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James Alden McIntyre

1938 - 2020

James Alden McIntyre obituary, 1938-2020, La Jolla, CA

James McIntyre Obituary

James Alden McIntyre
September 13, 1938 - August 16, 2020
La Jolla
The Honorable James Alden McIntyre of San Diego, California, passed away peacefully in his La Jolla home on August 16, 2020, due to kidney failure as a complication of pancreatic cancer. He was 81 years old.Born September 13, 1938, two miles from Wrigley Field in Chicago, Illinois to John "Mac" and Emily McIntyre (Backman), he was raised in Rogers Park, then Winnetka. In his youth, he attended Culver Military Academy and was a proud 1956 graduate of New Trier High School.Graced with a quick mind and an even quicker wit, Jim obtained an A.B. degree in Philosophy at Brown University in 1960, followed by his J.D. from Stanford University Law School in 1963. He was admitted to the California Bar in 1963.Jim spent his career at the San Diego law firm of McInnis, Fitzgerald, Rees, Sharkey & McIntyre as a civil trial attorney, remaining there for thirty years, becoming a named partner after five. Known as a formidable trial lawyer, he tried over 115 civil jury trials, most notably winning the biggest jury award to date in San Diego County against Hartford Insurance Company in 1985. Jim served as a Master of the Enright Chapter of the American Inns of Court, a Fellow of the American College of Trial Lawyers, a Diplomate of the American Board of Trial Advocates, and had an "A V" rating in Martindale-Hubbell. He was also listed in "The Best Lawyers in America" and "Who's Who Among Practicing Attorneys." Jim also served as an adjunct Professor of Law at the University of San Diego (1974-1976).

As an iconic leader and member of the San Diego law community, Jim took great pride in sharing his knowledge with younger members. His advice: "Learn how to have fun practicing law. If you aren't having fun, find another way to make a living. You've got to have fun." Jim had a long and impressive career as a legal professional and was nominated by President George H.W. Bush to the Federal District Court. In 1993, Jim was appointed as Judge of the San Diego Superior Court and elevated to the Fourth District Court of Appeal in 1996, where he sat for 20 years. As a justice, he was known for his uncanny ability to unravel complicated cases and easily go right to the heart of the problemmaking the resolution of the case clear. Beloved by his staff, he treated every person he met like he had known them since birth.In 1974, he married Victoria Bradley of St. Paul, Minnesota, "the smartest, wittiest, most beautiful woman in the world." Married for 45 years, together they had two children, Jill and Jamie, and raised Jim's two children from his previous marriage, Scott and Molly. Jim spent a considerable amount of his personal time devoted to his community and being part of professional organizations, including participating in the San Diego Volunteer Lawyer Program, serving on the Board of Directors of the Children's Home Society and the Gillispie School, and managing Little League and soccer, despite having not a single child who was any good at sports. Jim was a life-long scholar, particularly interested in old wars (WWII and the Cold War) and modern art (Paul Jenkins and Sam Francis). He traveled the world with his family, mostly via cruise ship. He loved Broadway musicals, movies featuring Audrey Hepburn and Natalie Wood, the heartbreaking combination of Chicago and San Diego sports teams, and a martini, served up with an onion. He took great delight in his grandchildren in his latter-years, enjoying nothing more than warm summer days in the pool with the little ones. Jim spent his final moments at home surrounded by his family, and, as always, showed the bravery and leadership he exhibited throughout life.He was preceded in death by his parents Mac and Emily, and his sister Patricia. He is survived by his wife Victoria; children Jill Kelly (Michael), Jamie Brown (Matthew), Molly McIntyre, and Scott McIntyre; and grandchildren Louisa Jane Kelly, Dylan Olivia Brown, and Alden McIntyre Kelly. Due to the pandemic, a memorial will be held at a future place and time. Jim's final resting place will be in Kona Village, Hawaii, where he had many happy memories with his family enjoying a well-deserved mai-tai, his animal "pond friends," and technicolored sunsets. To the man who always told co-workers and family alike to "say it once and say it clearly"Dad, there was greatness in your every move. Please sign the guest book online at legacy.com/obituaries/ lajollalight

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Published by La Jolla Light on Oct. 8, 2020.

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Martina Rider Porter

February 22, 2022

I had the true honor of working with Judge McIntyre during the first months of his judicial appointment at the SD Superior Court when he had not been appointed a research attorney yet and with a generous heart took me as his legal extern under his wing in order to share his insight and guidance as to the research he needed before and after hearings. He was the one that encouraged me to leave him after a few months to accept the externship at the Court of Appeal, where he later followed.

I am incredibly saddened by the news of his death, but happy that he spent so much time with his family whom he loved.

He was an amazing mentor and whom I loved to have lunch with when I came back down to San Diego to appear on a matter and find him free for lunch.

You are thought of with nothing but fondness and I will forever practice law with your message in my mind of approaching an issue simply and directly by "making sure that the sands of the matter are not shifting..." You helped make me what I am today. Thank you. Martina Rider Porter, Esq

Jill Kelly

April 19, 2021

Thank you to those who share their words here about my dad. I am reading them and sharing with family.

Larry Robertson

December 19, 2020

Jim (or Uncle Mac”) and I were law school classmates and roommates, and that foundation supported a friendship which endured thereafter until his passing even though our career paths took us to different parts of the country and different roles. In more recent years, that separation was bridged when my wife (Tammy) and I would spend Christmas in San Diego and have dinner or lunch with Jim and Vicki. Without a doubt, that was a highlight of our trip.

I thought I knew Jim until I read his obituary. Was I mistaken. His roles beyond that of his legal career humble me. Even more, they underscore how blessed I was to be a recipient of his friendship for 6 decades.

It is said that when a loved one passes, “he/she is in a better place.” That may be true, but I nevertheless the less will miss my “Uncle Mac.”

As a final word, Tammy and I send our love and prayers to Vicki.

Duncan MacIntyre

October 8, 2020

Jim was my only cousin on my father’s side of the family. Rest In Peace.

James Samuel Marinos

October 8, 2020

James (Jim) McIntyre was a true gentleman and legal scholar. His personality and deep intelligence made him a very special man. We all enjoyed his presence and his involvement up and until the very end. We will miss him deeply and think of Vicki, his vivacious wife who had a very thrilling wit and charming personality herself. We send all of our best wishes and prayers to Vicki at this difficult time. James & Diane Marinos

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Doug MacIntyre

October 5, 2020

We didn't meet many times, cousin James, but when we did it was always a pleasure.

Cheryl Brierton

October 4, 2020

My condolences to the family of the Hon. James McIntyre. Justice McIntyre was a great mentor to me in the law, a loyal boss. I am honored to have worked under him. May he rest in please in his beloved Kona.

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