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Kevin Richardson
April 9, 2022
I had the honor of being an honorary member of the Thoennes family in the late 70s and remember the loving, kind, fun person Neil was. With belated blessings, and peace - Kevin
December 25, 2012
I worked with Neil in the OR at MGH. He was always smiling and made my day easier. He was so very special. He had a way with the mentally challanged patients that really showed how truly sweet and caring Neil was. He never not helped when asked. I will miss his smile and his love for people. When he would catch me swearing I had to do push-ups and he never let me slide :-)
love Alison Lee
Barbara (Herbert) Burrowes
December 21, 2012
So sorry to hear of Neil's passing. He was such a nice person, such a warm smile. I know he will be missed by so many people- sorry for your loss.
Pamela Painter
December 15, 2012
My sincere condolences to all of Neil's family and friends. He has touched many of us, a very special man! RIP my friend.
Vincent Boyle
December 13, 2012
To your whole family my condolences. Such a fine person and the spirit of the whole family resonated from him as it does from all of you. Had hoped I could be there tomorrow but unfortunately I can't. My prayers are with all of you in this hard time. God Bless
December 13, 2012
Neil was blessed with the wonderful gift of kindness. I remember him when I was working at the desk at MGH, he would always have this beautiful smile and he would always make you feel good. Neil was someone you wanted to be around. A gentle soul. My twin sister and I will remember him and you his family in our prayers. May the Good Lord help all of you at this time and always. Sincerely
Viviane and Betty ( The twins)
Dolores
December 13, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear about Neil's passing. I will always remember him from Marin General Hospital as I worked with him and always loved seeing his beautiful smile and sweet nature. I wish your family peace and love during this difficult time. Know that he will never be forgotten.
Conrad Koller
December 13, 2012
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Emily Smith
December 13, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear about Neil's passing. I did not know him as well as I knew his older brothers and sisters, but I remember that as a child, he had such a sweet, friendly smile, and it sounds like he was just as friendly when he was an adult. My condolences to the entire family.
George Robertson
December 13, 2012
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. Neil was a all around great guy, he will truely be missed. May God continue to comfort and keep thru your time of sorrow.
Dee Thompson-Marling
December 12, 2012
Neil - you will always have a place in my heart and mind. Lots of wonderful memories...I will always remember that contagious smile and laugh, your kind spirit, nurturing soul, and warm heart. There is a place for you in Heaven. You will be missed by all.
Mimi Cork(Smith)
December 12, 2012
I,m so sorry to hear about Neil. I know it's been many years since I've seen any of you, but I still remember all the good times we had. The camping, family dinners and so much more and all the joy that Neil brought to these times and so many more. He will be greatly missed. Neil's jouney on earth has ended, but God is taking him by the hand and leading him onto his next journey. RIP Neil.....You will be greatly missed here on earth ,but the memories will last forever.
Mimi Cork(Smith)
December 12, 2012
I'm so soory to hear about your loss of Neil. It's been many years since I've seen any of you, but I will always remember all the good times we had, the camping trips the family dinners and the joy that Neil brought to those occasions and many more. He will be deeply missed. He is now in good place with God taking his hand and leading him through his next journey. Thank you Neil for all the love and laughter you brought us while you were here on earth with us. You will truly be missed.
December 12, 2012
To the entire Thoennes family: Neil seemed to touch everyone he met. I worked at MGH with Neil and he always brightened a room with his pleasant smile and warm personality! I was so saddened to hear of his passing. Wendy Westcott
Greg McCabe
December 12, 2012
I am deeply saddened by your loss. Please accept my condolences. Neil was such a wonderful person and friend and will be greatly missed.
Julie Meholick
December 11, 2012
I am still in shock to learn of Neil's passing. I met him on my first day at MGH in 1999. Every time I saw him he brightened my day. And not just mine... everyone's day! It was as if he was the hallway ambassador. His voice, eyes and smile...so warm! I didn't know him outside of work, and yet it was obvious how special he was. I can only imagine the loss felt by his family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss. Neil was the perfect reflection of kindness and generosity in spirit. Memory Eternal!
December 11, 2012
Neil, you are (and always will be) deeply missed by all your nieces,nephews.
Mary Ann Montgomery
December 11, 2012
I'm very sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in God's grace now and the days ahead. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Be Peace.
Tamara Tennie
December 11, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Neil for years and he always new how to keep me laughing. He was such a wonderful person and will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Amy Taylor
December 11, 2012
I am praying for the whole family at this difficult time may Neill's memory get you through these days ahead..Rest in peace my friend
Dianne Lopez
December 11, 2012
Neil was an awesome young man who touched many people's life in many different ways. He left us too soon but Goad has a wonderful helper now
Stacy McCamish
December 11, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear of Neil's passing! He was a beautiful person with an amazing smile! He will be greatly missed by many! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
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