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Barry McNulty Obituary

McNulty, Barry J. Of Waukesha, WI passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 19, 2018, at the age of 53. Barry was the devoted husband of Mary (Bambery); the loving father of Megan Elizabeth of Washington, DC, Patrick Thomas and Michael Finbar both of Waukesha, WI. He was the cherished brother of: James F. McNulty, III (Anne) of Lake Forest, IL, Bridget A. McNulty of Highland Park, IL, Mary Frances (David) Grossman of Duxbury, MA, Michael C. (Chelly) McNulty of Highland Park, IL, Thomas K. McNulty of Chicago, IL, Patrick O. (Mary) McNulty of Atlanta, GA, Daniel G. (Penny) McNulty of Wilmette, IL, Sheila A. (Craig Oswald) McNulty of Glenview, IL, and Mary Ellen (Harry) McCabe of Rockville Centre, NY. Barry is further survived by his loving and generous in-laws: Jerry and Marilu Bambery of Mankato, MN, Keri M. (Dan) Solheid of North Mankato, MN, and Colleen M. (Rick) Van Blarcom of Mankato, MN, and 32 nieces and nephews that had a significant impact on his life. He was preceded in death by his parents, Mary Ellen O'Conor McNulty and James F. McNulty, Jr., and brother, Timothy V. McNulty of Winnetka, IL. For more than two decades, Barry was an accomplished leader of numerous governmental affairs and public communication efforts supporting critical capital investment projects for We Energies. Growing up, Barry attended Saints Faith, Hope & Charity parish and school of Winnetka, IL, Loyola Academy in Wilmette, IL, and received his Bachelor of Science from the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse, La Crosse, WI. Visitation will be held Friday, September 28, 2018, from 3:00-8:00 PM at Becker Ritter Funeral Home, 14075 W. North Ave., Brookfield, WI. A Mass of the Resurrection will be held Saturday, September 29, at 10:00 AM at All Saints Catholic Church, 4051 N. 25th St., Milwaukee, WI. Interment will be private with immediate family. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Camp Kesem at DePaul University (Barry McNulty Memorial Fund), P.O. Box 14357, Chicago, IL 60614. Camp Kesem is a nationwide community, driven by passionate college student leaders that support children through and beyond their parent's cancer. Camp Kesem operates free summer camps for children who have been impacted by a parent's cancer journey. The family would like to extend its gratitude to the UW-Cancer Center at ProHealth especially doctors Chris Hake, Scott Koss, and Chris Davies. Nurses Deb, Paula, Allie, Katie, Lisa, Angela, Amy, and countless others treated him with incredible dignity and respect. Their steadfast commitment to his care allowed Barry's journey to be filled with undeniable strength, courage, and grace.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Sep. 23 to Sep. 26, 2018.

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Therese Bowes

September 20, 2021

Remembering Barry and praying for him and his family. Great man.

Sarah McConnell

December 19, 2019

RIP Barry. Love to Mary and your family. Fond memories at UW-LaCrosse. So, so sorry.

Chris (Bott) Prais

November 14, 2019

I just found out about Barry's passing and I'm so truly saddened by this news. I met Barry my freshman year of college as we knew a mutual friend and we were all from the Northern suburbs. We spent Some time navigating our way through our 1st year at LaCrosse and hanging out a bit at Coate hall and 3rd Street. I was always happy to catch up with Barry during our time at LaX. Barry was Kind, compassionate, and really just such a great guy. I'm just so sorry for your loss. Condolences to your entire family. The world lost one of the good ones.

N. Seidl

September 30, 2018

Please accept my condolences. I didn't know Barry personally, but I also attend All Saints Church at 10:30. I recently saw Mary, his wife, in church when we were asked at Mass to pray for Barry,as he was dying from cancer.
I am so sorry for your loss. Barry was taken from you too soon. I regret I never met him, because reading other condolences it sounds like he was a really great guy to know.
May your memories of him bring you comfort. Your All Saints family will embrace you & keep you & your family in prayer. May he rest in peace. God bless you all.

Larry Kascht

September 28, 2018

I recall Barry's kindness and warm friendship through many activities at St William's Parish, his wonderful sense of humor, and his fierce pride in his Irish heritage. Our deepest sympathy to Barry's family, you are all in our prayers.

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Laura Paul

September 27, 2018

I was sad to read if Barrys Death. I offer my condolences to his family. I had the privilege of working with Barry at We-energies. I found him to be intelligent, respectful and an overall nice person.
RIP Barry McNulty.

September 27, 2018

Our thoughts and prayers are with Mary, Megan, Patrick, Michael, and Barry. Mary, your strength through this difficult time has been an inspiration to everyone in the CMH community. We love you and pray for you.
Mary, Mo, Maggie, Maria, Molly, and John Burke

Christopher Schoenherr

September 26, 2018

I was so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. I will recall with great fondness our time together at Wisconsin Electric. I remember he did the best Jim Klauser impression which was made even better by the fact that I knew Jim as well. It makes me chuckle to think about it now - and know Barry is joining me in that chuckle.

I will also remember his great love for his family - Diane and I send our deepest sympathies.

Our lives were all made much more rich for Barry having walked among us. He will be missed and treasured.

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Mary Koceja

September 25, 2018

Barry was one of the nicest people I have ever encountered in my career, and at We Energies. A true inspiration to us all. Kind, warm, and very thoughtful, caring individual. I wouldn't have seen Wrigley Field if it weren't for his generosity. My deepest sympathies to the family. He is an angel now and will live forever.

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Terry Rupple

September 24, 2018

If there is a kinder, gentler, loving man in this world, I have not met him. I feel blessed to have known him. My heart goes out to his beautiful family.

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Robert Glowacki

September 24, 2018

Prayers and sympathies go out to you and your family. May he rest in peace.

Andy and Amy Smith

September 24, 2018

As has been said by others, Barry was one of the good ones, and God calls those home the earliest, it seems. I am so sorry for your great loss, Mary and family. Barry is very fondly remembered by many thousands of people whom he influenced and worked with, and even more who have been fortunate and privileged to call him friend, going back many decades now.

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September 24, 2018

i knew barry when he was just a boy.. he was a wonderful, young man, and his many qualities were very evident at a very young age..God bless you and your family barry..
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Deborah Herold

September 24, 2018

So sorry for your loss. Prays for your family.

Karyn Roelke

September 24, 2018

What a wonderful guy Barry was. I was so fortunate that our jobs brought us together. His positivity was inspirational to me and I will remember him always. I am so very lucky that our paths crossed, and only wish I had known him longer. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and close friends.

Marilu Mangino

September 23, 2018

All my Love from Mexico to The family specially to Sheila and Mary Ellen!! Cuando un hermano se va algo se muere en el alma, pero siempre viven en nuestro corazón

September 23, 2018

We are so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. What a great man and wonderful family. He will be missed by all. Our prayers are with the family.

Love,


Therese and Joe Bowes

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Jimmie Nahas

September 23, 2018

One of the nicest if not the nicest person I have ever met. He was open, kind, fun, and he was in a small way a part of our annual vacations. We, (Kathleen & I,) would come across a Barry & McNulty street on vacation, we would stop, take the picture and email or text it to him. For years she would say, "turn around, I want to get this picture and send it to Barry."
He was a good man, one of the hardest working guys I knew. We lost a kind soul, he will be missed but never forgotten. RIP brother.

Glenn Lenz

September 23, 2018

I first met Barry on the sidelines of our son's club soccer games a decade ago. We always had great conversations. I found Barry to be level headed, funny, honest and respectful. I was blessed to know the great family man.

Mamie Roberson

September 23, 2018

My condolences to Mary and family. Barry was a great man , he left an indulable mark of kindness on the world. My prayers are with you.

Glenn Lenz

September 23, 2018

I first met Barry as we walked the sidelines of our sons club soccer teams game a decade ago. We always had great conversations. I found him to be an upbeat, honest, straight forward and genuine man. The world is more emptier now.

Susie Joyce

September 23, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear of Barry's passing. I knew Barry in junior high and high school. What a great guy. So nice and sweet to everyone. Thoughts and prayers to Barry's family.

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