Lane Rowe

Lane Rowe obituary, Schenectady, NY

Lane Rowe

Lane Rowe Obituary

Published by The Daily Gazette Co. on Oct. 3, 2012.
Lane Rowe Burnt HillsLane Robert Rowe was granted his angel's wings on Monday October 1st. Lane's life would seem too short to many, but those who were touched by him understand that the quality of his life far exceeded the quantity of time for which he lived. Lane loved life and he loved everyone and everything in his. He was the most outgoing little boy, full of energy and passion for life. He was a funny, amazing boy and brightened up everyone's day with hilarious jokes and his awesome personality. He loved bike riding, jumping on the trampoline, hanging out at his mom's hair salon Reflections in Burnt Hills, and spending time with his brothers, sisters, and cousins. Lane loved music and loved playing instruments, singing, and dancing. He enjoyed playing his video games, taking pictures and spending summers at his grandparent's home in the Catskills. Lane started middle school this year, loved hanging out with his best friends, and was well liked by all of his teacher's students. With Lane's passing we remind others that his life is one to be celebrated. Although we will miss him every day, his charming smile and loving spirit will remain in our hearts forever. Lane leaves behind a large, wonderful family. Lane is survived by his loving parents, Jennifer and Daniel Abraham of Burnt Hills and Robert Rowe and Carol Von Fricken of Schenectady; brothers, Reid Rowe, EJ, Lark & Felix Abraham; sisters, Luca and Donya Rowe and Miah Abraham; grandparents, Carolyn and Lynn Bradley of Margaretville, NY, Louise Rowe of Troy, NY, and Lavina and George Abraham; aunts and uncles, Paul and Elizabeth Ackerley, of Mt. Kisco, NY, Theodore Finkle and Pamela West-Finkle of South Kortright, NY, and Stuart Rowe of New Jersey; and cousins, Justin Foley, Sage, Denali and Akasha Finkle, Jessica Cambier, Parker and Piper Ackerley, and Nia Rowe of New Jersey. Memorial services will be held at the Burnt Hills Methodist Church, 816 New York 50, Burnt Hills, NY, Thursday, October 4 at 1 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Lane Rowe Memorial Fund at any branch of the Ballston Spa National Bank or be mailed to the bank at PO Box 70, Ballston Spa, NY 12020. Arrangements are by Townley & Wheeler Funeral Home.


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September 12, 2013

Happy Birthday, Lane. We miss you.

William Cataldo

November 23, 2012

So sorry for your loss, Stay strong and believe that he is watching over you all helping you through this very difficult time. Please call for anything you all might need.

October 17, 2012

Lane was such a wonderful and kind and funny boy. We miss you and we'll never forget you.

The Matties Family,
Ballston Spa, NY

October 11, 2012

Jen
My heart and thoughts are with you. Call on me if you need anything.
Love - Carol Fonda

October 10, 2012

Bob,Carol and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. May god watch over you and give you strength at this most difficult time.
Mark and Jamie

October 10, 2012

Rowe Family,
May you find comfort in your many memories of Lane and in the love of your family and friends during this difficult time. Your hero is now watching over you.
A BH-BL family

Kyle and Dalton

October 9, 2012

Lane was a wonderful boy. You and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayer each and every day. God bless you all.

BRIDY AND KIM LUCAS

October 8, 2012

So very sorry for your loss.I can't imagine what you must be going through. I pray that God gives you the strength to get through this difficut time. You are in are thoughts and prayers.

October 6, 2012

Jen, Reid and Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Jeff Ely

jen rowe abraham

October 6, 2012

Laney boy you are my heart,my,soul, you make me love life ,you are my best friend you make me smile you make me laugh you make my world a wonderful place .. you will always shine in the sky because laney you are my beautiful son..I love you forever ..see you again ...mommy

j r

October 6, 2012

Laney boy ..you were my heart , my soul ,my best friend ,my everything, and of course my son ...I will love you forever and thru eternity ..see you again my love ..forever. mommy

October 5, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at this time.

Vasilios Emmanuel Glimidakis

October 5, 2012

In memory of Lane Robert Rowe
A true and faithful boy who gave his life saving others and the thing he loved to do on October 1, 2012 in this location. God alone understands.

The Lord said, "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."--KJV John 15:13

Dear Rowe and other families,
I am sorry for your loss. God bless him and his family.

Lillian Lasher

October 5, 2012

We are all so sorry for your loss. We all carry your family in our hearts.

-the Martin/Palmatier/Lasher family

October 5, 2012

Jennifer - our prayers are with you and your family. I cannot fathom your loss ..... please know you are in our hearts and that we love you. Debbie and Mallory

Former pre-school teacher

October 4, 2012

I am greatly sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you all. <3

Joni Messineo

October 4, 2012

Jennifer,With my deepest sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you....

one mother to another

October 4, 2012

I can't even say how sorry I am for your loss. I know this sweet little boy is in heaven. I pray for his family and friends to get through this difficult time.God Bless you, and may you see Lane's wonderful spirit in the beautiful things God gives us.

BHBL Mom

October 4, 2012

From my family to yours our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I hope you all find peace and comfort in each other.

Beverly Gross

October 4, 2012

To the Rowe and Abraham Family,

I don't know your family, but I wanted to send my condolences to your family at this most difficult time and tell you my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Lane was a true hero and what he did for his siblings makes him a mature, young man. So sorry that it had to turn into a tragedy, but know that he is looking down at you and watching over you for he is your guardian angel. May he rest in peace for he is with God and his angels. I have a 12 year old son and nothing is more worse than losing a child. My brother passed away at 15 years old to liver cancer and that was the worst day of my family's life. His 31st anniversary was September 17. They say the pain goes away, but it doesn't. It seems like yesterday. You have family and friends who are there for you at this this most difficult time. May God give you strength and love to help you heal. God Bless You!

A Mom
Scotia, NY

Karen Paul

October 4, 2012

Sincere condolences to Lane's entire family and all his friends. Such a tragic loss for the entire community. Sending lots of hugs and prayers for you all.

October 4, 2012

Jenn and Bob, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mark Nunziato

A BHBL mom

October 4, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Rowe family. Lane showed what a caring boy he was by trying to do the right thing. May happy memories of Lane's full life comfort you today.

A Mom

October 4, 2012

My condolences to you and your family during this time of lost. May it be a time of remembrance of this young mans heroic actions for his Family. May God bless your Family.

Linda Grimaldi

October 3, 2012

Lane, you sweet boy. I'm so glad that our paths crossed in life. I'm not surprised that you tried so hard to protect your siblings. Our Stevens superstar is now an Angel in heaven. May you Rest in Peace sweet boy. My prayers for you and your family always.

A Mom

October 3, 2012

Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of your Son. My deepest sympathy
and prayers.

Michael Springer

October 3, 2012

When I read Lane's Obituary, the tears just started flowing and could not stop, I am crying as I type this. I cannot find the words to say how deeply sorry I am for your loss. No bond is as special as a parent/child one. May God bring you comfort and support.

BHBL Mom

October 3, 2012

I had the honor of knowing Lane and working with him when I helped out at Stevens, him and my dght are in the same grade. Lane had a big heart and it showed in the heroic act he did by saving his siblings. He will never be forgotten in the BH community. Prayers to the family.

October 3, 2012

Your son's spirit and love for his family will be his everlasting legacy, what an amazing little boy.

Much love and wishes for comfort,
A Mom of an 11 year old boy

October 3, 2012

he was a hero. god bless lane rowe

October 3, 2012

Jen: I cannot imagine what you're going through. Please take comfort in realizing, what a wonderful soul you delivered to this world, even though his stay was a short one. As he rests comfortably in God's arms, know that he will always be with you. God Bless you and your family. My prayers are with you. Charlene Furiani

October 3, 2012

RIP brave one.

BHBL Mom

October 3, 2012

I have been so very saddend by this. My heart goes out to the family especially Reid who was there to express your feelings in the last moments. I'm so very, very sorry for your loss.

Caitlin Sherwood (Monast)

October 3, 2012

In the short weeks that I had Lane as my student, he was truly a joy from the moment he entered my classroom. My heart goes out to Luca (my former student from last year) and the rest of Lane's family. I will always remember his smile and his kind demeanor. He will be greatly missed.

The Grock Family

October 3, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Rowe family. May friends and family help you through this difficult time.

Faith Battaglia

October 3, 2012

It's with such a sorrowful heart to extend my deepest sympathy to Lane's family.
As a mother of 3, I can't fathom losing a child. To me, that is the ultimate sadness in life. God Bless you and your family @ this very difficult time. I hope that the light of his soul will eternally shine on all of you.

A Mom

October 3, 2012

My heart goes out to all of you. Sending lots of prayers for strength for your family to get through this most difficult time. Words cannot express how we all share in your grief.

October 3, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire ROWE family. Please know how very special Lane was. He tried to save his siblings from harms way. What a true hero he is. May the wonderful memories you have of your son and brother stay in your hearts forever. I do pray for the entire ROWE family.

A Mom, Latham, NY

a mom

October 3, 2012

sorry for your loss.may friends and family help you get through this difficult time.

A Mom, Nanny and Dad n Poppy

October 3, 2012

Our sincere sympathy to the entire Rowe Family. As parents of 4 and Grandparents of 13 please know we are all praying for all of you and know God has given Lane Angel Wings for saving his siblings. God Bless and Keep you all.

Carol Samson

October 3, 2012

May the Lord lift you on his shoulders to carry you through this tragic time. My condolences to your family. I did not know Lane, but through these entries, I know he was an amazing young man!

Jeanne Foote

October 3, 2012

I imagine there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My thoughts and prayes go out to the Rowe family at this most difficult time. I did not have the honor of knowing your son, brother, grandson. He was in school with my son and he said he was a funny, thoughtful child. From what I have seen and heard about him, he is a hero and inspiration.

October 3, 2012

I know there are no words that could ease your pain, but know that an entire community is grieving with you, and hoping the coming days bring you strength, comfort and peace.

~ JH

Janice Dempster

October 3, 2012

Lane was a sweet boy. I have happy memories of knowing him during his time at Stevens. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I'm so sorry for your loss.

a Mom

October 3, 2012

Your very courageous son and your family are in my thoughts, my heart breaks for all of you. Please know your son did not pass in vain, he may save a life or two. Through tears, I shared this awful tragedy with my children and they learned what they would do if in the same situation. Lane is truly a hero, I wish you peace in your hearts.

Maria Rao

October 3, 2012

I am praying for all the family at this terribly difficult time. May God's comfort surround you all.

October 3, 2012

We do not always understand the ways of Almighty God. May He comfort you during this time of great sorrow. Your son showed great bravery and tremendous love for his family. God bless you all.

Lisa & Tony Malizia, Tommy and Haley Jansen

October 3, 2012

Jen and Family,
I can not express our deepest sorrow for you all. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Wish we could do something to help you through this most awful of times. Please know you are not alone, so many are thinking and praying for all of you. God bless you and your children.

October 3, 2012

So sorry for your loss, GOD please Bless this family during this difficult time.

October 3, 2012

I don't know your family but this is heartbreaking to any parent. What a brave child and a true hero.

October 3, 2012

I did not know Lane personally but my son was in his science class this year. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time. I'm so very, very sorry.

Evelyn Salas

October 3, 2012

My heart is broken for you. I know what you are going through because I lost a child in an accident too. I will keep you and your family in prayers and hope you are able to find some comfort.

a mom

October 3, 2012

God bless your family. Cherish your wonderful memories you have - ALWAYS remember that special smile. What a hero - he put his siblings safety before his own - shows the love of your family. Stay close to God.

Rita Pelton

October 3, 2012

I met Lane this year at O'Rourke Middle School. He was so very sweet and I will miss his positive spirit. I pray for all of you during this time.

a mom

October 3, 2012

Always cherish the time you had with Lane. His smile will ALWAYS be there for your family. What a hero to sacrifice his safety/life for his siblings - shows what kind of a young man you were bringing up. God Bless you.

anthony ciarfello

October 3, 2012

We don,t know your family but we are very heartbroken over it, we lost our 16 yr. old son 19yrs. ago and we know what your going through.
parents in colonie n.y.

October 3, 2012

Lane was a very sweet boy and will be very missed by the Hubbell family, expecially Kevin. Sending our love to the family.

Pat

October 3, 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss and touched by your son's sense of responsibility for his siblings. What an amazing child. I pray that your daughter knows that what her brother did for her was out of pure unselfish love. She was only trying to help him get into the van. So very sad. I don't know any of you but as a parent, I commiserate with your loss. So sad, but what an honorable way to go. Lane Robert Rowe is and will always be a hero.

October 3, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Rowe family.

Barb Iwan

October 3, 2012

Jen, Bob, Reid and Family, We are so very sorry for your loss. I only met Lane one time, but he seemed like a very funny, polite and helpful boy. He was also very brave to try to keep his Brothers and Sister out of danger. He will always be watching over you. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you all. He has his wings and can have peace with the Angels. Barb & Chrissy.

The Marro family

October 3, 2012

Words can not express the sorrow and pain we feel for the loss of your son, Lane. You have our prayers and deepest sympathy.

Mary Blessing

October 3, 2012

Bob & Carol:
No parent should ever endure the loss of a child. I am so very sorry you had to. We are thinking of you & love you.
Mary & Cate

Cathe & Mark Flood

October 3, 2012

Bob and Carol,
There are no words that can express how sorry we are to hear of Lane's passing. Losing a child is the worse thing that can ever happen to you in this world. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Lorrie

October 3, 2012

To the Rowe Family
May the peace that passes all understanding be with the entire family. May Jesus comfort your hearts.

October 3, 2012

Thoughts and prayers are with your family .

Dad of a 9yr old boy.

Nick Cioffi

October 3, 2012

Bob, Aunt Louise and Family: My Heart aches for your loss. Lane will be in my thoughts and prayers.

A mom

October 3, 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss. Your Lane is a true hero here on earth and I believe will continue to be your champion in heaven. I understand the pain of loosing a child and I pray for Lane and for all of you as you mourn his death. May God bless and comfort you and may your friends always be there for you.

Brenda Warner

October 3, 2012

I don't know Lane of his family but I want you to know how all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you all at this very stressful and difficult time. God Bless you Lane and family. You are with God now and thats the best place to be and he is watching down and protecting all of you and keeping you safe. Brenda

Wendy and John Vienneau

October 3, 2012

Our hearts go out to your entire family during this tragic time. Please know Lane has many angels with him.

A Mom

October 3, 2012

My heartfelt sympathies to your family.

October 3, 2012

Your in my thoughts and prayers-- God Bless,

The Whitmans

October 3, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers go to the family. Lane's smile will be missed.

BHBL mom

October 3, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for the entire Rowe family. Lane was a true hero, and his love for his family is just truly amazing. My prayers are with you all.

Donna Thomas

October 3, 2012

May the love & support of family, friends and the community give your family strength during this time. I have no doubt Lane was a wonderful young man.

A G

October 3, 2012

So sorry to hear about your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.

Jim Dalpe

October 3, 2012

This is one of the saddest stoires I have heard in my lifetime. I never met this wonderful, brave little boy yet I have wept for days. I look forward to meeting Lane when it is my time.

Kimberly S

October 3, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. He sounds like an amazing young man and certainly showed how much he valued his family. It is a testament to your family that his only thought was of his siblings - I pray you will be able to use that love for each other to help you through this terrible time. I too have a birthday on September 12 and from now on I will take time on that day to do something to honor your son/brother/friend on the anniversary of his birth. Peace be with you.

Debra Currier

October 3, 2012

To the Rowe Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you in this time of tragedy. Lane sounds like he was a wonderful young man and everyone was Blessed to have known him. I did not have the pleasure to know him or your family, but I am a mom and a grandmother. May God's love and peace comfort you now and always.

P Sabb

October 3, 2012

I pray for your strength during this difficult time and days ahead. What a beautiful angel watching over you all!

Jeanne Sawyer

October 3, 2012

Lane was a sweet boy who brought a smile to everyone's face. He will be missed here at the Middle School

Cindy

October 3, 2012

I did not know this brave young man but the news of this tragedy has struck my heart deep as a mother of three. My thoughts are with the family and friends of this little Angel. My deepest sympathy to all.

October 3, 2012

do not know you but my heart hurt right
along with yours no one can understand
the pain that you have right now but i
can loss a daughter two years ago it will
get easier each day but you will never
forget my prayers are with you and your
family.a mother.

October 3, 2012

Our prayers and thoughts are with you Liz and your family. Sending all our love and lots of strength. Christen and Jeff

A Dad

October 3, 2012

As a father of three, this absolutely breaks my heart. May your memories of Lane bring you comfort during this horrible time. God Bless you all...

Peter North

October 3, 2012

Lane was a valuable member of the O'Rourke Middle School community and will be greatly missed. Our homeroom would like to express our sincere condolences to the Rowe family.

Bob

October 3, 2012

"Little Man" I never had the pleasure of meeting you, but there will be a time when we shall all get together again. For now, I pray for those Loved Ones that you left behind, knowing that you are now"A Flower in The Master's Boquet". Rest in Peace.

A Mom

October 3, 2012

My heart breaks for your family and for your beautiful son. Rest in Peace Lane!

A Mom

October 3, 2012

My deepest, heartfelt sympathy goes out to your family.

Linda Sheldon

October 3, 2012

keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers ...The Sheldon Family

A Parent

October 3, 2012

To the Rowe Family,

I cannot say I know what you are going through. I do know that if you LIFT UP YOUR EYES FROM WHICH COMETH YOUR HEALTH, you will see Lane looking down with his beautiful smile. He is now you GUARDIAN ANGEL...May God's strenght keep your family during this most difficult time.

Scott

October 3, 2012

I've never met you or your family, but it sounds like Lane was well on his way to becoming a fine example of a man, even at just 11-years-old. May his family be comforted by the knowledge that he really is a hero. Rest in peace.

clare

October 3, 2012

I don't know your family but I am deeply grieving the loss of such a wonderful boy. I found great comfort in the loving spirit in which this tribute was written and only hope that each one of us does the living Lane did not get to do and with the joy in which he lived his life. Let us all go forth and do random acts of kindness in celebration of Lane.

Caitlin Sherwood (Monast)

October 3, 2012

Lane was a wonderful student. He always came in with a smile on his face. He will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to his friends and family.

Laura Siracuse

October 3, 2012

To the Rowe and Abraham Families,

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Lane was such a wonderful boy. We will always remember his huge smile and this sense of humor. Our community is here for you!

October 3, 2012

TO BOB AND FAMILY WE SEBD IUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. GOD BLESS. JEAN AND WALT BORISENOK DAYTONA BEACH FL

Barb Iwan

October 3, 2012

I only met Lane once but he seemed very friendly, polite and a sweet boy. Our thoughts and Prayers are with Jen, Reid and their whole family. Lane will be sorely missed and he was being such a Brave Boy. He surely has his Angel Wings now.

Kim Johnson

October 3, 2012

My deepest condolences to Lane's family. May his love and light keep all of you strong and hopeful for better tomorrows. Treasure the memories and treasure each other. I'm thinking of you all.

Patti Langan

October 3, 2012

So sorry for the loss of your beloved son. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. The Langan Family

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