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John Michael Wandzilak John Michael Wandzilak passed away September 5, 2011 in his home in Mill Valley at the age of 39. In 1971 John was born in Connecticut and that same year the family moved to Novato. Growing up, John loved playing baseball and football in the Novato Youth Leagues. After the family moved to Southern California, he graduated from Westlake High School and earned himself a football scholarship to UCLA. After his college experience, John moved back to Marin where he met his wife of 11 years, Kristina Truitt. They met at the tender age of 22, and went on to marry and have two delightful children, Sebastian and Savannah. In this time, John also spent 5 years serving our country in the US Coast Guard, and most recently fulfilling his dreams of becoming a history teacher, studying at Dominican University. John will be remembered as an extraordinary and dedicated father with a huge heart, who always showed up for every sporting event. John woke up early each morning to cook a much loved breakfast of pancakes and bacon for his children. John was an inspired and enthusiastic coach for Sebastian's little league team, and ignited Savannah's passion for the water when he taught her how to surf. He is survived by his loving wife Kristina, his beloved children Sebastian and Savannah, his father James, brother Jim, sister Jill, their loving spouses and children, and all of the Truitt family. A rosary will be held on Thursday, September 8th at 7:30 PM as well as a Celebration of Life Memorial Mass at 10:00 AM on Friday the 9th. Both services are to be held at St. Anselm Church, 97 Shady Lane, San Anselmo. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wandzilak Education Fund at any Wells Fargo branch.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from Sep. 8 to Sep. 9, 2011.

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Roy Hilliard

September 2, 2023

Thank you for being a part of the SQ Honor Guard Team. Rest in peace my friend!

savannah wandzilak

September 3, 2022

i love you. i miss you dad.

Thad Kawalek

January 20, 2022

requiem aeternam dona eis, domine et lux perpetua luceat eis R.I.P

KEVIN PLATT

December 11, 2012

Kristina and kids, I has been well over a year and I cannot believe it. God grant you some serenity as you trudge the road ahead. I will always be thankful to know that we are not alone. I thank God the wisdom to know peace ... today we can do our best and that is good enough. Thanks for being YOU, Kristina //// I AM GRATEFUL

Courtney Lockhart

December 3, 2012

May you Rest in peace. Prayers to your family and friends....

Molly Sullivan

November 28, 2012

Love and Peace

Heather Gosney

November 25, 2012

God Bless

Debra Baird

November 12, 2012

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Karren Hoover

September 28, 2012

May the Lord keep you close to His heart as you go thru this difficult journey. I am so sorry for your terrible loss. A faithful viewer.

Amanda Gilbert (Agee)

March 2, 2012

John, I only learned of your passing last night. I will always remember you as my big brother's friend who took us 4X'ing and scared the bejeezus out of me as a teenager in that giant blue 4 wheeler. Then of course you had to sell it to him so HE could scare the bejeezus out of me. Always thought of you as 'the big guy' with the great big smile. All fond memories. My family's condolences and heartfelt prayers to you and yours. You will be missed.

cole agee

March 1, 2012

John, we had some fun times in high school buddy I am sorry that we never reconnected. You will be missed love ya man.

chris joy

December 19, 2011

john, i can't believe i just found out now of your passing. i always thought we would get to meet again and im greatly saddened to know that isnt going to happen in this life. you were someone whom i looked up to for direction at a very tough time in my life and it always meant alot to me. i hope wherever you are that you r okay and maybe we'll meet again in another life. my heart and prayers goes out to you and your family. r.i.p. my old friend..

susie raye

December 4, 2011

john, i never had that pleasure of meeting you but knew of your wisdom through literature. i know you were huge baseball fan and maybe we can have an honorary first pitch in your honor. RIP-

Brian St. Peter

October 9, 2011

John-John,
I have great memories of playing basketball with you at the park and talking about life's ups and downs. We would go home and have a hot cup of tea and exchange Sienfeld trivia questions...you always won, of course! You were the little brother I never had and will forever remember your smile and the way you lit up a room when you walked in. Soar with the angels, my friend, until we meet again and share a cup of tea.

Doug Lyons

October 4, 2011

Kristina-

I recently learned about John's death-

My prayers go out to you and your children.

Peace be with you-

Doug Lyons

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

John, you taught me how to Mountain Bike on Mt.Tamalpais during the early 1990's. I still have the scars to prove it buddy! Your zest for life was inspiring to me. The bike trips to Yosemite & Lake Tahoe were legendary; mountain bikes & dogs thrown in the back of your white pickup truck, while Pearl Jam & Nirvanna tunes were blasting away. You loved life, & life loved you back.

My Favorite John Wandzilak sayings:

"Don't be afraid to buy the best, you will never be disappointed."

On fashion from Marshall's:
"Dress for Less, and look like a mess."

John, you were a bright blazing comet, streaking across my universe for a brief moment. Rest In Peace Brother.

John & Jim Wandzilak - Santa Monica, CA 1997

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

John & Jurgen - Hiking in Fairfax CA 1995

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

John @ Yosemite National Park 1995

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

John & Jurgen - Fairfield CA Zig Zag Office

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

John @ Lake Tahoe CA - Cross Country Skiing

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

John @ Fairfax Falls

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

John @ Marin Headlands 1994

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

John & Jurgen UCB

Glen Claypool

September 24, 2011

David Rosenker

September 20, 2011

Kristina
I am so sorry for your loss. You are loved by many. Prayers to you and your family.

Matt Kristofferson

September 19, 2011

John worked for me in in the Coast Guard after he graduated from YN "A" school. John was such a blessing in the office with his wonderful view on life. I was also fortunate enough to have also grown up in Thousand Oaks, so we always had plenty of memories to share with each other. My prayers go out to John's family, he was a good shipmate, friend, husband and father.

Kristine Stachowski

September 19, 2011

John, Although we had not seen each other in many years your family is always in my thoughts. I have such fond memories of the time we spent together with our families. It was great to finally meet my cousins. My heart is truly saddened by your passing. May you rest in peace.

Laurie Brown McManus

September 16, 2011

I grew up living the down the street from "JonJon" and babysitting him. I can still see him on his big wheel. He was one of my son's baseball coaches at San Marin and my son was saddened to hear he passed away. May you have strength to get through this tough time. Saying a prayer for the family.

Roy Hilliard

September 15, 2011

To the family of John Wandzilak, My name is Roy Hilliard I worked with John at San Quentin, we were members on the Honor Guard Team. He was a true professional and good hearted man.
John you were missed when you left San Quentin, but my friend you were never forgotten. Rest in peace my friend, "SQ Honor Guard Forever."

Jeanne & Annie

September 13, 2011

Kristina, You have been more than generous with your strength and support for our family during difficult times. Please feel all of the strength, prayers and love we are returning to you and your children with our gratitude and profound sympathy.

September 12, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Debra Igou

September 11, 2011

May you find comfort in knowing you are surrounded by love in this difficult time of loss. My prayers will be with you Kristina...and the rest of the family as you find your way through this.

Shelley Brown - Serrano

September 11, 2011

My heart goes out to JonJons Family and Friends. I have many happy memories racing with John on our big wheels to catch that ice cream truck. May you rest in peace my friend.

Nuri Sutter

September 10, 2011

My condolences to the Wandzilak and Truitt families. I will always remember John as a good person with a big heart and a beautiful smile. Rest in Peace.

Nuri Sutter

September 10, 2011

My condolences to the Wandzilak and Truitt families on Johnny's passing. He was a good man with a big heart. May he rest in peace.
Nuri Sutter

Bill and Vicki Mc Dill

September 10, 2011

Please accept our deepest sympathies. I remember John John as Jim's cute little brother.

james burge

September 10, 2011

Kristina, our prayers are with you and your family. And John may he Rest in peace

Janet & Shawn St.Peter

September 10, 2011

I think in this time of our deepest sorrow for John, and his children and Wife. Reflect on all his positive influences he had on so many for the time he spent with us. Deepest sympathy to the Wandzilak, Truitti, and the St.Peter Families.

Christine Escamilla (Wallace)

September 9, 2011

I have so many memories of growing up with John John...in each of those memories, the first thing I see is his smile. My heart goes out to his entire family and friends. Rest in Peace John John.

Janie Lober

September 9, 2011

My deepest condolences to the entire family.

Heidi Wilson

September 9, 2011

May the light Kristina and the kids search for never grow dim.

Mark Whitburn

September 9, 2011

John's electric smile was only over matched by his big heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family.

Sandy Shepard

September 9, 2011

holy cow! John is my neighbor and I just read this. I'm just sick about this! He's a wonderful wonderful guy. I can't believe it! Wow.

Teddy Ryan

September 9, 2011

I will always remember what a good hearted guy John was, you will be missed by all, condolences to your family and the ones that were close to you.

September 9, 2011

We remember John, a friend of our son (John) as a happy, vibrant, optimistic, young man from trips to Yosemite--always with a baseball mitt and ball in hand. Our deepest sympathy to all of his family.
Sheila and John Ellington, Moorpark, CA.

Craig Stiveson

September 9, 2011

Many prayers to the entire family.

Karen Burgh

September 9, 2011

John I didn't know you at all. I just liked watching Kristina on Addicted and reading her blogs. I will continue to pray for Kristina and your children, that she would have wisdom and strangth to carry on. I lost my husband 6 months ago.

Bud and Flora Stiveson

September 9, 2011

We remember "little John,John" and his smiling face. Our thoughts, our prayers are with you all and we know he is home with his mother and at rest.

Dominican Student

September 8, 2011

R.I.P John

Kirsten Winkett

September 8, 2011

Words are empty at times like this, but know Our thoughts and prayers are with you Kristina, with the kids, and with your extended family and with Johns family.

Arlene Stanich-prince

September 8, 2011

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Heidi W.

September 8, 2011

John,
I will do my very to support Kristina,as she supports,and raises those beautiful children. I pray you have found peace.

Judy Wells

September 8, 2011

John,
I only know you as an amazing and sensitive young man who I met within the pages of a book. Without your knowledge, I adored and admired you from afar for recognizing the beauty and value of Kristina. For that reason, I feel a deep loss for all who knew you and loved you, especially Kristina, Sebastian and Savannah.

Thank you for the legacy of love and generosity you leave behind.

Irene and Peter Bristol

September 8, 2011

Our loving memories of John in his High School years will live in our hearts forever.

Steve St. Peter

September 8, 2011

Briefly I knew John; but I will always remember him as a person with a big heart and a genuine honest personality. He will be greatly missed as much as he was loved. My deepest condolences go out to Brian, Jill, Mckenzie, Mark, Jim, and Jim.

Iva St Peter

September 8, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to sll of John's family this evening while you remember the wonderful times of his life. I will always remember Red and John getting up in the middle of the night and eating crab. They both had so much fun!

Tanya Bristol Arnett

September 8, 2011

Thinking of your family and remembering John. I will have fond High School memories of John and his warm and wonderful family. Love, Tanya Bristol Arnett

Kelli Watkins

September 8, 2011

Kristi & Family
May peace which comes from the memories of love shared for John comfort you now and always. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Bryan LeFebure

September 8, 2011

Kristina,

Our thoughts are with you, Sebastian and Savanah.

The LeFebure's

September 8, 2011

Our thoughts are with the Wandzilake family.....
Pauli Goldstein & family.

Ellie Klebanoff (Parsons)

September 8, 2011

My most prominent memory of John John is standing on my front lawn with Blake on your first day of kindergarten at San Ramon School, posing to get your photos taken. You were both wearing your Snoopy name tags and a broad smile. I will remember you with your broad smiling face and warm heart.

September 8, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family, our family was very fond of John, we will miss him. Tom and Tina Bloss

Mike Boland

September 8, 2011

John was an enthusiastic and supportive coach and volunteer for Twin Cities Little League. We will miss him. The entire league sends our condolences to his family.

Tim Sweeney

September 8, 2011

John , you have a huge heart and will truely be missed. I will always remember our time coaching our son's together. Rest in Peace

Brian Andel

September 8, 2011

We miss you John-John.

Our sympathies to the family.

Brian, Stacie, Kerrigan and Regan

Alan Cox

September 8, 2011

Rest in Peace dear friend. You will be missed!!

Henry Hautau

September 8, 2011

I will remember John John as the little kid down the street who wasn't so little. I remember a great Wandzilak family, Jim, Jill, John John, and Mr. & Mrs. Wandzilak who had moved to Novato before us and lived three doors down on San Luis Way. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all and to John John's wife and children. Henry Hautau Jr.

John Ellington

September 8, 2011

I was blessed to have you as a childhood friend and glad we were able to reconnect after all these years. You will be dearly missed.

Renee Vasconcelos

September 8, 2011

John-John
your role as Jill's brother seemed to have little or no bearing on our friendship (mine and Jill's) over the years, yet the impact you made on my life is immeasurable. Thank you for sharing your family, your smiles, your laughter...Rest in peace my friend

Billy & Carol Farrer

September 8, 2011

Christina: You and the childrena are in our prayers. Be strong. John is in God's hands. Let us know if we can help out in any way during this difficult time.

Jim Wandzilak

September 8, 2011

Miss you more than I can say, brother. See you again one day.

Shannon Kim

September 8, 2011

Soar with the angels John-John. You will be missed. Rest in peace my dear friend.

Shannon Kim

September 8, 2011

Soar with the angels John-John. You will be missed. Rest in peace my dear friend.

Jill St. Peter

September 8, 2011

John-John,
You lit up the world with your beautiful smile. May you rest in peace..

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