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Melanie McQuarrie Obituary

Melanie Fay McQuarrie Beloved daughter of Judy and Terry McQuarrie, Melanie was born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania on July 17, 1981, and passed away on October 6, 2008 in San Jose, California. She graduated from Live Oak High School in Morgan Hill, California in 2000. Melanie loved animals as seen by all the numerous awards that she collected over the years at the Santa Clara County Fair as a member of the FAA. She also received a Medical Assistant Degree in 2003 from Bryman College and worked as a veterinarian assistant. She is survived by her parents, Judy and Terry, her brother, Devin and her long time boy friend Lon Calhoun.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Oct. 11, 2008.

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Caitlin Beasley

November 18, 2008

To the McQuarries,
I knew Melanie through the dance studio. She was truly an amazing person. I remember being a substitute for her Saturday morning Ballet class and the kids saying "Wheres Miss Melanie?", apparently upset that she was absent that day. Her students loved her! Her passion for dance was inspiring and I'll always strive to love dancing as much as she did.
May she rest in peace.

Stacey Ballow

October 16, 2008

Uncle Terry, Aunt Judy and Devin, It is so difficult to find the words to say to each of you. We all handle things in a different manner, especially lose. I am completely overwhelmed with sadness for you all. I would like to let each of you know that I do love and care for you, as I did Melanie. I will be keeping you in my heart each day and praying for you each night.
With all of my love, your niece
Stacey

LJ Beltran

October 16, 2008

Very saddened to hear the news about Melanie.
We had unfortunately lost touch after H.S graduation but my fond memories of her are still very alive and well.

My condolences to Judy, Tery, and Devin.

October 15, 2008

Dear McQuarrie Family,

I did not know Melanie but since my son found her I have had her in my prayers. My very deepest condolences for your great loss.
KC

Maria Peceli

October 13, 2008

My sister tutored Melanie at Bryman and mentioned to me how special she thought Melanie was.

Melanie and your family are in our prayers.

Sincerely,

Sue Quinn

October 13, 2008

To the McQuarrie Family,
I worked with Melanie at the dance studio, and it was obvious how much she loved dance. She shared her love of ballet with many young students. She will be missed.

Mrs. Bondi

October 13, 2008

Dear McQuarrie Family, I was deeply saddened to read of the loss of Melanie. She was a student of mine years ago. I recall her kind heart and great love for animals. My Condolences, Mrs. Bondi

October 11, 2008

Terry, Judy and family,

Sincere condolence. Please know we are thinking of you. May Melanie rest in peace.

George and Sheila, Florida

October 11, 2008

Christi Chidester

October 11, 2008

Terry, Judy, and Devin-
My deepest, most sincere condolences. If there is anything I can do for any of you, please, don't hesitate to ask.
With love,
Christi

Miss Quelddy

October 11, 2008

Melanie you were such a sweet caring girl and I will miss you. I know that the children loved being in your ballet class and you were so good to them! I hope that wherever you are, you are at peace. I will always remember you.

Lori Barnes

October 10, 2008

Devin and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I just don't even know what to say. When my mom told me about this I was so sad for your family. Just know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy & Samantha Wilson

October 10, 2008

Melanie was a special friend, neighbor and dance coach. With love and gratitude for our time with Melanie. Our sincerest condolences to Terry, Judy and Devin. We're putting up the ghosts for Halloween in Melanie's honor. Love from Nora too.

Leila Lopez

October 10, 2008

My thoughts and Prayers go out to the family. Melanie was a very kind warmed hearted person, she will be missed.

ANITA RIZO

October 10, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jennifer and Merritt Billington

October 10, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Melanie and her family.

Janet Nicholas

October 10, 2008

Dearest Terry, Judy and Devin,
I cannot begin to tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. Melanie was a remarkable person. I will never forget watching her dance. She was amazing. She seemed truly happy when she danced. I know she had a generous and caring heart. I wish life had been easier for her. I just want you all to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and if there is anything in the world we can do, please let us know. We love Devin with all our hearts and care deeply about all of you. Take care.
Rest in peace Melanie.

Deanna Marlitt

October 10, 2008

If one took the time to look beneath Melanie's rough exterior - a buffer crafted over time to protect her from her "demons", both real and imagined - one would find a loving, generous, vulnerable soul. My deepest condolences go out to those who loved and cared for Melanie. She is finally at peace - dancing away, surrounded by the animals she loved and who always loved her back!!! I'll miss you, Melanie.

Lisa D

October 10, 2008

Melanie, I worked with you a long time ago at one of the many vet hospitals you worked at. You were always such a hard worker and loved every animal. You were fearless and walked even the meanest of them all. You always wanted to sing and dance on one of those realty shows; I hope in heaven you have your chance.

Rest in Peace

Michelle Nicholas

October 10, 2008

Melanie, I will miss you SO much. You were a facinating, talented, interesting person and I am so happy to have known you. To the McQuarries, I am so very sorry for your loss. I will never ever forget her.

Andrea S.

October 10, 2008

Melanie~ I am very sad for you and your family. I hope your heart & soul finds peace.

James P FILICE

October 10, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

tim r

October 9, 2008

Rest In peace.

Richard N

October 9, 2008

Rest in peace.

Victor Kwong

October 9, 2008

May you have peace in your afterlife.

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