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Jefferson William Asher Jr.

1924 - 2019

Jefferson William Asher Jr. obituary, 1924-2019, Los Angeles, CA

Jefferson Asher Obituary

September 6, 1924 - November 26, 2019 Jefferson W. Asher Jr. passed away on November 26, 2019 at his home in Long Beach, CA. He was surrounded by his children at the time of his death, and he passed peacefully at the age of 95.Jeff was born in Los Angeles, the oldest child of Jefferson William Asher Sr. and Emily Gertrude Pinter Asher. He and his younger brother, Thomas Maurice Asher grew up in Hollywood, and attended Hollywood High School, where he met his future wife, Mary Frances Neville Asher.After graduation from Hollywood High School, Jeff enrolled at UCLA, and was in the Naval ROTC program. He received his commission into the US Navy, where he served from 1942 - 1946. He received a Purple Heart during his service. Jeff and Mary were married while he was on leave from the Navy on Sep. 1, 1944; their marriage lasted until 1997, when Mary passed away from complications due to Alzheimer's Disease.Jeff received a BA degree in Political Science from UCLA following his discharge from the Navy, and he also received an MBA with Distinction from the Harvard Business School in 1948. He was a very accomplished business advisor and operator, having worked in a variety of management capacities for American Research and Development Corporation, Robert Heller & Associates, and Boston Capital Corporation, among many others. Additionally, he functioned as the Business Manager for Kirk Douglas & related entities, as well as serving on the Board of Directors and as Chairman of the Audit Committee for Baldor Electric Motor Co. for many years. Jeff was also one of the founders of Sea World in San Diego. In the latter part of his career, Jeff functioned as an Expert Witness on a variety of matters involving the establishment of fair market value for a variety of commercial and real estate entities and was a member of the American Arbitration Association.Jeff remained active with his business interests for his entire life. Following the passing of his wife Mary, he moved from the San Fernando Valley to Long Beach, and lived an active life of travel, time spent with his kids and grandkids and numerous friends, and he became a serious student of Buddhism. He also served as a volunteer to the Braille Institute as a reader, and was an involved in charitable giving and activities up until the time of his death.Jeff is survived by his three children Susan Hoerner, Catherine Perkins, and Jefferson W. Asher III; his sons-in-law Roger Perkins and Dennis Hoerner; his daughter in-law Lynda Asher; his Grandchildren John Hoerner, Robin Perkins, Mike Perkins, Krystina Cook, Pamela Bartsch, and Jefferson T. Asher; and his Great Grandchildren Trinity Perkins, Walter Cortez, Bradley Cortez, Preston Cook, Jameson Cook, Roseleigh Cook, Gunnar Bartsch, Finley Bartsch, Maren Bartsch, and Jefferson W. Asher V. He was extremely proud of his family, and their accomplishments, and loved nothing more than spending time with his family.Jeff lived an incredibly full and consequential life. Through both his personal and business activities, he positively impacted many people from all walks of life. He loved life and was intellectually curious up until the very end. He was truly a life-long learner who had the unique ability to evaluate and simplify even the most complicated situations. He will be sorely missed by all of those who knew him, most especially his family.A Memorial Service with the purpose of celebrating his life has not yet been scheduled, but likely will be in early February 2020. In the meantime, any questions in this regard can be directed to his son, Jefferson W. Asher III. Donations can be made to the USC Alzheimer's Disease Research Center.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Dec. 3 to Dec. 8, 2019.

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Michelle Barclay

January 22, 2024

I met Jeff when he was a volunteer for the Alzheimer's Association. He was on a committee that I led as a staff person. He was one of my favorite people in the world. Jeff was smart, kind, passionate and had the most interesting life story. I could listen all day to his ideas and experiences. He was a mentor to me, and I will never forget him. I moved away from LA in 2006, and did not realize that Jeff had passed away. For his family, know that Jeff touch countless lives, including mine, and I feel so lucky to have had the opportunity to get to know him.

Matt Wells

April 13, 2021

I am so sorry to hear of Jefferson's passing, and sorry that this guest book entry is late! Jefferson was in fact a generous supporter of PUENTE Learning Center, the educational nonprofit where I work. He was very energetic in our conversations, even when well into his 90s. He is dearly missed, and I am so grateful for getting to know him.

Lisa Russell

December 25, 2020

I'm so sorry this is so late. Jeff was a friend of my father, Jim Russell. They met at UCLA. My father thought very highly of Jeff. Jeff was in my parent's wedding in 1946.

I've been very preoccupied with caring for my mother the last year and didn't keep in touch. I'm sorry to be so late with my condolences.

Lisa Russell

Sarah Brewer

March 29, 2020

Thank you for being my friend, Jeff. I will never, for the rest of my life, forget you. We grew up across the street from each other, separated by 60 years. Thank you for the warmth, kindness, and memories you shared. I can write the story of Agua Dulce and Vasquez Rocks because of you. I am so happy you are with your mom, dad, grandma, brother, and of course, your beloved Mary, once more. Thank you for everything you shared with me over the years. Will miss you always and think of you so very often.

Wendy Erich

December 4, 2019

I am so sad to read about Jeff's passing. Jeff and Mary lived in the same Boston apartments as my parents, Fred and Ellie Walker, in Brookline Mass back in the late 40s, and together had so many great memories together from their younger days after the war. When my husband and I moved to LA in 2012, we met Jeff for lunch at Tony Romas in Encino, and that lunch turned into frequent get togethers added to his busy Wednesdays in north LA. We bought a house just streets over from where Jeff and Mary raised their kids.
When my parents would visit LA, we had opportunities to see Jeff (before we moved back to Denver by 2016). I think of Jeff often, of his deep enjoyment of life, the humble stories dragged out of him about his amazing career(s), his voice, and of his continued desire and ability to contribute to the good of society well into his late years. His positive energy must have sustained his long day (by anyones standards) of driving to Sherman Oaks, taping books for the blind, occasionally a lunch with me, a stop at the frozen yogurt store, and meeting his meditation group before his drive back to Long Beach in afternoon traffic....all this in his late 80s/early 90s. I was seeking his address on the internet this week to mail him a holiday card, when this forum came up. Given Jeff's deep connections with human spirit, I do not find this to be a coincidence that somehow I thus gently informed of his passing? He will be missed but so very fondly remembered. Our deepest condolences to your family, whom he cherished and was so proud of each of you.
From Wendy Erich, Denver CO 12/03/19

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