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Jeff
February 1, 2024
To a great lead trumpet player, you and Larry made it the best horn section! Miss you Bro
Jeff Harris
February 1, 2022
My favorite horn section picture bro.
Jeff Harris
November 29, 2015
Just thinking about you my good friend.
February 3, 2014
I miss you so much, Alan. I am sitting at the desk that you sat at while reading the Bible that horrible morning. I am so glad though that you went with such peace and even now are with me. I am so sad and miss you so much that it feels like you just died today. I Love You, Sweet Baby Brother. N
Thomas Sherwood
June 27, 2010
Alan and I played trumpet together in high school. He was first chair I was last chair. I dreamed of playing like Alan. He had such a passive personality. I know we could have been great friends had I stayed around long enough to hang with him. We will jam again at the greatest concert, forever. See you soon my friend.
Rudy Villarreal
March 31, 2010
Alan was a friend from high school,we all hung out with the same people. what remember is that he was a gentle man. he will be missed by all of us. I know now that you are in the arms of an Angel.
glenda willis
March 9, 2010
Alan was a great man and in the short time I knew him, he was always smiling and had a funny story to tell. This will be a great lost for all of those who knew him and my prays are with his family and child.
Jack Climer
March 3, 2010
I am so sorry for Alan's loss. I worked with him in Fresno and have stayed loosely in touch over the years since. I've just learned of his passing. My prayers are with his family and I will always remember him fondly.
Jack Climer (Park City, UT)
Ken Davis
March 3, 2010
I was Alan's sales manager at MCI starting in 2003. Here's a short story of why he meant so much to me:
I was leaving the office late one evening when I spotted Alan walking through the parking lot. I stopped him and asked him "what are you doing here so late"? He replied, "I didn't want to tell you this but my car broke down the day after I was hired and it's going to cost me a mint to fix it". He went on to say, "I'm taking the bus from Visalia every morning (an hour ride to Fresno) to keep my job and once I'm here I'm footin' it to my appointments and cold-calling". Keep in mind this was June/July in Fresno, 105* in the shade. At that moment I realized I had a champion on my team. I shared that story with his peers and upper management at MCI and the word spread. He even got a call from the Presdient of our division thanking him for his hard work. I was very proud of him and I'll never forget him.
Since leaving MCI in 2004 Alan always kept in touch updating his phone numbers and email address with me. Every time we talked he always said, "Love ya Bro" as he hung up the phone.
I'll miss ya Bro, love ya!
Tania (Morgan) Wisner
February 21, 2010
Just found out today about Alan. Spent time with him in band at Roosevelt and have many College Hill memories of him. Where does the time go? Sending his family prayers.
Karen Iveson
February 18, 2010
I met Alan a little over 14 years ago - our relationship started out romantically and continued throughout the years as parents. We never married but I will always be thankful for Alan and will never, EVER, forget him for the beautiful gift he gave me, our amazing daughter Jazmine Rose. Alan, your memory will remain alive and well in Jazmine's heart and mine (your trumpet is already on display in Jaz's bedroom!). Much love to Julie, Nancy & Tony - you guys are the best and we love you very much.
Clark Graves
February 17, 2010
Alan, I will always remember our grade school days and College hill nights. The time spent with you was always a blast. I will miss you here, but I will enjoy seeing you there.
Tony Radecki
February 16, 2010
It's been a bit over a week since Alan left us. Every time I hear a horn, I think of Alan and suspect this will continue for some time. I had the honor to speak at his memorial in Houston. I had five points in my notes that I want to share with those who could not attend. What I will remember about Alan:
- He was a "live life to the fullest" type guy
- We had a lot of "work/life" balance discussions. He leaned towards life and I leaned towards work, but we always managed to find common ground
- Alan was grounded in faith and I think he owes that to his mom
- Alan loved his trumpet and he was darn good at it
- His true love was his daughter, Jazmine and she should never forget this. Her daddy will always be there with her, always.
February 16, 2010
Alan,
You were a prince among men! I will always remember your kind heart, your amazing trumpet playing, your contageous laughter, and most of all, your soft, tender words for your daughter and all that she meant to you.
I know it's been a long time since I've seen you, a good seven years...but I know you remained the same, and even better! I'm so pleased you had relationship with Christ...relationship with Him is what matters most of all! God bless you my friend and I will see you in Heaven...Hopefully, you'll be playing the trumpet for the big man!
My condolence's to Alan's family...thanks for making him and giving him a chance to shine for all! He was a great man and a wonderful friend!
Erika Whitely Barber
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February 15, 2010
My condolences to Alan's family and friends he was great trumpet player and I was there at Bombays every weekend when the Ska daddyz played there. Rest in Peace Alan!
Lee
February 14, 2010
Alan, my fun, sweet, gentle cousin that always had a smile and a hug for me. I will miss you.
Julie Lomax
February 14, 2010
I always told Alan that he would be a great catch for some rich woman out there... He was a Great cook, he loved to bask in the sun and enjoyed Chick flicks. He wasn't a bad brother and was an OK roomate too! I agree with Jazminem, her fathers jokes were rarely funny it was his infectious laugh that had everyone else smiling and laughing. Alan didn't need to tell funny jokes all he had to do was laugh. I'll miss you by the pool this summer bro. I'll miss so much. Thanks everyone for sharing. I love you Alan, your favorite sister (HEE).
Julie
Spasiano
February 14, 2010
You left us too soon. You gave us classic memories. You gave us great stories to share. I am honored to have had the opportunity to have played with such a talent. RIP
Ty Amend
February 14, 2010
My condolences to his family. My heart goes out to you all.
Allen was my friend back in junior high and high school. Recently we had been seeing each other when he was in Wichita once in a while. I had forgotten what a light Allen brought with him when he entered a room or just saw your face, until being reunited with him. He loved everyone. He also treated everyone like they were his best friend. I miss Allen and I know he is blowin that horn for the angels now. R.I.P Brother Allen
Ty Amend
Cheryl Brawders
February 13, 2010
I was so shocked to see Alan's smiling face looking out at me from the newspaper this morning.I worked with him at Pleasant Hawaiian Holidays.We became fast friends the minute we started talking and he told me about being a Trumpet player as both of my sons were also.We spent many work days sharing and laughing about the people we were dealing with on the phone He was one of those people that made coming to work enjoyable..My deepest condolences to his family and especially his daughter..But know he lives on in your heart and will be with you,loving you and watching over you always.....
Ursula LLamas
February 11, 2010
Alan was my high school sweetheart. We found each other again after 29 years. Just as I expected, he had followed his dreams, lived his life to the fullest...he did things most of us only dream about. But the shining highlight of his life wasn't a gig, a celebrity he met or getting his name on a Cd...it was being a proud Father to a beautiful Daughter. Alan was fun, he had a wicked sense of humour, but the memories I'll hold onto are those of a loving father, a loyal friend, a perpetual optimist...the boy who held my hand in school.
jimi chastain
February 11, 2010
In the Ska Daddyz we called him "lips"...."lips Lomax",my roomate,bandmate...my brother you are in a better place now,thank you for all the good times here on earth,until we meet again....cheers
Janet Burdick
February 10, 2010
Alan was a great trumpet player and musician here in and around Ventura, CA, not sure to many of his friends know of his passing, what a shock...he had so many friends...Alan, now you can play the horn in heaven together with all the greats!! I'll be listening...God Bless you!
So sad..too soon..too young..
Janet
John Castillo
February 10, 2010
I first met Alan in high school, he later became our trumpet player in The Latin Express, but more than that he was my friend. I'm gonna miss you Alan, I look forward to walking in heaven with you brother. Blow that trumpet for the up there and make em smile...after all you was always good at that.
Rosalie Gilcrest
February 9, 2010
God was in need of another wonderful trumpet player. Such a sad thing for us left behind to lose Alan. We are grateful for having had the opportunity of spending time with him at Christmas here in California.
Little Terrry Rogers
February 9, 2010
Blow Man Blow Alan didnt need the mic on our blues shows we would just say blow man blow.We will all miss you brother.The Blues Birds
a nonny mouse
February 9, 2010
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on the snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the mornings hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush,
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
for I am not there,
I did not die.
Gabriel, come and blow your horn....
Hairbone
February 8, 2010
Hi Alan, I hope you are looking down on all of us knowing how much you meant to everyone. I had a blast playing in the same horn section with you for all those crazy years. You kicked some serious butt brother!
Tony Hodgson
February 8, 2010
Alan, Your smile will remain a fond memory for me. Your perpetual spirit of amusement at life was so endearing and an inspiration. I wish you peace, and your family love and strength. We are rich for having the priviledge of your friendship.
Chris Harmon
February 8, 2010
Not only do I remember Alan as being a great trumpet player, he was terrific fun to be around! The trumpet world, and the world in general, has suffered a great loss. My thoughts are with his family.
bob hartley
February 8, 2010
I remember Alan as someone with a unique blend of humility and irreverence. He could also be inspiring, and his kind words of encouragement made you feel special as well. He will be missed so much.
February 8, 2010
Alan had a way to make you smile no matter what the situation,I'm glad that our paths crossed, but sad that the journey together was short. You will be missed, but not forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with the family for peace and comfort during this time. "Tony L. Francis"(Houston,Tx)l
Dirk Stubbings
February 8, 2010
I knew Alan from WSU. He always had a smile on his face, and he was a blast to be around. Best wishes to his family.
John Burgess
February 8, 2010
I played with Alan in the marching band and jazz arts II band at WSU. I am sad that he left us so soon. My prayers are with his entire family at this time. Grace and Peace to all.
Kelly Moore
February 8, 2010
I first met Alan while he was playing trumpet with Lion I's at The Bombay in Ventura back in the early 90's. He was an oustanding musician and loved to play. Later, throught the birth of his one and only beautiful daughter, Jazmine, he became part of my family and I would see him throughout the holidays and when he would fly out on visits to see Jaz. The one thing I will always remember about Alan is his love for his daughter. He loved spending time with her and she meant the world to him, as he did to her. It aches me to think that at 13 years old she has lost her dad. His life here on earth is over, but his undeniable love for her will carry on. My prayers and thoughts are with her as well as the rest of his family.
Steve Wolf
February 7, 2010
I was so glad to hear from you on facebook last summer. After 25 years it was good to hear from you and I looked forward to seeing you this summer at our reunion. From elementary school to college, through band, and boy scouts (man, your mom was great!!) we had great times. We'll see each other some day; take care old Friend.
Don Rubottom
February 7, 2010
I was in band at WSU with Alan and he is a fellow Kappa Kappa Psi brother. He was always fun to be around, always had something funny to say, and was an awesome trumpet player. My prayers are with his family and we all know he much he will be missed by all his family and friends.
Judy Clubine
February 7, 2010
I met Alan while in the WSU Marching Band. He was full of music and fun, the kind of guy it was enjoyable to be around. When I think of him, I will always consider that true music never dies...It just modulates into a new key and goes on forever. My prayers go out for his family during this sad time.
Cynthia Nagel
February 7, 2010
I was in the music program with Alan in college. My prayers are with the family, and we will all remember Alan for his love of life.
Lori Coleman
February 7, 2010
I have many fond memories growing up of time spent in Wichita, Topeka and Hunter. I will remember your smile and laugh the most. Your music is a gift we will always enjoy.
Love your little cousin,
Nancy (Woerner) Lee
February 7, 2010
I knew Alan during college at Wichita State University via marching band and KK?/TBS. He was a fun-loving guy and great to hang out with. He was certainly taken too soon, and I know he will be greatly missed by family and friends.
Veronica Crowell
February 7, 2010
I went to Jr. High and High School with Alan - we were in band class together for some of those years. He was great friends with me and my brother Gordon. I connected with Alan again about six months ago. I am so happy that I had the opportunity to talk with him to learn about his life and his daughter whom he so clearly adored. Alan was a wonderful man with an incredible wit and his most important role - was a loving father. My deepest sympathy to his family; my thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.
Chris Mullen
February 7, 2010
My heartfelt condolences to everyone-it seems like it's been just a short time since we all were together.
That bigband in the sky just received a new lead trumpet.
Please let me know if I can be of any help when making Wichita plans.
Love for you all...
Ashley Ritchie
February 7, 2010
I loved Alan so much as I know most of the people who knew him did as well. His adorable nature will be so missed and his funny sense of humor cannot be topped! I just can't believe that this man, so full of life, is not here anymore. The memories that we shared will live on forever. With deepest sorrow and sympathy for the family, I was a lucky person to have known him.
Joe Davis
February 7, 2010
I remember Alan from East High in Wichita, Ks. He was a good guy who would always have something crazy to say and make you laugh. My prayers go out to his family and friends.
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