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Carolyn.Maxwell
July 19, 2024
I miss conversations with this phenomenal man. Dr. Jay was a great conversationalist and listener. He shared the most inspirational stories about his upbringing. Jay is deeply missed.
CAROLYN MAXWELL
November 17, 2020
I was blessed to meet Dr. James Jay 14 to 16 years ago. He was such a phenomenal man who impacted by life so prolifically with his passion for living a purpose driven life, his innate thirst for knowledge, and stories about his childhood. I was so inspired by Dr. Jay's childhood experiences that I had begun to pen on paper a biography of his life that I was weaving into a biographical children's tale or front porch story that I hoped he would help me complete. He was a man who loved his wife with the kind of love that transcends times immemorial and even the parameters/perimeters of death. I always hoped that I would still have just one more chat with this magnificent man because he fueled within me that insatiable desire to live, listen, and learn from a man who was A Master Teacher. Comments made by Carolyn Maxwell, Naples, Florida 11/17/2020.
Ayele Solomon
August 20, 2020
I was part of Dr. Jay's annual trip to Southern Africa at MSU in 1998. In recent years we would speak by phone, not often, once or twice a year. As I was looking forward to our usual lively discussion today, I learned of his passing. I miss him, he was a great man, visionary, teacher and inspiration to me.
Melvin L Johnson (Pookie)
August 13, 2020
Rip Mr Jay. Jonathan and I use to play together as kids when you and the family lived in Sandersville Ga. I will always remember the beautiful spirit of you and your wife.
Eunice Foster
August 13, 2020
Dr. James E. Jay was a friend and colleague. He assisted all students during his tenure as the first Black assistant dean of the College of Agriculture and Natural Resources (CANR) at Michigan State University (MSU). He was a visionary who conceived of and created the Office of Diversity and Pluralism in CANR. He served as the first and only Assistant Vice Provost for Diversity and Pluralism, having responsibility for diversity efforts in CANR, the MSU Agricultural Experiment Station (now AgBioResearch), and the MSU Cooperative Extension Service (now MSU-Extension). At various times during his career at MSU, he played a role in diversity efforts involving pre-college, undergraduate, and graduate students and in faculty and staff hiring. He positively affected many lives. He will be missed greatly.
Edith J BradfordWaller
August 3, 2020
Condolences to the Jay Family. I met Dr. James Jay while teaching at Everett High School in Lansing, Mi. I worked with his beautiful and wise wife Joyce Jay. I was honored to meet him and work with Joyce. May the Lord Bless their children, Jonathan and Joye.
Jeffrey Counseller
July 30, 2020
Jonathan and Joye,
I was so sorry to hear of you father’s passing. Your Dad was the perfect neighbor to my parents. There are not enough thank-yous for his acts of kindness to them over the years. Personally, no visit to Michigan was complete without being able to spend 30 minutes talking with Dr. Jay. Even after my Mom moved, I would drive by Rice Court hoping to catch him out for a chance conversation. His perspective and approach to life was always revealing, raw and straightforward, everything I appreciate. I am sorry that a man like your father is no longer able to share his wisdom and experiences. I know that you will miss him every day. Rest assured that he is healed and with your Mom watching over all of you.
Nicole Webster
July 30, 2020
Dr. Jay you were a source of strength and support during my time at Michigan State. Your words of encouragement, acts of kindness, and pebbles of wisdom were always appreciated and valued. Your vision for inclusion was far ahead of your time and the many graduate students' lives you touched were due to your persistence, understanding and patience. Thank you. You will be missed but never forgotten.
Carmen (Price) Redwine
July 29, 2020
Jonathan and family,
Sending my condolences and deepest sympathy for the loss of your father. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bettye Thomas-Gilkey
July 28, 2020
Dr Jay you were a phenomenal individual who was exceptionally proud of your lovely bride Dr Joyce Jay whom you revered highly without reservation. I don’t believe you ever got over her loss and now you are reunited once again! Rest peacefully dear friend. The MSU COMMUNITY AND THE WORLD IN GENERAL IS A BETTER PLACE BECAUSE YOU TOUCHED SO MANY LIVES in grand fashion❣
Clinton Scott
July 28, 2020
Dr. Jay was a good caring man. He would make time for me, even when he being rushed to a meeting. He was a serious advocate for completing your education. I really appreciated his encouragement, and patience that he displayed. I will say he was the best dean in the world. He will be missed greatly. Thanks from all of us you've helped, and what you have accomplished. RIP sir.
Stephanie Whiteside
July 28, 2020
Dr. Jay was there for me during my time at MSU. He advised so many African American students that were bounced from the College of Business and steered to the College of Agriculture under the Public Affairs Management Program. He was our advisor and kept many of us from being bounced from MSU altogether. Years after I graduated from MSU we would see each other in Lansing and we would talk the days in Ag. He was a definite role model and highly respected. My prayers to his children and those left to cherish his memories.
Marcus Jones
July 28, 2020
My prayers and deepest condolences to the family of Dr. James E Jay. He was truly a man of great respect and knowledge. Disciplined in action and thought and expected nothing less from those within his circle of influence.
May he rest in eternal peace
Marcus Jones & Family
Tama D Carter
July 28, 2020
I met Dr. Jay in 1995 and I thank God I was allowed to meet such a gentle giant, with a heart of gold. Dr. Jay allowed me to participate in a trip to South Africa through the MSU overseas study program which was life changing. What a wonderful guy. WELL DONE!!!!!
Deborah Sudduth
July 27, 2020
Dear Jay Family,
Sending my condolences and prayers for you. Dr. Jay was someone I enjoyed discussing what was happening at MSU after he retired. He was a gentle giant and cared deeply for minorities at MSU.
May you rest well sir and your family cherish all the memories you have of him.
Mark Bitman
July 26, 2020
Dear Family:
I had the opportunity to meet with Dr. Jay while I worked at Michigan State University. I really appreciated his commitment to the College of Agriculture and will remember him always!
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