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BRIAN J. ARENA
AGE: 18 JAMESBURG
Brian J. Arena, 18, of Jamesburg died Saturday May 8, 2010 at the Bristol-Meyers Squibb Children's Hospital at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital, New Brunswick. Born in New Brunswick, Brian was a lifelong Jamesburg resident. Brian was a senior at Monroe Twp. High School. He was an honor student, a member of the Junior National Honors Society and the National Society for High School Scholars. He was a two time recipient of the Student of the Month award. He also received the Student Achievement Award from the Middlesex County Board of Education, the Student Achievement Award from the MTHS PTO and MTHS Scholarships. He was a member of the JV Wrestling Team and two time manager of the boys Lacrosse Team. Brian was a very special person. He never complained during his illness and persevered through it all. He made a lasting impression on everyone he met. He has taught many a lesson of patience and caring for others. He will always be remembered in our hearts. We will love you forever.
Brian is survived by his parents, Umberto and Amelia (Stellato) Arena; his brother, Jason and his maternal grandmother, Margaret Stellato of Edison.
Services will begin 9:30 AM Friday May 14 at the Lester Memorial Home 16 W. Church St., Jamesburg followed by a 10 AM funeral liturgy at St. James RC Church, Jamesburg. Entombment will be in Holy Cross Burial Park, South Brunswick. Visiting hours for family and friends will be Thursday 2-4 and 7-9 PM at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Make-A-Wish Foundation, Los Angeles, CA or the Embrace Kids Foundation, Somerset, NJ. For directions and condolences visit www.LesterMemorialHome.com.
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Lisa Gliese - Patterson
May 16, 2010
Dearest Amy, Although I had never personally met Brian, over the years I had always heard what a great son he was to both you and Al. When I finally got to meet you in February, you told me all the great things that I had already heard about Brian and confirmed that you were truly blessed by a wonderful, smart, and deeply caring, special son. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Sue
May 14, 2010
I did not know Brian, but he made an amazing impression on my friend's daughter. She is heartbroken as are many others. My thoughts and prayers are with the Arena family and Brian's many friends, rest in peace Brian.
Bryan Faraone
May 13, 2010
Brian Arena was a funny and cool guy. He loved being in school and he always said school was fun. I am truly going to miss my best friend.
All decked out & ready to roll!!!
Debra Quevedo
May 12, 2010
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Sheree DelGiodice-Reiff
May 11, 2010
I was not fortunate enough to have had Brian as a student, but from seeing him in the halls, I know that he was truly an amazing young man. My condolences to the Arena family during this difficult time.
Tina B
May 11, 2010
Our condolences to your family. Although I did not have the opportunity to know Brian personally, I felt as though I did through my daughters eyes. She says he was a very wonderful person and we are all saddened by his passing. God Bless your family and may you find peace in knowing that he is no longer suffering
Susan Mantione
May 10, 2010
Sending deepest sympathy to the Arena family for the loss of your son Brian. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cassie S
May 10, 2010
Brian was a great kid, and an amazing classmate. He will be missed by me and I know by others. Rest easy Brian.
Traci Hauber
May 10, 2010
I may not have had the pleasure of knowing you Brian, but as a part of MTHS, you are family. You will always be remembered. My prayers go out to your family, and I know that you will watch over the future Falcons.
May 10, 2010
Dear Arena Family, We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time...May your deep loss be eased by sweet memories of the 18 years you got to spend with your son. Monroe has suffered the loss of so many beautiful children, it saddens our hearts more & more.....
Scott DiPierro
May 10, 2010
"Brian was an awesome guy, im going to miss you budddy, Everybody misses you and loves you.. now your having a good time in heaven.
May 10, 2010
With complete sorrow, I send my condolences to Amy, Al and Jason. Brian was a special young man and Heaven is fortunate to have him.
Your Godmother
Katie Reedell
May 10, 2010
It's been such a pleasure to know Brian and his family over the last five years. He was an amazing kid, full of such strength and he accomplished so much in his time here on Earth. Although his life was brief, Brian had a gift in touching the hearts of those who knew him, teaching us to not take things for granted, and loving everyone around you. I'm so proud of him. Rest easy Brian, and prayers to the Arena family.
Nicole H
May 10, 2010
I didn't know you Brian, but it pains me to see a fellow MTHS Falcon pass. From what I hear you were an amazing kid. I send my prayers and good thoughts out to your family.
May 10, 2010
May God give you the strength and faith to get through this most difficult of times. Take solace in knowing that Brian is free of pain and discomfort and is safe in God's loving arms. Our love and sympath is sent to his parents, Amy and Al, his broter Jason and his grandmother, Margaret Stellato, our Aunt.
Love, Cousins, Roberta and Nick
Scott Sincoff
May 10, 2010
Brian is a great person. He always had patience and faith throughout his whole life and was the best friend anyone can ask for. I send my deepest and most sincere condolences to his entire family.
Charlie
May 10, 2010
I would like to extend to all of you my deepest condolences. I am sorry for the loss of your angel and may he rest in peace with God. May God bless and keep all of you.
Susan H
May 10, 2010
Although I didn't personally know Brian, my daughter knew him. May he rest in peace in God's loving arms. God Bless his family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Les Breese
May 10, 2010
My sincerest condolences to Jason and your family on the loss of your brother. Please find comfort in knowing that his brief span of years was punctuated by admirable achievements and inspiration to all who knew him.
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