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John Donald McCarthy

142 - 2019

John Donald McCarthy obituary, 142-2019, Los Angeles, CA

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2019

John McCarthy Obituary

July 7, 1942 - September 15, 2019 On Sunday, September 15, 2019, John Donald McCarthy, loving father, grandfather, brother, and friend, passed away at the age of 77. Don was born July 7, 1942, in Syracuse, New York, to Charles and Mary (Foley) McCarthy. He graduated with an engineering degree from Cornell University in 1965, where he played both lacrosse and football and earned his law degree from Harvard Law School in 1968. Don moved to Los Angeles in 1976 where he practiced intellectual property law for over 40 years as a partner at Lyon & Lyon and Jones Day. Together with Lorri Ditz McCarthy, he shared daughters Kate (McCarthy) Duncan and Megan McCarthy, and stepdaughters Sara (Moore) Shank and Jennifer (Moore) Vitro. Outside of his career, Don loved to stay active both physically and in his community. In his younger years, he ran numerous marathons around the country, was a member of the "Ridge Runners" running group, and always loved a pick-up game of basketball after work. Later in life, his passion became playing golf at Los Angeles Country Club. His favorite part of retirement was the ability to play golf as often as he pleased. He was a devoted member of the Catholic Big Brothers and Big Sisters of Los Angeles and served as Chairman of their Board of Directors. Don also treasured spending time with his family, conquering the LA Times crossword and dominating Words with Friends. Don was preceded in death by his mother and father, his brother, Charles "Skip" McCarthy, Jr., and his sister, Anne Stack. He is survived by his sister, Mrs. Jeanne Hutchins, daughters, Kate and Megan, Sara and Jennifer, their spouses and four children, Madison, Spencer, Elizabeth and Thomas. A celebration of life is to be planned in Los Angeles, with a scattering of ashes at Skaneateles Lake at a future date. Memorial donations can be made to Catholic Big Brothers and Big Sisters of Los Angeles through their website www.catholicbigbrothers.org or via telephone 213-254-9800.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Sep. 20 to Sep. 22, 2019.

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Pam Nichols Shumway

September 16, 2023

I grew up with Don in Skaneateles. He was valedictorian in one of the smartest classes to come along in the 50s & 60s. Everybody loved him. He didn´t like being 5 days younger than I am so he wouldn´t tell me when his birthday was.

Chatland Whitmore

September 14, 2023

A dear, dear friend that the world regrettably lost.

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Daniel Pitkin

April 20, 2020

Don was my good friend and favorite Mechanical Engineering classmate at Cornell University, graduating in 1965. We took many courses together and Don was always at the very top of the grading curve after our preliminary and final exams. Nevertheless, Don was always humble and kind to his classmates and fraternity brothers.
We Cornellians in Orange County had a chance to get together with Don at two memorial services for our fellow Cornell classmates - Phil Ratner and David Mellon. We had a chance to reconnect with Don and recall our many adventures in Cornell sports and fraternity life. Don McCarthy has always been an inspiring role model for all that knew him and his loss only accentuates his positive influence on our lives.
May God bless and keep Don's entire family in His loving care!

Chat Whitmore

November 12, 2019

One of my very best friends in life. He'll be greatly missed.

Pam Shumway (Nichols)

November 9, 2019

Don came to my 7th birthday & I went to his 5 days later. We were friends for life. He was as athletic as he was brilliant & humble. I'll miss him until I see him in our "eternal home."

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