carolyn and the family than himself. He was a very caring and compassionate man who will be missed by all who knew him.
My deepest condolences
Ruth Reid
Ruth Reid
November 1, 2019
Ruth Reid
Fairfield, Ca.
I met the judge years ago through my sister, Jean Acton. She was his court reporter for many, many years.
We sent pictures and stories over the internet of our grandchildren and their sports. He was a very proud grandfather. I feel like I got to know the family well and watch the kids grow up.
I was on chemo when he was diagnosed, so we had a lot of late night emails back and forth. We talked about our treatments and the unpleasant after effects. Through it all, the judge was more concerned about Carolyn and the family than himself. He was a very caring and compassionate man who will be missed by all who knew him.
My deepest condolences
Ruth Reid
Jean Acton
October 31, 2019
I met Tom Carroll in July of 1970 when I was hired by Judge Joseph Myers to be his secretary/court reporter. Tom sat pro tem for us for many years. When Judge Myers retired, Tom was appointed Judge of Marion County Municipal Court. He asked me to stay on, which I did. That was the best decision I ever made.
I eventually met his lovely family and saw TJ and Adam grow into young men who married wonderful girls. When the grandchildren began arriving, Tom became a typical grandpa - he adored those children. I was so sorry when he told me he had cancer. I was fortunate to have been able to talk with Tom in the evenings. One night he told me we had talked for 16 minutes. We'd been laughing and reminiscing about our good old court days. It was uplifting to hear him laughing.
Carolyn, Tom told me how lucky he was to have you taking care of him and cooking for him every day. You were definitely the wind beneath his wings. Hugs to you and the children.
Love,
Jean
Honorable, Scherry "SK" Reid
October 31, 2019
Tom was a guiding force in my life, both as a Judge and as a human being. We had our differences but he always supported me in whatever endeavor I chose to pursue. His wisdom was invaluable...and I am eternally grateful to have counted him as a confidant and dear friend.
This I know about my friend Tom: he loved Carolyn, his children and grandchildren more than anything in this world. And, he was fiercely loyal to his family. But, I also know this truth about my friend Tom; he loved his little dog, Mische, with all his heart and openly doted on her. He kept her "treats" close at hand where he could dole them out at her begging. His love for Mische was followed closely by his desire for, and love of, a scoop of good ice cream as often as he could get it. (whether in shakes or just straight up). Not a bad life; a wonderful family and the gift of good ice cream and a loving dog.
Brian Lively
October 26, 2019
I remember making the best fruit salads, extra large bowls of Ice cream, and shooting off fireworks. We played pool and ping pong in the basement. Chris and I would get the hand me down Atari game systems. We also went to the horse track to watch his horses run. I enjoyed talking with him on various topics. I will miss him. My prayers to all the family.
Kim and Tom Gunderman
October 26, 2019
In a family of wonderful people, we are honored to have had Uncle Tom as a guide and mentor. His generosity and candid guidance were invaluable to us as a couple. Our very existence as a couple was particularly due to his influence early in our relationship reminding us of the blessing of a good marriage which he had experienced with Auntie Carolyn for many years and the necessity of intentionally nurturing the commitment to each other. With our children we will always have fond memories of the fourth of July celebrations as a whole family. Our lives have been enriched by Uncle Tom's influence and he will be greatly missed!
Susan Macey
October 25, 2019
The Truman quote sums up a lot of my memories of Tom. When I was a new judge, he was my mentor and even when I didn't want to hear it, I needed to hear it and Tom had a way of just knowing that. I was lucky enough to get to know Carolyn and always sensed we were soul sisters. Tom, on the other hand, thought we were weirdos:-) but loved us anyway. Tom helped me find the best part of myself especially as I was navigating some rough personal waters. Carolyn, Adam and T.J. - you were his world and he was always so grateful and proud to be your husband and father. When the daughter-in-laws and grandkids came along, Tom's softer side was never more evident in our conversations. I wish his stay in this world could have been longer but I am comforted by knowing it was filled with love, friendship, honor, gratitude and .... lots of starlight candy mints. You did your way, good buddy, I will miss you. Carolyn, I am here if you ever need an ear or just want to share a memory or create a new one!
October 24, 2019
My sincerest condolences to all members of the Carroll and extended families. I had the privilege to get to know many of you over the course nearly the past couple decades. Judge Carroll was an honorable family man of the highest integrity. His love for his family and friends was immeasurable and cannot be replaced. I have no doubt that his legacy will continue through his loving wife, children and grandchildren as well as those of the future Carroll children to be welcomed into this world.
Judge Carroll, may you rest in peace and know that you provide comfort in the times that remain ahead through the fond, loving and generous memories that your loved ones will cherish forevermore.
Carolyn and kids, lets keep those ornamental grasses watered that your dad and I planted together. He and I put a lot of love and TLC into making those neighborhood islands and your family yard admired by all.
Much love and admiration to you all!
Michael Burgett
Judge Carroll
Amitav Thamba
October 23, 2019
Kate Shively
October 22, 2019
My condolences to the Carroll family. I didn't know Judge Carroll, personally, but I knew of him because he worked with my dad, Judge Ryan. About twenty years ago, we learned that I was teaching with Judge Carroll's niece, Mandy Daley Harper. And when I took a break from teaching, moved states, and returned to Indiana it was their friendship that put me back in touch with Mandy after many years.
In addition, Judge Carroll helped bring my dad into the 21st Century through texting. It's no secret that my dad is not tech savvy, but I think it's because of Judge Carroll that dad knows how to use his iPhone. I think he'd tease dad, What do you mean you don't have a smart phone? Get with the times! After dad finally decided to get one, Judge Carroll coached dad how to use his smart phone (better than any of his kids could show him). I use to joke around with Mandy, Your uncle is the best smart phone coach out there!
I know their friendship was more than text messages nevertheless I'm going to miss hearing about how dad learned something new about his phone from Judge Carroll. After all, it's the small things in life that bring us joy Thank you Judge Carroll. And thank you for reconnecting me with my teaching pal, Mandy!
May our fond memories bring the Carroll Family comfort.
My favorite was when Uncle Tom (&AC) gave Mishe Coke! That was hilarious
Jayden Harper
October 21, 2019
Greg Dial
October 21, 2019
My condolences to the Carroll family. So many good memories of Tom, Im not sure where to start. Adam and I met in middle school and ended up at Purdue together. In that amount of time I remember Tom observing our basketball games in his backyard to him telling us we were duped by our landlord at Purdue. There were trips to the car shows in the convention center and a trip to Nashville to see what Vanderbilt was all about. Through it all, Ill always remember that Tom never sugar coated anything. He told you like it was and thats a hard quality to find these days. He was very proud of his family with good reason.
nancy debaun
October 21, 2019
As the beloved husband of my friend for some 60+ years, Tom was the go-to guy whenever we "girls" had a problem or a question of any legal matter. He was a "rock" in the community, but where I saw it personally was as a husband, a father and a friend.He was the devoted source behind our friends' adoption of their daughter and has remained in their lives until his passing. He had a compassionate heart for righteousness and justice and he led his own life as he did his life behind the bench. He was a gentleman and a true servant of the people. He led an honorable life indeed.
October 21, 2019
Tom was always such a friendly guy and I loved his '"easy" smile and laugh! He worked hard for many years and was as such a good role model for his family. May all of the good memories stay in your hearts and, Carolyn, you have such good "rocking chair" memories!
Julia Crecelius
I remember when we visited Uncle Tom at court! That was fun
Kaylyn Harper
October 20, 2019
Nasser Hanna
October 19, 2019
It was such an honor and privilege to have known Judge Carroll. He was a remarkable, honorable, dignified man whose life positively impacted so many. I saw him face his serious medical issues with grace, dignity, and courage. At the end of his life, he was thinking about his family and not himself. I enjoyed talking about current affairs with him. He was so interesting, thoughtful, and engaging. He will be so greatly missed by so many, including all of those whose lives he touched during his many decades of service.
October 18, 2019
I hardly feel old enough to say this, but I remember when Uncle Tom first started dating Auntie Carolyn. I always enjoyed my stimulating conversations with my uncle about current events. He liked introducing me to his hobbies; especially teaching me about handicapping the horses at Churchill Downs.
My whole family will remember our fantastic fireworks show each Fourth of July due to his generosity.
I am fortunate to have fond memories of such a wonderful uncle. He will be greatly missed.
Chris Lively
Julie Rasmussen
October 18, 2019
I have only known Judge Carroll since February of this year as I have helped care for him in his illness. I always enjoyed seeing him and his family as they came to appointments. They were always pleasant, kind and appreciative and always had a smile to give. Wish I could have know him before he got sick. My condolences to his family as they will grieve deeply . Many blessings to all of you.
Julie Rasmussen RN from IU
Mandy Harper
October 17, 2019
Uncle Tom was one of the most generous people I've been blessed to know. Anytime he and AC were cleaning house, he'd think of the Harpers first. We've gotten so many "hand me downs" that really look like new. He also was generous when it came to food! Anytime I would come over after a day of teaching, he would always have my faves stock piled. Later my children enjoyed sneaking handfuls of candy which just made Uncle Tom grin. It's full circle because I remember many childhood memories of sneaking cookies and treats from Ridge Hill Trails.
But what I will miss most of all is the conversations with him. He LOVED talking about a variety of current events and I just adored his no nonsense approach and comments. He always taught me something new and made me giggle. R.I.H.
Bill McGee
October 17, 2019
To the Carroll family, I am so sorry for your loss. Judge Carroll was a great man who had a very positive impact on my life. I first met him when I was in 6th grade and for the next 33 years I was blessed with his wisdom, advise (whether I wanted it or not) and his friendship.
Some of the best memories I have of Judge Carroll were the times we spent in Las Vegas and his multiple attempts to educate me on the art of horse betting. We would go through blood line, previous races, lasix, turf vs dirt... He typically had numerous preprinted pages of data he expected me to analyze. I never was close to his level of preparation and knowledge but the look of pride on his face when I won my first trifecta pick was priceless.
He encouraged me as a young teenager to attend gun safety and hunter education courses as Adam and I loved hunting. That probably saved my life (and Adams). After graduating from Purdue, Adam and I were excited as young bachelors to purchase our first condominium in Broad Ripple. We had just one problem - no credit. Judge Carroll co-signed for us! After we closed, he proceeded to give Adam and I some priceless life advise.
I will always cherish all the great memories we shared and will miss him very much.
October 17, 2019
Ossie and I enjoyed so much time with Tom and Carolyn as we married a year and a half after they did. The time Tom and my husband spent with Carolyn's and my father was priceless. Whether it be going to the drive in or enjoying the racehorses good times were always there. We often looked back and talked about all the fun times Tom and Bill had with Dad Fox and of course our loving Mother. Tom knew that Carolyn and I were best friends and he always made sure that we were able to do any adventure that we chose to do. Nothing was too expensive if Carolyn wanted to do it. He was so generous. Not only with us but with everybody. He loved to make people happy and always had the biggest smile when he saw the results of his kindness and his spirit of giving. I love his laughter and will miss that most of all along with all that he offered. Miss you Tommy. Luv. Ann Osborne
Heather Welch
October 17, 2019
My condolences to Carolyn and Judge Carroll's family. I had the pleasure of running in two elections campaigns with Tom. He kept our group of ten judges on track because he knew the political process better than anyone. More importantly, Tom was always willing to give his time to help his colleagues. He mentored me from day one as a civil Judge for 10 years. Without Tom's mentoring, I would not be the judge I am today. Tom was honest and straight forward in his advice. While his approach led some to think Tom was a bit gruff, once you got past that he had a heart of gold and was always there to help. He will be deeply missed as a friend and colleague.
Heather Welch
Terry Daley
October 16, 2019
Helen and I have many fine conversations with our brother in law to recall. It is difficult to select a few because so many were worth remembering. Yet it is reassuring now that we do have these valued memories. Helen knew Tom from the time he first met and then married Carolyn. She recalls so many times she talked, bantered, and countered Tom who liked that he could have a good back and forth with her. Most of all she remembers Tom's generosity, honesty , humor, knowledge, and wit-often directed her wayand returned his.
I came into the family many years later and in time was intrigued by this attorney, horse owner, chef and judge.
Tom would never reveal specifics of cases, but he could give a behind the scene. I recall the best trial that I never saw. Tom was given little credit for snuffing out a Democrat civil war over the role of City County Council president. Later he explained what took place in his chambers: Tom lived up to I never gave anybody hell. I just told the truth and they thought it was hell.
In our last conversation Tom grew reflective showing his love for the law and, perhaps, his legacy. He told of the time he prominently served on the committee to standardize salaries and pensions of judges, current and future. He also spoke with pride about encouraging promising attorneys to seek positions as judges.
For Helen and me, remembering these conversations with Tom is bittersweet; we hope somehow it softens for Carolyn and his family the profound sting of our loss.
Helen and Terry
Judge Marilyn Moores
October 16, 2019
Judge Carroll and I shared a love of horses. We bonded over talking about those magnificent beasts. He was my kind of guy--no nonsense, down to earth and kind when the chips were really down. He will be greatly missed
Becky and Jerry Poore
October 16, 2019
Carolyn and Family, Sending our thoughts and prayers as you celebrate Tom's wonderful life. May your memories bring you peace. Love,Becky and Jerry
Sadie's Birthday
Ryan and Mandy Osborne
October 16, 2019
Uncle Tom enjoyed his family and loved being around the kids! He soaked it up at birthday parties and family gatherings. It was fun to watch him interact with the little ones. He was a good listener. Uncle Tom took an interest in what anyone had to say. Even though he had a big presence, he liked being more behind the scenes and letting others shine. He was never pretentious even with the title Honorable Judge. He was down to Earth yet super intelligent and always so kind and giving. We cherish how Uncle Tom, while sick, took his wife and her sister to Vegas. His sister in law lost her beloved husband and was there to help comfort and make some happy memories for all of them. He was so generous but always humble about it. We will miss Uncle Tom dearly. Prayers and hugs to the family
October 16, 2019
Helen and I have many fine conversations with our brother in law to recall. It is difficult to select a few because so many were worth remembering. Yet it is reassuring now that we do have these valued memories. Helen knew Tom from the time he first met and then married Carolyn. She recalls so many times she talked, bantered, and countered Tom who liked that he could have a good back and forth with her. Most of all she remembers Tom's generosity, honesty , humor, knowledge, and wit-often directed her wayand returned his.
I came into the family many years later and in time was intrigued by this attorney, horse owner, chef, and judge.
Tom would never reveal specifics of cases, but he could give a "behind the scenes." I recall the best trial that I never saw. Tom was given little credit for snuffing out a Democrat civil war over the role of City County Council president. Later he explained what took place in his chambers: Tom lived up to I never gave anybody hell. I just told the truth and they thought it was hell.
In our last conversation Tom grew reflective showing his love for the law and, perhaps, his legacy. He told of the time he prominently served on the committee to standardize salaries and pensions of judges, current and future. He also spoke with pride about encouraging promising attorneys to seek positions as judges.
For Helen and me, remembering these conversations with Tom is bittersweet; we hope somehow it softens for Carolyn and his family the profound sting of our loss.
Helen and Terry
October 16, 2019
My sincerest condolences to Carolyn and Tom's family. He was one of 9 of us who ran as a judicial team, going door to door and asking for support. Tom was one of the oldest in the group and worked very hard in what was a difficult election system. He mentored a lot of colleagues and will be remembered for his many years on the Marion County bench. May God comfort you in this time of loss.
Mark D. Stoner
October 16, 2019
To the Carroll family:
I practiced in front of Judge Carroll from 1989 until we both retired. Judge Carroll was smart and fair, and very funny! He hired good people for his staff, and ran a truly efficient court. I enjoyed and appreciated his advice and insight. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Diane Roe
Ryan Davis
October 15, 2019
To the Carroll Family
I am very sorry for your loss, Tom was successful in his law career and in raising an outstanding family. He was proud of his children and even looked over his son's friends like we were one of his.
I enjoyed many "refreshing" conversations with him. He would tell you exactly how it was and you always knew where you stood with him, that was my favorite Tom Carroll characteristic that I will always remember him for.
Carolyn, TJ, and Adam, you should always remember the good times you shared with him and know that he had a great impact on many people.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
Eric Larmore
October 15, 2019
From leaving out the newspaper to buying cereal for his sons' friends to giving direct feedback and advice, Judge Carroll was a caring and thoughtful husband, father, friend, mentor and man.
A man who enjoyed his family, his friends, his horses, his career, the Colts and Las Vegas. We are grateful for those interests and value the memories he helped us create.
A man who gave pointed advice to those of us who needed it and who (even though he didn't want to admit it) cared deeply for others.
His pointed advice and candor will be missed along with his sharp sense of humor.
Our thoughts and prayers to Carolyn and the rest of the family.
Wendell Mickler
October 13, 2019
Condolences to Carolyn and family.
Chip Clark
October 11, 2019
I owe a debt of gratitude to Judge Carroll. As a much younger lawyer I had the opportunity to try a couple of jury trials before him. On one occasion I let my emotions get the best of me and I reacted very uncivilly to my opposing colleague. Judge Carroll was very gracious, and understanding, and for that I will forever be indebted. My condolences to his family.
Shirley Harris
October 11, 2019
I was a court reporter in Superior Court #5, Civil Division for 19 years and then spent three years in Court Services Agency. I sat on the Bench numerous times through the years with Judge Carroll. He was one of the most caring people I've ever met and was dedicated in his judgeship. I remember when my mom passed in 2003, he was one judge who cared enough to attend her funeral and I'll never forget that. Rest in peace, Judge. My sympathies to the family. B
Linda Becker
October 11, 2019
God Bless the family.. Tom was a good man.
Our prayers and thoughts for all of you. Howard and Linda Becker
Donald Ward
October 10, 2019
To the Family of Judge Tom Carroll,
I do not know you personally, but I just want to let you know that I have known Tom since the late 1960s and that I have just lost a good friend and longtime fellow colleague. I have been fortunate to have known Tom as a fellow practicing lawyer for many years and as one of the best trial judges in the Marion County Court system and the State of Indiana. He will be greatly missed by all his friends, and most of all, by his family.
May he rest in peace.
October 10, 2019
I met judge Carroll when I worked for judge Mayer he was a very good judge and a very nice person he will be truly missed. Belinda moistner
Teresa Thompson
October 10, 2019
Prayers of comfort to Judge Carroll's family. I began as court reporter in his court, Civil 6 in February of 2005.
Larry Sells
October 9, 2019
The Harry S. Truman quote epitomized the Tom Carroll I knew. Tom could be brutally honest. Over 30 years ago, he told me that I was in the "shank" of my life; that if I was ever going to accomplish anything worthwhile, I better get to it. And he was right.
After years of frivolity and self-indulgence, I took Tom's advice. I joined the Marion County Prosecutor's Office; then 6 months later got married. Found a sense of purpose, self-respect and happiness.
Thank you, Judge. Will fondly remember the great times we shared
May the Lord be with you and with your family.
Gerald Zore
October 9, 2019
May passing time, caring friends and loving memories, work gently through the coming days to help comfort his family.
Debbie Snider
October 8, 2019
My deepest sympathy to Judge Carroll's family. I was his deputy clerk when he was in Muni 1.
George Cottrell
October 8, 2019
Tom taught me the practice of law and the most important thing for a lawyer to remember...Ethics not only has an important role in the law, it is its guiding principle...
Our sincere sympathy to Carolyn and the family...
God Bless Tom Carroll, Rest In Peace...
Phyllis and George Cottrell
David Selig
October 8, 2019
Dear Carroll family
I'm deeply saddened of hearing of your loss. I have fond memories of Mr. Carroll giving us advise and his wisdom in our formative college years. It inspired me to work a little harder, party less and achieve more. I always respected Mr. Carroll for what he had accomplished in his law career but most importantly his family. You have raised an outstanding young man in Adam that helped me graduate chemical engineering and be a true friend whenever needed. In this time of sorrow please reflect on your cherished memories and accept my condolences.
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