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October 1, 2017
5 years have gone but we're still thinking of you and we miss you.
September 12, 2013
Happy Birthday, Lane. We miss you.
William Cataldo
November 23, 2012
So sorry for your loss, Stay strong and believe that he is watching over you all helping you through this very difficult time. Please call for anything you all might need.
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October 17, 2012
Lane was such a wonderful and kind and funny boy. We miss you and we'll never forget you.
The Matties Family,
Ballston Spa, NY
October 11, 2012
Jen
My heart and thoughts are with you. Call on me if you need anything.
Love - Carol Fonda
October 10, 2012
Bob,Carol and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. May god watch over you and give you strength at this most difficult time.
Mark and Jamie
October 10, 2012
Rowe Family,
May you find comfort in your many memories of Lane and in the love of your family and friends during this difficult time. Your hero is now watching over you.
A BH-BL family
Kyle and Dalton
October 9, 2012
Lane was a wonderful boy. You and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayer each and every day. God bless you all.
BRIDY AND KIM LUCAS
October 8, 2012
So very sorry for your loss.I can't imagine what you must be going through. I pray that God gives you the strength to get through this difficut time. You are in are thoughts and prayers.
October 6, 2012
Jen, Reid and Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Jeff Ely
jen rowe abraham
October 6, 2012
Laney boy you are my heart,my,soul, you make me love life ,you are my best friend you make me smile you make me laugh you make my world a wonderful place .. you will always shine in the sky because laney you are my beautiful son..I love you forever ..see you again ...mommy
j r
October 6, 2012
Laney boy ..you were my heart , my soul ,my best friend ,my everything, and of course my son ...I will love you forever and thru eternity ..see you again my love ..forever. mommy
October 5, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at this time.
Vasilios Emmanuel Glimidakis
October 5, 2012
In memory of Lane Robert Rowe
A true and faithful boy who gave his life saving others and the thing he loved to do on October 1, 2012 in this location. God alone understands.
The Lord said, "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."--KJV John 15:13
Dear Rowe and other families,
I am sorry for your loss. God bless him and his family.
Lillian Lasher
October 5, 2012
We are all so sorry for your loss. We all carry your family in our hearts.
-the Martin/Palmatier/Lasher family
October 5, 2012
Jennifer - our prayers are with you and your family. I cannot fathom your loss ..... please know you are in our hearts and that we love you. Debbie and Mallory
Former pre-school teacher
October 4, 2012
I am greatly sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you all. <3
Joni Messineo
October 4, 2012
Jennifer,With my deepest sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you....
one mother to another
October 4, 2012
I can't even say how sorry I am for your loss. I know this sweet little boy is in heaven. I pray for his family and friends to get through this difficult time.God Bless you, and may you see Lane's wonderful spirit in the beautiful things God gives us.
BHBL Mom
October 4, 2012
From my family to yours our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I hope you all find peace and comfort in each other.
Beverly Gross
October 4, 2012
To the Rowe and Abraham Family,
I don't know your family, but I wanted to send my condolences to your family at this most difficult time and tell you my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Lane was a true hero and what he did for his siblings makes him a mature, young man. So sorry that it had to turn into a tragedy, but know that he is looking down at you and watching over you for he is your guardian angel. May he rest in peace for he is with God and his angels. I have a 12 year old son and nothing is more worse than losing a child. My brother passed away at 15 years old to liver cancer and that was the worst day of my family's life. His 31st anniversary was September 17. They say the pain goes away, but it doesn't. It seems like yesterday. You have family and friends who are there for you at this this most difficult time. May God give you strength and love to help you heal. God Bless You!
A Mom
Scotia, NY
Karen Paul
October 4, 2012
Sincere condolences to Lane's entire family and all his friends. Such a tragic loss for the entire community. Sending lots of hugs and prayers for you all.
October 4, 2012
Jenn and Bob, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mark Nunziato
A BHBL mom
October 4, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Rowe family. Lane showed what a caring boy he was by trying to do the right thing. May happy memories of Lane's full life comfort you today.
A Mom
October 4, 2012
My condolences to you and your family during this time of lost. May it be a time of remembrance of this young mans heroic actions for his Family. May God bless your Family.
Linda Grimaldi
October 3, 2012
Lane, you sweet boy. I'm so glad that our paths crossed in life. I'm not surprised that you tried so hard to protect your siblings. Our Stevens superstar is now an Angel in heaven. May you Rest in Peace sweet boy. My prayers for you and your family always.
A Mom
October 3, 2012
Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of your Son. My deepest sympathy
and prayers.
Michael Springer
October 3, 2012
When I read Lane's Obituary, the tears just started flowing and could not stop, I am crying as I type this. I cannot find the words to say how deeply sorry I am for your loss. No bond is as special as a parent/child one. May God bring you comfort and support.
BHBL Mom
October 3, 2012
I had the honor of knowing Lane and working with him when I helped out at Stevens, him and my dght are in the same grade. Lane had a big heart and it showed in the heroic act he did by saving his siblings. He will never be forgotten in the BH community. Prayers to the family.
October 3, 2012
Your son's spirit and love for his family will be his everlasting legacy, what an amazing little boy.
Much love and wishes for comfort,
A Mom of an 11 year old boy
October 3, 2012
he was a hero. god bless lane rowe
October 3, 2012
Jen: I cannot imagine what you're going through. Please take comfort in realizing, what a wonderful soul you delivered to this world, even though his stay was a short one. As he rests comfortably in God's arms, know that he will always be with you. God Bless you and your family. My prayers are with you. Charlene Furiani
October 3, 2012
RIP brave one.
BHBL Mom
October 3, 2012
I have been so very saddend by this. My heart goes out to the family especially Reid who was there to express your feelings in the last moments. I'm so very, very sorry for your loss.
Caitlin Sherwood (Monast)
October 3, 2012
In the short weeks that I had Lane as my student, he was truly a joy from the moment he entered my classroom. My heart goes out to Luca (my former student from last year) and the rest of Lane's family. I will always remember his smile and his kind demeanor. He will be greatly missed.
The Grock Family
October 3, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Rowe family. May friends and family help you through this difficult time.
Faith Battaglia
October 3, 2012
It's with such a sorrowful heart to extend my deepest sympathy to Lane's family.
As a mother of 3, I can't fathom losing a child. To me, that is the ultimate sadness in life. God Bless you and your family @ this very difficult time. I hope that the light of his soul will eternally shine on all of you.
A Mom
October 3, 2012
My heart goes out to all of you. Sending lots of prayers for strength for your family to get through this most difficult time. Words cannot express how we all share in your grief.
October 3, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire ROWE family. Please know how very special Lane was. He tried to save his siblings from harms way. What a true hero he is. May the wonderful memories you have of your son and brother stay in your hearts forever. I do pray for the entire ROWE family.
A Mom, Latham, NY
a mom
October 3, 2012
sorry for your loss.may friends and family help you get through this difficult time.
A Mom, Nanny and Dad n Poppy
October 3, 2012
Our sincere sympathy to the entire Rowe Family. As parents of 4 and Grandparents of 13 please know we are all praying for all of you and know God has given Lane Angel Wings for saving his siblings. God Bless and Keep you all.
Carol Samson
October 3, 2012
May the Lord lift you on his shoulders to carry you through this tragic time. My condolences to your family. I did not know Lane, but through these entries, I know he was an amazing young man!
Jeanne Foote
October 3, 2012
I imagine there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My thoughts and prayes go out to the Rowe family at this most difficult time. I did not have the honor of knowing your son, brother, grandson. He was in school with my son and he said he was a funny, thoughtful child. From what I have seen and heard about him, he is a hero and inspiration.
October 3, 2012
I know there are no words that could ease your pain, but know that an entire community is grieving with you, and hoping the coming days bring you strength, comfort and peace.
~ JH
Janice Dempster
October 3, 2012
Lane was a sweet boy. I have happy memories of knowing him during his time at Stevens. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I'm so sorry for your loss.
a Mom
October 3, 2012
Your very courageous son and your family are in my thoughts, my heart breaks for all of you. Please know your son did not pass in vain, he may save a life or two. Through tears, I shared this awful tragedy with my children and they learned what they would do if in the same situation. Lane is truly a hero, I wish you peace in your hearts.
Maria Rao
October 3, 2012
I am praying for all the family at this terribly difficult time. May God's comfort surround you all.
October 3, 2012
We do not always understand the ways of Almighty God. May He comfort you during this time of great sorrow. Your son showed great bravery and tremendous love for his family. God bless you all.
Lisa & Tony Malizia, Tommy and Haley Jansen
October 3, 2012
Jen and Family,
I can not express our deepest sorrow for you all. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Wish we could do something to help you through this most awful of times. Please know you are not alone, so many are thinking and praying for all of you. God bless you and your children.
October 3, 2012
So sorry for your loss, GOD please Bless this family during this difficult time.
October 3, 2012
I don't know your family but this is heartbreaking to any parent. What a brave child and a true hero.
October 3, 2012
I did not know Lane personally but my son was in his science class this year. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time. I'm so very, very sorry.
Evelyn Salas
October 3, 2012
My heart is broken for you. I know what you are going through because I lost a child in an accident too. I will keep you and your family in prayers and hope you are able to find some comfort.
a mom
October 3, 2012
God bless your family. Cherish your wonderful memories you have - ALWAYS remember that special smile. What a hero - he put his siblings safety before his own - shows the love of your family. Stay close to God.
Rita Pelton
October 3, 2012
I met Lane this year at O'Rourke Middle School. He was so very sweet and I will miss his positive spirit. I pray for all of you during this time.
a mom
October 3, 2012
Always cherish the time you had with Lane. His smile will ALWAYS be there for your family. What a hero to sacrifice his safety/life for his siblings - shows what kind of a young man you were bringing up. God Bless you.
anthony ciarfello
October 3, 2012
We don,t know your family but we are very heartbroken over it, we lost our 16 yr. old son 19yrs. ago and we know what your going through.
parents in colonie n.y.
October 3, 2012
Lane was a very sweet boy and will be very missed by the Hubbell family, expecially Kevin. Sending our love to the family.
Pat
October 3, 2012
I am so very sorry for your loss and touched by your son's sense of responsibility for his siblings. What an amazing child. I pray that your daughter knows that what her brother did for her was out of pure unselfish love. She was only trying to help him get into the van. So very sad. I don't know any of you but as a parent, I commiserate with your loss. So sad, but what an honorable way to go. Lane Robert Rowe is and will always be a hero.
October 3, 2012
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Rowe family.
Barb Iwan
October 3, 2012
Jen, Bob, Reid and Family, We are so very sorry for your loss. I only met Lane one time, but he seemed like a very funny, polite and helpful boy. He was also very brave to try to keep his Brothers and Sister out of danger. He will always be watching over you. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you all. He has his wings and can have peace with the Angels. Barb & Chrissy.
The Marro family
October 3, 2012
Words can not express the sorrow and pain we feel for the loss of your son, Lane. You have our prayers and deepest sympathy.
Mary Blessing
October 3, 2012
Bob & Carol:
No parent should ever endure the loss of a child. I am so very sorry you had to. We are thinking of you & love you.
Mary & Cate
Cathe & Mark Flood
October 3, 2012
Bob and Carol,
There are no words that can express how sorry we are to hear of Lane's passing. Losing a child is the worse thing that can ever happen to you in this world. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Lorrie
October 3, 2012
To the Rowe Family
May the peace that passes all understanding be with the entire family. May Jesus comfort your hearts.
October 3, 2012
Thoughts and prayers are with your family .
Dad of a 9yr old boy.
Nick Cioffi
October 3, 2012
Bob, Aunt Louise and Family: My Heart aches for your loss. Lane will be in my thoughts and prayers.
A mom
October 3, 2012
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your Lane is a true hero here on earth and I believe will continue to be your champion in heaven. I understand the pain of loosing a child and I pray for Lane and for all of you as you mourn his death. May God bless and comfort you and may your friends always be there for you.
Brenda Warner
October 3, 2012
I don't know Lane of his family but I want you to know how all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you all at this very stressful and difficult time. God Bless you Lane and family. You are with God now and thats the best place to be and he is watching down and protecting all of you and keeping you safe. Brenda
Wendy and John Vienneau
October 3, 2012
Our hearts go out to your entire family during this tragic time. Please know Lane has many angels with him.
A Mom
October 3, 2012
My heartfelt sympathies to your family.
October 3, 2012
Your in my thoughts and prayers-- God Bless,
The Whitmans
October 3, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers go to the family. Lane's smile will be missed.
BHBL mom
October 3, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for the entire Rowe family. Lane was a true hero, and his love for his family is just truly amazing. My prayers are with you all.
Donna Thomas
October 3, 2012
May the love & support of family, friends and the community give your family strength during this time. I have no doubt Lane was a wonderful young man.
A G
October 3, 2012
So sorry to hear about your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
Jim Dalpe
October 3, 2012
This is one of the saddest stoires I have heard in my lifetime. I never met this wonderful, brave little boy yet I have wept for days. I look forward to meeting Lane when it is my time.
Kimberly S
October 3, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. He sounds like an amazing young man and certainly showed how much he valued his family. It is a testament to your family that his only thought was of his siblings - I pray you will be able to use that love for each other to help you through this terrible time. I too have a birthday on September 12 and from now on I will take time on that day to do something to honor your son/brother/friend on the anniversary of his birth. Peace be with you.
Debra Currier
October 3, 2012
To the Rowe Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you in this time of tragedy. Lane sounds like he was a wonderful young man and everyone was Blessed to have known him. I did not have the pleasure to know him or your family, but I am a mom and a grandmother. May God's love and peace comfort you now and always.
P Sabb
October 3, 2012
I pray for your strength during this difficult time and days ahead. What a beautiful angel watching over you all!
Jeanne Sawyer
October 3, 2012
Lane was a sweet boy who brought a smile to everyone's face. He will be missed here at the Middle School
Cindy
October 3, 2012
I did not know this brave young man but the news of this tragedy has struck my heart deep as a mother of three. My thoughts are with the family and friends of this little Angel. My deepest sympathy to all.
October 3, 2012
do not know you but my heart hurt right
along with yours no one can understand
the pain that you have right now but i
can loss a daughter two years ago it will
get easier each day but you will never
forget my prayers are with you and your
family.a mother.
October 3, 2012
Our prayers and thoughts are with you Liz and your family. Sending all our love and lots of strength. Christen and Jeff
A Dad
October 3, 2012
As a father of three, this absolutely breaks my heart. May your memories of Lane bring you comfort during this horrible time. God Bless you all...
Peter North
October 3, 2012
Lane was a valuable member of the O'Rourke Middle School community and will be greatly missed. Our homeroom would like to express our sincere condolences to the Rowe family.
Bob
October 3, 2012
"Little Man" I never had the pleasure of meeting you, but there will be a time when we shall all get together again. For now, I pray for those Loved Ones that you left behind, knowing that you are now"A Flower in The Master's Boquet". Rest in Peace.
A Mom
October 3, 2012
My heart breaks for your family and for your beautiful son. Rest in Peace Lane!
A Mom
October 3, 2012
My deepest, heartfelt sympathy goes out to your family.
Linda Sheldon
October 3, 2012
keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers ...The Sheldon Family
A Parent
October 3, 2012
To the Rowe Family,
I cannot say I know what you are going through. I do know that if you LIFT UP YOUR EYES FROM WHICH COMETH YOUR HEALTH, you will see Lane looking down with his beautiful smile. He is now you GUARDIAN ANGEL...May God's strenght keep your family during this most difficult time.
Scott
October 3, 2012
I've never met you or your family, but it sounds like Lane was well on his way to becoming a fine example of a man, even at just 11-years-old. May his family be comforted by the knowledge that he really is a hero. Rest in peace.
clare
October 3, 2012
I don't know your family but I am deeply grieving the loss of such a wonderful boy. I found great comfort in the loving spirit in which this tribute was written and only hope that each one of us does the living Lane did not get to do and with the joy in which he lived his life. Let us all go forth and do random acts of kindness in celebration of Lane.
Caitlin Sherwood (Monast)
October 3, 2012
Lane was a wonderful student. He always came in with a smile on his face. He will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to his friends and family.
Laura Siracuse
October 3, 2012
To the Rowe and Abraham Families,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Lane was such a wonderful boy. We will always remember his huge smile and this sense of humor. Our community is here for you!
October 3, 2012
TO BOB AND FAMILY WE SEBD IUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. GOD BLESS. JEAN AND WALT BORISENOK DAYTONA BEACH FL
Barb Iwan
October 3, 2012
I only met Lane once but he seemed very friendly, polite and a sweet boy. Our thoughts and Prayers are with Jen, Reid and their whole family. Lane will be sorely missed and he was being such a Brave Boy. He surely has his Angel Wings now.
Kim Johnson
October 3, 2012
My deepest condolences to Lane's family. May his love and light keep all of you strong and hopeful for better tomorrows. Treasure the memories and treasure each other. I'm thinking of you all.
Patti Langan
October 3, 2012
So sorry for the loss of your beloved son. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. The Langan Family
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