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Antoinette Bernardi Obituary

Antoinette M. Bernardi (Arcudi), age 93, died Wednesday June 19, 2019 at her home in Framingham with her children by her side. The VNA Hospice care she received was extraordinary, allowing her to stay in her home. She was a 20 plus year survivor of cancer who truly was a medical miracle defying her age. Ann was the wife of the late Rudolph Bernardi who died in 2011. She lived in her house in Framingham for 64 years and was very pleased that her children were able to keep her there until the end. Ann was born in Framingham and was the oldest and only daughter of Louis Arcudi Sr. and Jennie (Mauriello) Arcudi. She was the sister of Consulato "John" Arcudi of Barefoot Bay, Florida and the late Louis Arcudi Jr. of Milford. She attended Milford High School Class and graduated 14th in her class in 1943. Ann and husband Rudy were married in 1949. She was an incredible cook who made her own pasta and other Italian delicacies to the delight of her family and friends. When she would winter in Ft. Myers in retirement the smell of her cooking would waft throughout the air and bring a crowd to her kitchen window to see what she was making. When her youngest child went to school she worked luncheons at Ken's Steakhouse where she was an extremely popular waitress. She met many lifelong friends there. Ann B, as she would call herself, decided to take up golf when her children got older. She was a member at Saddle Hill Country Club in Hopkin- ton and Kelly Greens Country Club in Ft. Myers. Always with a smile on her face and a joke to tell you, she lit up the course. She played golf into her 89th year when she chipped in multiple times at her ladies league at Millwood Golf course. She also loved going to the Callahan Senior Center for bingo, poker and scrabble. Anyone who played with her knew what a fierce competitor she was. Ann is survived by her 4 children, Denise Quatrale of Boulder City Nevada, Shay Bernardi of Quincy, Stephen Bernardi and his wife Diane of Framingham and Paul Bernardi and his wife Wendy of Framingham. She also has 7 grandchildren, Judi, Jill, Christopher, Sarah, Shannon, Melissa and Derek and 6 great grandchildren Benjamin, Mila, Sophia, Harper, Max and Zoe who all loved Noni and Great Noni so much. Visiting hours are Thursday June 27,2019 from 4-7PM at Norton Funeral Home, 53 Beech St (corner of Union Ave), Framingham. Relatives and friends are invited to attend her funeral Mass Friday June 28 at 9 a.m at St. Bridget's Church 830 Worcester Rd, Rt 9 in Framingham Centre. Burial will follow at St.Tarcisius Cemetery in Framingham. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made in Ann's name to the following charities or the charity of your choice: Mass General Cancer Center, St. Jude Hospital for Children, VNA Hospice of Metrowest For directions or to leave a message of condolence and sign the online guestbook go to nortonfuneralhome.com

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Published by MetroWest Daily News on Jun. 24, 2019.

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Diane Arcudi Burke

June 30, 2019

My condolences to the Arcudi/Bernardi families for the loss of Antoinette. She was a beautiful lady.

June 28, 2019

Dear Denise and family,

I am sorry for your loss. Your mother sounds like a wonderful woman, who embraced life. May you find peace in your loving memories.

Sincerely,
Mary Decina Abramson

Louie Diraimondo

June 26, 2019

My deepest sympathy and condolences to this wonderful lady that I knew She was always very kind to me She is now in heaven in peace and not suffering And with the Angels will always remember her as a kind loving person

Steve & Helen Bremner

June 26, 2019

To Paul and his family, Helen and I send our deepest condolences. Your mom was always so sweet when we spoke, a truly lovely person. May she Rest in Peace.

Peter Manzo

June 26, 2019

Dear Shay and Bernardi Family,
Sincere condolences on the passing of your lovely Mom! May you feel her spirit at Peace and watching over you lovingly as you make your way through the coming days.
God Speed,
Peter M

Sleep in Peace Wreath

a loved one

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Rob Sharpstein

June 26, 2019

The enduring memory for me with Ann is the little prep table in the middle of the kitchen. It was formica with metal trim around it. When she saw Stevie and me coming up the driveway, she would dump a pile of flour onto the table. Then the eggs and soon we had an afternoon snack of freshly made pasta. Or maybe some fried "Navel" cookies drizzled with honey and powdered sugar.

What a smiling and positive woman. We are all blessed to have had her in our lives.

Valerie Guerra

June 25, 2019

My love and prayers to Ann's children and grandchildren. She always had a smile on her face and love on her heart.RIP my beautiful cousin. Love Valerie (Tosti) Guerra

Jet & Nanci Taylor

June 24, 2019

Condolences to all the family. She was a lovely lady and a sweetheart. She will be in our thoughts and prayers

Grace &Walter Crosby

June 24, 2019

We are so sorry to here of Your Moms passing.Grace had a lot of fun playing golf with her.She was blessed to have You around for so many years. God Bless Her

Janine Corsano

June 24, 2019

Dear Bernardi family; how blessed you were to have Antoinette among you for every moment of your lives. She was a beautiful energy and loving soul. Her legacy lives on in the love you share. May Peace be with you always...God Bless.

Margie and Ron Sudmyer

June 24, 2019

Steve, Diane and Family,
So sorry to hear about your Mom.
Sending prayers for all.

Marcia Chirichiello

June 23, 2019

Steven, Diane and family, I was very sorry to hear about your mom. She was a sweet lady. You were so blessed to have her in your life for so many years. We will keep her in our prayers. Chirichiello Family.

Rob Carter

June 23, 2019

Paul, So sorry to hear this. Prayers !!

Nina Rovinelli Heller

June 23, 2019

I will simply miss knowing Mrs. Bernardi is in the world. We were neighbors throughout my childhood and she was unfailingly kind to my family and a dear friend of my parents. A lovely, lovely woman.

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Jun

27

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Norton, McKinney & Lawler Funeral Home - Framingham

53 Beech St., Framingham, MA 01702

Jun

28

Funeral Mass

9:00 a.m.

St. Bridget's Church

830 Worcester Rd, Rt 9, Framingham Centre, MA

Jun

28

Burial

St.Tarcisius Cemetery

Framingham., MA

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53 Beech St., Framingham, MA 01702

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