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Richard S. Pacsay

1953 - 2019

Richard S. Pacsay obituary, 1953-2019, Ayer, MA

BORN

1953

DIED

2019

FUNERAL HOME

Badger Funeral Home of Littleton

347 KING ST

Littleton, Massachusetts

Richard Pacsay Obituary

, Mass. -- It is said that US Marines may guard the gates to Heaven, but the Seabees built the gate and paved the road to it. On May 19, 2019, Petty Officer 1st Class Richard S. Pacsay, a United States Navy Seabee, walked that road home. Richard passed away peacefully at his home in Ayer, Massachusetts. He was the beloved husband to Doreen (Testa) Pacsay.

Richard was born in Boston on November 4, 1953, a son to the late Joseph and Eunice (Grady) Pacsay. He grew up and attended schools in Littleton and Somerville, Massachusetts. Upon graduating, Richard enlisted in the United States Navy and served as a Seabee, a position he was most proud of and held until his retirement in 2007. In his free time he could be found socializing with other retired Veterans at the VFW in both Littleton and Westford or cruising area yard sales for hidden treasures and bargains. Richard was a collector of many things. He enjoyed antique auto shows and watching baseball, football and Nascar. He was a friend to all and his "Can Do" attitude and mischievous smirk will be greatly missed. He most enjoyed his time with family.

In addition to his wife Doreen, Richard is survived by his children, Tatum Worcester and her husband, Matt, of Dublin, Stephen Pacsay and his wife, Kathy, of Wolfeboro, Heather Niemela and her fiancé, Ryan Wragg, of Peterborough, Melinda Johnson of Woodstock, Connecticut and Kyle Conroy of Yakima, Washington; his grandchildren who brought him much joy: Alison, Elias, Aubrey, Hannah, Jocelyn, Adaya, Caleb, Michael and Gracie; and his siblings Jay Pacsay of Westford, Massachusetts, Corinne Wall of Medford, Massachusetts, Meg Fraser-Romilly of Littleton, Massachusetts, Michael Fraser of Sagamore, Massachusetts, and Eileen Holman of New Ipswich; many cousins, nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by Lee (Fraser) Brodley who acted as his second mother.

Family and Friends are welcome to gather to honor and remember Richard for a period of memorial visitation on Tuesday, May 28, 2019 from 4-7 p.m. in the Badger Funeral Home, 347 King Street, Littleton, MA. Burial with military honors will be held on Wednesday May 29, 2019 at 10:00 a.m. in the Massachusetts Veteran's Memorial Cemetery, 111 Glenallen St. Winchendon, MA.

In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the American Heart Association, PO Box 3049, Syracuse,NY 13220 or online at www.heart.org

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Monadnock Ledger-Transcript on May 27, 2019.

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Mark Madden

May 18, 2022

Rest easy Seabee, we have the watch

Laura Carney

July 21, 2019

Sorry for your loss

David Fenton

May 28, 2019

To Richie's family- our sincere condolences on your loss. We are thinking of you.

May 28, 2019

To the Pacsay Family:

On behalf of a grateful nation, and the VFW Auxiliary/Post #4485 in Somersworth, NH, we wish to express sincere appreciation for the honorable service given by your loved one, and send our deepest condolences on your loss.

VFW Auxiliary President, 2016-2018
Cathy Burns

ROBERTA BERLIED

May 27, 2019

Doreen and family, so sorry to hear of Richie's passing, our thoughts are with you and all the family, John & Roberta Berlied

Lisa Champagne

May 26, 2019

Doreen. I'm so sorry to see this. My heart goes out to you. Sending love and hugs.

May 24, 2019

My deepest condolences to the Pacsay family. Take as much time as you need to cope with your grief and always look to God, who loves us, for "everlasting comfort". (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17)

Kevin Keefe

May 23, 2019

Sincere condolences out to the entire family. Will always have the fondest memories of Richie, my life-long friend. Rest In Peace Chief.

May 23, 2019

My condolences to the family and friends. God promises to be with us at Isaiah 4:10 if we call on Him. May He get you through this difficult time.

Eo1 frank Ward

May 23, 2019

Fair winds and following seas shipmate

Robi Ross

May 22, 2019

so sorry for your loss.

Luigi Iacoviello

May 22, 2019

May your soul rest in peace.
God Bless.
American Legion member

Anne Sweatt

May 22, 2019

We will miss dear Richie, he was an awesome friend to all of us, his kindness and gentleness will remain with us always. Perhaps there are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down on us........... love from our heart, Anne Sweatt and family

American Heart Association

May 21, 2019

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Jerri phillips

May 21, 2019

So sorry Tatum, Steven and Heather for the loss of your dad. My sympathy to all your families. Aunt Jerri.

Dan Benoit

May 21, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. Richie was a good friend growing up in Somerville. He will be missed.

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Memorial Events
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May

28

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Badger Funeral Home of Littleton

347 KING ST, Littleton, MA 01460-1248

May

29

Burial

10:00 a.m.

Massachusetts Veterans Memorial Cemetery

111 Glenallen Street, Winchendon, MA

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Badger Funeral Home of Littleton

347 KING ST, Littleton, MA 01460-1248

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