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Richard Toomey passed away on Sunday, October 30, 2016, in Yreka, CA while returning home to Santa Cruz after attending an Oregon Ducks football game, his favorite pastime.
The son of the late Joseph and Elizabeth Toomey, South Boston, MA, he was the 5th of 7 children. Richard is survived by his wife of 47 years Barbara (BJ), his three children Sean (Sarah), San Jose, Katie Hardy (Jeff), Austin, TX, and David (Sarah), San Francisco. Grandchildren: Kellen, Caeley Jane and Chloe Belle of Texas, and Lillian of San Francisco. He is survived by brothers Edmund, Robert and Kevin, and sister Sr. Marianne. Predeceased by his brother Joe and sister Rita.
Richard received his BA and MBA from St. Louis University and J.D. from Santa Clara University. He served in the US Army from 1968-1971.
Santa Clara University brought Richard and family to California in 1974. Beginning as the Director of Financial Aids in 1974, Richard spent 42 years at the University before retiring as Dean of University Financial Aid Services. Retirement brought him to Texas, and the heat in Texas brought him right back to Santa Cruz during the hot summer months! He enjoyed the time away from the office in retirement and spending time with his grandkids. He will truly be missed.
Viewing, Monday 11/7/16 (4-8pm) with a memorial at 6pm at Lima Family Santa Clara, 466 N Winchester Blvd. in Santa Clara.
Memorial Mass, Tuesday 11/8/16 at 2pm at Mission Santa Clara, 500 El Camino Real, Santa Clara. Reception to follow.
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January 1, 2018
Sincere condolences to the family and friends of Richard. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure in your heart and it lives forever. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace, May the God of comfort continue to be with the family during this difficult time. Hosea 13:14.
JM
Mike Kelly
February 23, 2017
I'm a little late with the condolences. I googled Rich's name out of idle curiosity this afternoon and was shocked to read his obituary. I haven't seen or talked to Rich in almost 50 years - we lived in the same dormitory on the same floor at St. Louis U. He is one of my favorite memories from that period of my life. We were very good friends, and he was a sort of proto-type for many of my subsequent friends - smart and funny. We had plenty of good times together and I think of him often. I hope his passing was not too difficult for him or those who loved him. He was a great guy and it sounds like he had a great family and a great life.
November 15, 2016
Katie and Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you had together.
The Duran Family
November 14, 2016
To BJ and Rich's family:
Although I couldn't attend the services in person, I was there in spirit. In my 11 years at SCU, Rich was my mentor and sounding board. He taught me so much about financial aid and how to act as an administrator in higher education. We didn't always agree but we respected each other. He often spoke of you and his kids. He was so proud of his children and he loved you so much.
In your time of sorrow and loss,
Rita (LeBarre) Grogan
Former Director of Financial Aid at SCU
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Michele Ardizzone
November 7, 2016
Sean & Family: From one Tamarack family to another, we are so very sorry to hear of this news. We know Richard was a great man, because he raised such great children. May the happy and fun memories get you through this difficult time, and always know the Ardizzone family is here for you.
November 7, 2016
We are very sorry for your loss. Richard was a very nice and helpful man and will be missed. Our prayers go out to you and your family at this sad time.
Jinny and Matt Kuzmich from Tamarack Avenue
Terry Malley
November 7, 2016
Rich we are going to miss you. You were truly one of the best human beings I ever came across. You were willing to listen, but were very up front and honest in our dealings. One can't ask for any more. You were special, thanks for all your kindness. God bless your family.
Rich Toomey is loved and missed at Santa Clara University. Rich is pictured here with his longtime friend and associate, Joel Putnam.
Robert Boyd
November 7, 2016
November 6, 2016
So very sorry for your loss. I sat with you , Richard and David at jakes wedding. A few weeks ago. Just remember listening to you talk about how wonderful a grandpa he was. How much he loved playing with the kids. It just seems so unfair when things like this happen. Hope David is doing ok. Doris Rooney
November 5, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to BJ and family. We knew Richard for just a short time. But I will always remember his love of people, wine and reading. I know he did not like the Texas Heat..but his friends here in Texas will sorely miss him. Rest in peace, may God grant you everlasting life. Till we meet again in that mansion in the heavens, our memories will never die with knowing you, Richard. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, BJ in this time of sorrow for you and your family. We hope to see you again soon back in Texas.
Your neighbor,
Sherry and David Duffey
Melissa Astrowski
November 4, 2016
May love and memories comfort your family during this time of sorrow.
Cindy Mercer
November 4, 2016
David and family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you....
Denise Toomey
November 4, 2016
May the road rise up to meet you . May the wind alway's be at your back. May the sunshine warm upone your face.The rain fall soft upon your feild. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand . Rest in Peace Uncle Richard . You wil be forever loved . Your Neice Denise
November 4, 2016
We hold Rich's family in our thoughts and prayers. We met Rich recently and remember his joy as he played with his grandchildren in the back yard. His ready smile and laughter will be missed.
Dave & Jo Weinberg
Denise Freitas
November 4, 2016
Rich Toomey was one of the finest men I've had the great pleasure to know and call not only mentor but friend. I will miss everything about him - from his sage advice on education and raising children to his quick wit. I'll especially miss the spirited banter and comparisons he made between his beloved Ducks and my hometown Buckeyes. You will be sorely missed dear friend. May BJ and your family find comfort knowing that you are in the hands of our Lord.
November 4, 2016
Richard Toomey was my first boss in my professional career for 8 years at SCU. He was kind, witty and a caring person. I am so very sad to hear this news and my heart goes out to Barb and the kids. - Mary Lou Strong
Lorenzo Gamboa
November 3, 2016
Rich was an incredible man and showed nothing but respect to the world around him. He will be missed and remembered always as my mentor, a colleague, and a wonderful BRONCO! May you rest in peace Rich.
Dan Saracino
November 2, 2016
I had the distinct honor to work with Rich at Santa Clara from 1977 to 1997.
He truly was an amazing friend and colleague. In my forty-seven years in the higher education field I never worked with nor known anyone more conscientious, professional and kind than this man. I consider myself blessed to have had Rich be a part of my life. So, while we must mourn his passing, we are forever grateful for his having lived among us.
Mike Aufdenspring
November 2, 2016
Dear Toomey Family:
I first met Rich at Saint Louis University in 1964. Alex Anderson and I were roommates and Rich lived down the hall. We had a great floor on Walsh 3.
What a great guy. Tremendously funny and quick-witted. Lost track of each other after graduation, but Alex kept me informed of Rich's doings. He accomplished so much.
So sorry to hear of his passing. Condolences to your family. My prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.
Donna Simpson
November 2, 2016
Please accept my sincerest condolences and prayers on the loss of your loved one. May the Lord send the Holy Spirit for comfort and strength during this difficult time.
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