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Aranye Fradenburg Joy
April 5, 2025
Dear Jim, Still missing your spirit of truthfulness and humanity, your rich intelligence and passion for your work. Our country is not doing well without you. In some ways I am glad you are not here to see the ongoing brutality and mindlessness that currently afflict us. But perhaps you see it from somewhere, and help us stay true to the wondrous capacities of the mind against the dull emptiness of addictions to power. My love and respect always, and to your family.
Arnaldo Chuster
April 5, 2024
He Will always be in my best memories with deep gratitude for all he share
Lynne Okun
December 3, 2023
Hi Gooch family... What a wonderful event today, I'm sorry I wasn't able to join it live, but it was very moving to watch/listen live on zoom! I've wanted to share that Jim had such an impact on shaping my career as an art therapist. I was just about 25 years old and thinking of studying Art Therapy... Jim drove me to Camarillo State Hospital and I was invited to sit in on art therapy group with Jack Cheney and the patients in his care--It was an amazing first exposure to this field that I've been intimately involved in ever since. I am so very grateful to him for this and am obviously one of many people who he shared his interests, expertise and kindness with... I know you were all so loved by him, it was always great to be around your family!
cherin perelman
August 23, 2021
Sammy and I offer our deepest sympathies.
Dodd Harris
May 13, 2021
Jim loomed large in my childhood years. He was quietly paternal and always included me in family festivities. He loved to work on the house and was a model husband and father.
Dr. Carl Totton, PsyD
October 25, 2020
Dr. Gooch was an extraordinary psychoanalyst and a gifted teacher of the art. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him, especially his wife Shirley and his family and friends, and also by his many patients, colleagues, and students. The depth of his empathy was exceptional. May he rest in peace, he will never be forgotten.
R. Dennis Porch, MD, PsyD
May 18, 2020
I have known Jim for over 30 years and am indebted to both he and Shirley for my training and understanding of adults and Children. Jim was both my supervisor and after i finished my training analysis, he became my weekly therapist as I experienced a painful disease. I owe so much to this couple and consider them my good friends. You are missed Jim and I use the hour per week that I have talked to you since 2007 as an hr. of contemplations and peace. Jim, I love both you and Shirley. Goodby but many good things from you carry on through me and surely are useful to my adult and child patients.
Lynne Friedman-Gell
May 6, 2020
Sending condolences to Shirley and all his family and friends. Jim was an amazing teacher and amazing soul. His smile was without parallel. I always felt so refreshed after sharing a smile with Jim, his resonance and kindness ran deep. I was one of his students at WILA and appreciated his joviality and intellect and this core of care that moved deeply through him and to others. I always looked for his smiling face to say hello at meetings over the years. His presence will be missed but his aliveness will stay strong in my heart when I remember him. Sending blessings for peace to his family.
Aranye Joy
April 21, 2020
Jim and Shirley Gooch were the best things that happened to me during my training as an analyst. Jim was my Supervisor and his generosity and insight were unparalleled. I will miss him terribly. Salut, Jim.
Peichao Zhang
April 21, 2020
Dear Jim, you lives in my heart, and grows stronger.
Arnaldo Chuster
April 21, 2020
" Jim was above all a dear friend. We share many deep moments since we create a study group on Bion's ideas. Those moments help to develop my work in every sense"
Caron Harrang
April 20, 2020
Jim was a beloved supervisor during my psychoanalytic training and later on an inspiring mentor and respected colleague. His salt of the earth honesty and directness are values I hold dear in the ongoing project of forever 'becoming' a psychoanalyst. I will miss him greatly. With condolences to Shirley and everyone in his large and loving family.
carol Memishiann
April 15, 2020
Jim Gooch, was one of the most caring, loving and devoted man we have everyhad the good fortune to know.
He was our friend, neighbor and inspiration. We can never think of him without smiling at every wonderful moment we were lucky enough to share, with him and his loving wonderful wife and boys! Shirley, we are not physically by your side, but you are deeply in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. It was a gift to us to share
so many wonderful times with you! We love you and will cherish all those family times we had together! Love to all, take good care....and always remember your instructions to Jim, when he went to buy the Olive Tree in the
courtyard .....and as always, brought the exact right thing for Shirl!!!!!! Much love, Carol and Steve Memishian
Erik Liddell
April 14, 2020
Deepest condolences to Shirley, Todd and Kathy and the whole extended Gooch family. Thinking about you and wishing you well. With love from KY.
judy shaibi
April 12, 2020
An unforgettable human being.
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