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Andrew Paulus
April 4, 2025
Thinking of you today, Dad. Today, and always...
Andrew Paulus
August 4, 2024
Happy 95th birthday! Thinking of you today, Dad. Always in our hearts.
Cyndy Paulus
April 4, 2023
Remembering Daddy today... about this time today four years ago was the last time I saw Dad lucid. My wife Marie was with me visiting Dad. He had a great last day with us. Fun chats, smiles, I was knitting, he was enjoying talking with his dialysis technician. Of course he was, he was a divine researcher and inquired genuinely with his technician. What a kind heart Daddy had.
The picture I'm sharing was me at 17 dressed up for a formal at school. My auburn hair curled at the ends. The dress, probably made by me. I recall making all my prom and formal dresses. Daddy certainly smiled looking at his daughter, me... thinking whatever he was thinking. Probably hoping I was going to be safe and have a good time. I did certainly test my parents in high school. For that, I'm so sorry.
Love you Daddy and hope you and Mom can turn on some dance music and do some steps and twirls to their favorite dance music
Dad & Me
Andrew Paulus
April 4, 2023
Thinking of you today, Dad. Miss you and Mom every day.
Andrew Paulus
June 16, 2022
Thinking of you today, Dad, on what would be your 67th wedding anniversary. Love you and miss you!
At last you've reached the Golden Land,
You've walked the long path hand in hand.
You've shared the blessings by the score,
The dreams, the love, and even more.
And you've kept on, through thick and thin,
To show the world that you would win.
As you look back, the smiles, the tears,
Remember all those glorious years?
The day you met, the wedding grand,
The ring placed on the anxious hand.
And now today, still side by side,
An older groom, an older bride.
You have one thing that's known by few,
A touch of heaven, made just for two.
A. Paulus
50 year anniversary
June 16, 2005
Cyndy Paulus
April 4, 2022
Remembering you Daddy
The last day we had a conversation... good vivid chats, had no clue it would our last. Andrew and I Love you and Miss you so much, your loving daughter, Cyndy
Andrew Paulus
April 4, 2022
Remembering you today, Dad. Love you...
Thank you for my first birthday and for every one after that! Love you dad!
Andrew Paulus
January 29, 2022
Thinking of you today, dad, on my 61st birthday. Always with me...
December 28, 2021
Andrew Paulus
December 24, 2021
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, Dad! We love you and we miss you!
Cyndy Paulus
November 18, 2021
Stopping by to visit Daddy virtually. What a beautiful entry by Debra (former patient). Such a warm and heartfelt sentiment. My brother Andrew and I are so grateful for the thoughts and memories of Dad and Mom... they were amazing people. Miss them every day, more importantly... We try to live our lives to the fullest. Even in these challenging times of COVID. Oooo what the parent's would think about that. With Moms background in Bacteriology and Dads in Auto-Immune Disorders, they could probably save the world. Love you Dad - Give Mom a hug and a kiss, Cyndy
Debra
November 17, 2021
I am a former patient of Dr. Paulus. I am just learning of Dr. Paulus' passing and I am truly saddened to know that he passed last year and I was not able to offer my condolences to his family.
I was so fortunate to have Dr. Paulus as my physician. At the young age of 29, I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis and had to go out on medical leave. Everyone had told me how difficult it would be to qualify for
SSI disability benefits, so i was very concerned when I went for my qualification medical exam.
After a physical exam, answering a few questions and taking some ex-rays, the examining doctor asked me "who is your rheumatologist". I told him " Dr. Harold Paulus at UCLA". The doctor lit up with excitement and said, " I know Dr. Paulus, he was my professor in medical school. If Dr. Paulus says you have RA, then that's all I need to know." ---- And I was approved for the medical leave.
Dr. Paulus was the kind of doctor that listened to all my concerns. It didn't matter how long the exam took. He wanted to make sure his patient felt cared for. I appreciate having been blessed with such a wonderful doctor. I measure every doctor by the qualities that Dr. Paulus displayed. If I am assigned a doctor today that does not meet the "Paulus" standard, I immediately look for another doctor.
To Dr. Paulus children, thank you for sharing your dad with the world.
Debra
Andrew Paulus
August 4, 2021
Happy Birthday, Dad! We love you and we miss you!
Andrew Paulus
July 18, 2021
Thinking of you today, Dad, on Mom's birthday! We love you and we miss you!
Andrew Paulus
June 20, 2021
Happy Father's Day, Dad! We love you and we miss you!
Cyndy
April 6, 2021
Daddy joined mom on April 5th, 2019 at 4:05 a.m.
Miss him everyday.... Picture is super cute and shows the fondness of Dad and me... rocking on St. Patty's Day I think. I would have been about 1.5 yo then. We lived in Austin, MN at the time. Dad memories are special and there are so many. Miss you Daddy. I was honored to have the privilege of being with you during your last earthly moment, after several weeks of care by the Best in the West of UCLA... you shared stories that many I'd only heard for the first time. What a blessing. Thank you for the life you and Mom beset on a couple of the luckiest and most grateful two kiddoes... Andy and I. Much love Daddy.
Andrew Paulus
April 4, 2021
Happy Easter, Dad! We love you and we miss you!
Mom and Dad - Together Forever
February 16, 2021
Andrew Paulus
December 28, 2020
Andrew Paulus
December 24, 2020
Merry Christmas, Mom and Dad!
My gift to you is this lovely poem from the 1937 movie, "Make Way for Tomorrow."
A man and a maid stood hand in hand;
bound by a tiny wedding band.
Before them lay the uncertain years
that promised joy and, maybe tears.
"Is she afraid?" thought the man of the maid.
"Darling," he said in a tender voice,
"Tell me. Do you regret your choice?
'We know not where the road may wind,
'or what strange byways we may find.
'Are you afraid?" said the man to the maid.
She raised her eyes and spoke at last.
"My dear," she said, "the die is cast.
'The vows have been spoken. The rice has been thrown.
'Into the future we’ll travel alone.
'With you," said the maid, "I’m not afraid."
Andrew Paulus
November 16, 2020
Thinking of you, Dad. Miss you.
Dad, Me, and Copper
Andrew Paulus
August 4, 2020
Happy Birthday, Dad! We love you and we miss you!
Andrew Paulus
June 26, 2020
I Miss My Dad
You were a Dad who was so special and who brought so much happiness to the lives you touched.
You were always so kind and caring and so understanding. And if help was ever needed, it came so freely from you.
You were a gift to all the world and brought joy to everyone. Life will not be the same without you here.
I know you are watching over me, Dad.
I miss you and I love you.
Andrew Paulus
June 23, 2020
Hi Dad! Just wanted to share with you some great news. Dr. Andrew Wong, from Olive View Medical Center, received his academic promotion yesterday. He is so happy and sent me an
e-mail to acknowledge and thank you for all your years of support and for the letters of recommendation you sent on his behalf. I let him know you would be so proud to know of this well-deserved promotion. =)
Andrew Paulus
June 21, 2020
Happy Father's Day, Dad. And Happy 65th wedding anniversary! Miss you and mom so much!
Cyndy Paulus
June 9, 2020
Found this great 1980s photo of Dad, Harold E Paulus & Mom, Rita C Paulus, my brother Andrew J and myself. Such a cute picture. Thinking about you Dad and Mom. Love to you both, Cyndy
Young Harold
Andrew Paulus
May 23, 2020
Andrew Paulus
May 23, 2020
An e-mail written to my sister, dated September 6th, 2010:
Hi There!
I was at Mom and Dad's house yesterday, not really to do a lot of cleaning or anything since I already did that last week. I went over there to put up that new bathroom light fixture and just to hang out for a while. I brought lunch. We had a good casserole I made, consisting of chicken sausage, vegetables, roasted potatoes and Rotini pasta. I also baked some yummy honey biscuits. So it was a nice relaxing way to spend the afternoon.
But what really made the day something special was our chats. The three of us sat in the living room and chatted over coffee. We talked about current events, as we usually do, and about what I'm going to do with my car and things like that.
We also chatted our concerns about your situation but felt better knowing that you are in good hands regarding the proposed treatment and care.
But what was really interesting was our chat about daddy's childhood. I learned some things that I never asked or knew before and I wanted to share that with you before I forget. We know a lot about Mom's childhood more but not a whole lot about Dad's. And he was so willing to share which I thought was cool. Here's what I learned from our awesome Dad.
When Mom and Dad were little kids, they lived in different neighborhoods of Bethlehem but shared a common playground. Mom remembers Dad when they were kids. She said he had lots of blond curly hair and that he was always one of the nice boys. Meaning, he wasn't one of the mean boys who would kick down their sand castles. "Some boys would do that, you know, just because they could," Mom said.
Dad lived with his mother, father and younger sister, in a row house. Theses were very common housing of the day whereby several houses were stuck together sharing common walls on either side. But they all had their own separate front door and sitting patio in the front. They had stairs to get up to the front doors.
Mom and Dad didn't go to the same schools. They went to separate schools.
Dad's mother's name was Marian Schaeffer and she was Pennsylvania Dutch. His father was a metallurgist with the Bethlehem steel mills. His job was to study the strength and integrity of the metals and when they failed, his job was to study why it failed and find solutions. He worked at the steel mills all his life at this job.
When Dad was seven years old, his mother died of a ruptured appendix. It was a sad time for the family but it was not their first loss. Dad actually had an older sister who died at childbirth.
Interestingly, Mom's mother and Dad's mother knew each other from the playgrounds. When Dad's mother died, they moved to another part of town to be closer to Aunt Grace, Dad's mom's sister. And a couple other cousins around his own age were in that part of town as well.
He actually moved farther away from Mom and she didn't see him anymore for a while.
When Dad was in junior high school and high school, he would spend his summers working in the steel mills. He had various jobs but his first job was very hot, sweaty and labor intensive. When the hot steel was being moved from one location to another, a lot of the debris would spill over into traps below. It was his job (along with others) to clean out those traps.
He said when he first started, one worker asked him if he wanted to use a big shovel or a little shovel. Being a "dumb kid" as he put it, he opted for the big shovel, but soon found out that the metal debris was so heavy and he couldn't pick up a fully loaded big shovel. He said he soon learned to go with the little shovel.
As the summers went on, so did his jobs, and they became less labor intensive. He recalled working one summer in the lab.
Mom recalled also working within the labs of the mills and remembers them being "hot as Hades," as she put it.
The Bethlehem steel mills were the biggest and best of the day. All good steel came from the mills and almost everyone worked in some way connected to them.
When Dad went to college, he bought his first car, a Model A Ford, for around $35. He later sold it for about $40 and bought a Mercury.
Later, Mom and Dad came together again in college and dated. Dad said he wasn't the party animal type and more of the bookworm type.
Fast forward a few years after they were married when Dad was stationed in the army in Minnesota. They lived on base in one of the provided housing units. Later, once his tour was done, they moved to an apartment and decided to start a family. This was when you came into the picture and you lived for a short while in that apartment too.
Mom had a friend that told her about a nice house nearby on 12th Place NW in Austin. They saw it, liked it, and bought it. Later, in 1961, I came along. And, in 1964, our dog Copper joined us.
Right about that time, Dad was offered a fellowship in California. Mom wasn't too keen on the idea at all. You see, she recalled as a child seeing a newsreel in the theater that portrayed the 1906 San Francisco earthquake and, as Mom put it, "That had a lasting impression on me, and I thought to myself, 'that doesn't look like a place I would ever want to go.'"
Well, later in 1964, we packed our bags and headed on a two week vacation to California. Copper stayed behind at a local friend's house.
We apparently took the long scenic route, traveling south from Minnesota and crossing over through Kansas. This is where we met a fierce snowstorm and were hold up in a motel for three days. We loved it, playing in the snow and having all kinds of fun.
We continued south to San Diego and traveled up California, through La Jolla, Los Angeles, etc., to San Francisco. It was during that trip that Mom decided California wasn't so bad after all, so they sold the house and we moved to Santa Monica.
And the rest, as they say, is history. =)
Well, I hope you enjoyed this little trip down memory lane as much as I did. I learned some new things and I hope you did too.
Take care and remember, everything's going to be ok! =)
Much love,
Andy
Dad & Me...
Andrew Paulus
May 10, 2020
Dad loved our walks in the park.
Andrew Paulus
May 10, 2020
Thinking of you, Dad, and missing you and Mom today, on Mother's Day.
Andrew Paulus
December 25, 2019
Merry Christmas, Dad, we love you!
Andrew Paulus
November 16, 2019
Thinking of you, dad, and missing you...
Andrew Paulus
August 4, 2019
Andrew Paulus
August 4, 2019
Happy 90th Birthday, Dad! Much love to you and Mom...
Andrew Paulus
June 18, 2019
Happy Father's Day, dad, and Happy 64th wedding anniversary! Much love to you and mom...
Anne (Paulus) Davis-Heim
April 29, 2019
Uncle Harold lived on the west coast, his sister Joanne (our Mom) on the east coast, so we did not have very much opportunity to visit with Hal and Rita, but I do recall some visits when I was young. Mom tells a story about Hal rescuing us when he stopped in for a visit while moving out to the Midwest. Our Dad was on a top secret work trip in Florida (he was an optical engineer and some of the projects were DoD and space related), and the trip was extended several times. Mom did not drive, we were out of groceries and money and beginning to get a little desperate. Rita stayed with the 5 of us kids and Hal took Mom out and bought us a month's supply of food! Mom has always treasured her family, and especially her brother Hal. He will be missed!
Andrew Paulus
April 17, 2019
Missing my dad, every moment, of every day. I love you, Dad.
Andrew Paulus
April 17, 2019
Ladies and gentlemen, family and friends, colleagues of our dad, and to all of those who are thinkers of great thoughts, doers of great deeds, and speakers of great words, we are humbled and honored to share with you today, some of our thoughts and memories, of our dad.
Every one of you, gathered here today, have come to pay your respects, your honor, and your love, for a man who is so greatly admired, so revered, so greatly cherished and appreciated, and who comes with such high regard and esteem. It is simply, breathtaking.
At this time, we wish to share with you, just a few of our personal musings of our dad, because most of you know him as Dr. Paulus. We know him, simply, as dad.
One of my earliest memories was in Minnesota, where I was born. I was a little fella and I recall my dad being so grand and so tall. I looked up to him, literately. He wore a dark suit and skinny tie and although I really didn't understand what he did or where he went, I was always so happy to see him when he came back.
Our dad was a conservative man. A man of few words but the ones he chose to speak, spoke volumes. With him, as the saying goes, he did not need to chew his cabbage twice. He was not going to repeat himself. You heard it the first time, and that was all you were going to get.
He was not an excitable man. A very calm, carefully worded and thoughtful man. An image I, myself, aspire to achieve and by now you may be saying, well, that sounds just like the Hal we know. And we would say to you, well yes, you are probably right. And then we would say, well, that sounds just like the dad we know too.
In the early 1960's, we moved to California and to Santa Monica and my sister and I each share a memory of dad taking us to the elementary school playground one fine Saturday morning, to teach us to ride our bicycles, without our training wheels. We were so excited.
I remember my turn, with wrench in hand, he unbolted my training wheels and with one good push, off I went with the wind behind me and my dad running beside. I felt safe. I knew he would not let me fall. And as soon as he thought I could make it on my own, he stopped running, and I rode on ahead. He was so proud of us. And we, of him.
As we came into the 1970's, one thing we remember is dad buying a pop-up camper. The kind you towed behind your car and opened up into a sort-of tent trailer. I, myself, would have preferred to stay in a hotel but we found much fun and adventure driving up and down the coast in the Chevrolet Suburban, trailer in tow, with mom at his side (she had map duty) guiding us to our destination. Our dad really enjoyed these outings. And we did too. We had campfires, went on hikes and trails, roasted marshmallows, went fishing, and other adventures of the day.
1971 brought our first experience with an earthquake and I remember being so petrified to move, only to be suddenly and without hesitation swept into the protecting arms of my dad and carried to safety. He was my superman. My super. Man.
The robust and rebellious years of our teenage youth pushed ever so steadfastly forward and our dad was always there, to protect from a quiet distance, to guide when guidance was needed, to advise, when advice was requested.
We remember one day in the mid 1970's he came home with a very large ping-pong table. This was a lot of fun for us. We spent many wonderful summer afternoons in friendly games and dad was actually very good. He beat me almost every time.
He enjoyed doing many of the home repair projects that a lot of us would just call a repair person to do. He taught me a lot and I learned to be able to do a lot of things around the house. He taught me how to paint, how to repair the roof, how to replace electrical switches and sockets, install a light fixture, re-wire a lamp, install a garbage disposal, a toilet, and how to repair leaks in broken pipes. He also taught me how to do a lot of garden work as well. He showed me how to dig and install a drainage system, how to install and repair sprinkler lines, and how to plant and maintain a beautiful lawn of green grass. He was truly a man, of many talents.
I once asked him, if he didn't become a doctor, what would have wanted to be. He said probably an Engineer. I said, I can see that. Makes perfect sense.
I wish I could say that I have a lot of funny or silly anecdotes to share with you about my dad. He was not a big joke teller. He was not a prankster nor a circus clown. But one thing that he was, was a man who loved his family without condition, without question, without judgement.
After our mom passed nearly three years ago, it was hard for him to lose the love of his life and we soon learned this will be a new chapter for us and to get to know dad in a whole new way. He became my "good-time buddy" in a way. I took him on afternoon outings to the park to see the lake and to feed the ducks, to wonderful museums of learning and education, to inspiring movies with the most comfortable theater seating, and to other fun places of the day.
I took him to Chili's a few times, he really liked Chili's. I usually ordered tacos, he would have their famous chili, and we would both enjoy a margarita as we sat in the bar area and watched all the various sporting events overhead. He really enjoyed that.
He was a quietly social man and he really looked forward to our outings. We went to other local places for lunch, like Fat Sal's or The Stand or Tres Hermanos. He really liked those places. He liked going to new places that he had never been before.
We are so grateful to have him as our dad. We are so grateful to have been able to have the opportunity to spend so much time with him these last few years. They have been the best years for me, and we'll remember them fondly and cherish our time with dad, forever.
Cyndy Paulus
April 15, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 15, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 15, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 15, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 15, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 15, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 15, 2019
Richard Ress
April 15, 2019
I met Dr. Paulus as a Rheumatology Fellow, rotating from Cedars-Sinai to UCLA in 1974-75. Hal was the most approachable attending at UCLA, treating fellows with warmth and respect. He was a wonderful teacher, always available to listen and advise; a mentor and role model for us all.
-Richard Ress, MD
Grace West
April 15, 2019
I'm forever indebted to Dr. Paulus who continually pushed me to be a better thinker, better student and worker, and a better person. He affected so many lives and always seemed to find the humor and the good in each one.
Dr. Paulus will always be remembered as the best boss I ever had. He was firm, yet gentle. Sharp, yet sweet. It's a wonder he continued to be a mentor to me since I first met him in 1996, and that our last conversation was the end of March. He was still trying to improve people and methods even in the rehabilitation center.
I will cherish the friendship and mentorship, and I will treasure the memories. Thank you, Dr. Paulus, always.
Tina Burger
April 11, 2019
We lost one of the most incredible human beings I've ever known in my life.
When I came to work at UCLA in the Division of Rheumatology, Dr. Paulus was one of the first persons I met and started working with when I was only 22 years old. He was one of the most kindest, brightest, integral and humblest of human beings that I have ever had the opportunity to know. I was privileged to work with him for 19 years from 1990 to 2009 and during that time, he taught me so much both personally and professionally and played a huge role in the woman I am today.
He treated everyone equally, whether you were one of his colleagues or the cleaning crew, he welcomed you into his office with a smile and listening ear. He mentored more residents, fellows and colleagues than I can count while setting the example by treating his patients with the upmost dignity, respect and genuine compassion.
I will never forget this extraordinary and am honored to have had him in my life. I know many echo my sentiments of his accomplishments and attributes and the outstanding person that he was.
He will be sorely missed.
Tina Burger
My last day at UCLA with Dr. Paulus attending our luncheon
Tina Burger
April 11, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 10, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 10, 2019
2018 Rheumatology Dept Thanksgiving
Cyndy Paulus
April 10, 2019
2018 required employer training
Cyndy Paulus
April 10, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 10, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 10, 2019
Weiling Chen
April 10, 2019
Dr. Paulus will be fondly remembered for his warmth, kindness, sense of humor and strong work ethics. It was a great honor and privilege to know him and his awesome family. I am forever grateful for his guidance and friendship. Deepest condolences.
April 10, 2019
Cyndy Paulus
April 10, 2019
Missing my Pops
So blessed to call this wonderful man, Dad.
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