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Rest easy Seabee, we have the watch
Mark Madden
May 18, 2022 | Taunton, MA | Friend


Photo courtesy of Badger Funeral Home of Littleton
Ayer, Massachusetts
Nov 4, 1953 – May 19, 2019 (Age 65)
It is said that US Marines may guard the gates to Heaven, but the Seabees built the gate and paved the road to it. On May 19, 2019, Petty Officer 1st Class Richard S. Pacsay, a United States Navy Seabee, walked that road home. Richard passed away peacefully at his home in Ayer, MA. He was the beloved husband to Doreen (Testa) Pacsay. Richard was born in Boston on November 4, 1953, a son to the late Joseph and Eunice (Grady) Pacsay. He grew up and attended schools in Littleton and Somerville, MA. Upon graduating, Richard enlisted in the United States Navy and served as a Seabee, a position he was most proud of \and held until his retirement in 2007. In his free time he could be found socializing with other retired Veterans at the VFW in both Littleton and Westford, or cruising area yard sales for hidden treasures and bargains. Richard was a collector of many things. He enjoyed antique auto shows and watching baseball, football and Nascar but above all, he most enjoyed his time with family. He was a friend to all and his "Can Do" attitude and mischievous smirk will be greatly missed. In addition to his wife Doreen, Richard is survived by his children Tatum Worcester and her husband Matt of Dublin, NH, Stephen Pacsay and his wife Kathy of Wolfeboro, NH, Heather Niemela and her fiancé Ryan Wragg of Peterborough, NH, Melinda Johnson of Woodstock, CT and Kyle Conroy of Yakima, WA; his grandchildren who brought him much joy Alison, Elias, Aubrey, Hannah, Jocelyn, Adaya, Caleb, Michael and Gracie; and his siblings Jay Pacsay of Westford, MA, Corinne Wall of Medford, MA, Meg Fraser-Romilly of Littleton, MA, Michael Fraser of Sagamore, MA, and Eileen Holman of New Ipswich, NH; many cousins, nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by Lee (Fraser) Brodley who acted as his 2nd mother. Family and Friends are welcome to gather to honor and remember Richard for a period of memorial visitation on Tuesday May 28, 2019 from 4-7PM in the Badger Funeral Home, 347 King Street, Littleton, MA. Burial with military honors will be held on Wednesday May 29, 2019 at 10:00 AM in the Massachusetts Veteran's Memorial Cemetery, 111 Glenallen St. Winchendon, MA. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to: American Heart Association PO Box 3049 Syracuse,NY 13220 or online at www.heart.org
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Mark Madden
May 18, 2022 | Taunton, MA | Friend
Sorry for your loss
Laura Carney
July 21, 2019 | Watertown, MA
To Richie's family- our sincere condolences on your loss. We are thinking of you.
David Fenton
May 28, 2019 | Panama City Beach, FL | Family Friend

To the Pacsay Family:
On behalf of a grateful nation, and the VFW Auxiliary/Post #4485 in Somersworth, NH, we wish to express sincere appreciation for the honorable service given by your loved one, and send our deepest condolences on your loss.
VFW Auxiliary President, 2016-2018
Cathy Burns
May 28, 2019
Doreen and family, so sorry to hear of Richie's passing, our thoughts are with you and all the family, John & Roberta Berlied
ROBERTA BERLIED
May 27, 2019 | Laconia, NH | Friend
Doreen. I'm so sorry to see this. My heart goes out to you. Sending love and hugs.
Lisa Champagne
May 26, 2019 | Templeton, MA | Friend
My deepest condolences to the Pacsay family. Take as much time as you need to cope with your grief and always look to God, who loves us, for "everlasting comfort". (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17)
May 24, 2019
Sincere condolences out to the entire family. Will always have the fondest memories of Richie, my life-long friend. Rest In Peace Chief.
Kevin Keefe
May 23, 2019 | Marlborough, MA | Friend
My condolences to the family and friends. God promises to be with us at Isaiah 4:10 if we call on Him. May He get you through this difficult time.
May 23, 2019