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Lonny Poe
March 10, 2020
Dr. Frank Tupper
A friend sent a news clipping last week that brought news of the passing of a mentor. Dr. E. Frank Tupper was one of my professors while I was a student at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, KY. Dr. Tupper's wife died in 1983. I enrolled at Southern in the fall of 1988. Our lives crossed paths at a time when his life was challenged by his personal loss and during a time when the seminary we both loved was living in the soup of the SBC turmoil. Dr. Tupper was raising two children as a widower. I think his nature and his life experience made him candid, kind, and filled him with questions. Yet, he remained deeply committed to the task of preparing others for ministry. I had the privilege of sitting under his leadership. He made me think deeply and he attached those deep thoughts to the real fabric of life/ministry. Dr. Tupper went on to serve students at The Wake Forest University School of Divinity. Our paths did not cross again.
I was saddened to read of the additional challenges he faced in the later years of his life, a fall that left him confined to a wheelchair. His impact in the classroom and in his writing is substantial. His impact is also personal. I had a paper due in his class and it was not complete. My wife and I were new parents to our first child, Salim, a baby girl that had been labeled, Failure to Thrive at every one of her monthly checkups. She was content and pleasant but not growing at the rate the growth charts deemed as Normal. The medical team started tracking a heart murmur. My wife and I were both working full time jobs, I was enrolled as a full-time student, and we had our newborn. Worried and overtaxed, pretty much the standard issue life of most seminary students, I decided to skip Dr. Tupper's class and go to the library on campus to try to finish the paper. Dr. Tupper caught me in the parking lot later in the day and told me he missed me in class. He listened as I narrated my reason and the challenges of our lives, particularly our fears related to our daughter. When I finished my narrative, he placed his hands on my shoulders and prayed over me and for our baby girl. Then he told me to finish my paper and get it to him ASAP.
In the midst of his own chaotic life filled with deadlines and heartache, he extended grace and ministry. That was his nature. It was also indicative of the nature of the seminary itself in that era. My real life experience with him and the many other wonderful servants of God at Southern prepared me for a life of ministry as much as the reading, writing and lectures. I look forward to a reunion with him on the other shore.
Tim Lovett
March 4, 2020
It was my privilege and honor to have Frank Tupper, Jr. as my theology professor at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary during the time of his wife's illness and death. His teaching was not of a man who taught from a "throne of pious indifference" but from a husband and father who was who was experiencing life with the assurance that..."God always does the most God can do." As the providence of God would have it, I had the opportunity to share life with his daughter, Michelle, at a summer camp the summer before her mother died. His teachings, his life situation and his ability to live life and teach young women and men "in spite of" his wife's impending death powerfully impacted my perspective of "a self-giving God of love." Future generations will miss, but I have not missed, his deep love of family, his compassion for the misunderstood, his penchant for the scandal of Jesus, and his random (to us) rants of brilliance! I look forward to sitting around the King's table to discuss this matter further...Tim Lovett, Class of 1985.
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