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MaryAnn Pocapalia Obituary

May 5, 1921 - February 26, 2017 MaryAnn Pocapalia passed away early Sunday morning, February 26 at the age of 95. Born in Stevens Point, Wisconsin, she was the oldest of 5 with 4 younger brothers. She was a high energy, fearless adventurer who traveled by train alone to Pasadena, California, when she was only 16. MaryAnn dreamed of being a singer and wanted to study music with teacher, Emily Feuerstein, her "Aunt Emmy." After 2 years here, MaryAnn discovered this perhaps was not her path. She attended secretarial school and moved back to Chicago for possible employment opportunities. A few Chicago winters were enough to entice MaryAnn back to California. During World War II, MaryAnn was a secretary for a plastics company. One fateful day soon after the war, Dan Pocapalia, who had recently started up Kit Manufacturing, walked into MaryAnn's office. Two years later they were married and had 5 beautiful children. Over the next 63 years, Dan and MaryAnn were a committed life team. The Pocapalia clan enjoyed a "town and country" life-style in Palos Verdes. Family was always the most important part of life for MaryAnn and large family reunions were held often. MaryAnn was a devout and involved parishioner at Holy Trinity Catholic Church. Also civic minded, MaryAnn headed up a non-profit: C.A.T.H.Y, Community Assistance to Homeless Youths, and pursued legal rights for foster children in California. Later in life, MaryAnn was a court docent and taught students on field trips how the judicial system worked. MaryAnn loved to travel but not just to fine museums, chateaus and palaces, she also explored the jungles of New Guinea, South America and the plains of Africa. MaryAnn's love of music and theater were nourished by season patronage to the Music Center, and the Disney Hall. She was also a patron of the Russian National Orchestra. Fortunately for her children, MaryAnn also included them in these adventures and cultural experiences. She had a "Wonderful Life." MaryAnn is survived by her 5 children, Maria, Daniel, Diana, Richard and Ann Pocapalia, her grandchildren Adrianne and Kimberly Brounstein, Richard and Jordan Kern, and by her brother David Spalenka. In lieu of flowers, please send condolence donations to Holy Trinity Church, San Pedro, CA.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Mar. 4 to Mar. 5, 2017.

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Celia Gonzales

March 15, 2017

Dear Ann, How fortunate your family was to have your mom till this time in life when we ourselves are looking at retirement! I'm sure she kept you all on your toes and I hope that when you come to tears it's because you laugh until you cry remembering all she did for you in her own unique way. I hope your memories are always sweet and that little things that made her smile are smile inducing moments for you too.

KELLEY

March 14, 2017

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FAMILY AND FRIENDS SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BRING YOUR FAMILY A MEASURE OF COMFORT.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

Kathy Rippo

March 12, 2017

Dear Maria, Danny, Diana, Richie and Annie,
I was saddened to hear of your moms passing. I have many fond memories of your joyful mom and dad and our days growing up on Rockinghorse. Those were wonderful and special times when Rockinghorse was a road with just a few houses. Your entire family will be in our prayers.

Love,
Kathy Watkins Rippo

Marilyn Katherman

March 5, 2017

My family lived next door to Dan and Maryanne for 20 years.
They were the nicest neighbors. They shared fruits and vegetables
from their trees. I went to the music center with Maryanne several
times. Loved hearing about family vacations and fishing trips to Costa Rica. I will never forget Maryanne telling the story of how they purchased the property and built their dream home. What a wonderful family. We are sorry for your loss.
Rob and Marilyn Katherman

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