Aaron-Bender-Obituary

Aaron D. Bender

Buffalo, New York

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Suddenly, November 15, 2003, devoted son of Susan (nee LaCrego) and Ricky; dearest brother of Nicholas (Karen); loving grandson of Dorothy Coles and Joan and the late Donald Bender; nephew of Robin (Marc) Mutka and Richard (Diane) Bender; also survived by a great-great-aunt, great-aunts, great-uncles and cousins. Family present Monday 2-4 and 7-9 PM at the ORLOWSKI-PIETSZAK FUNERAL HOME, 2400 William St. (897-2400). Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Gabriel's Church, 5271 Clinton St., Tuesday at 9:30 AM. Please assemble at the church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Aaron Bender Memorial Scholarship Fund.
This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.

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HAPPY 30TH BIRTHDAY AARON! I MISS ALOT! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

hi aaron
another year gone by and its your birthday. I wish you were here so I could see you blow out thoes candles. I miss you and all the fun we always had. you are in my thoughts every day. I know all is great up there but down here you are missed dearly. I will say happy birthday and watch over us.I LOVE YOU AARON,
LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU,
NANA COLES
XOXO

Hello Aaron it ur cousin just dropping by to say hello. Bewlah is doing wonderful she is such a cute doggy. I took her for a walk yesteraday and let her play at the park she was running in circles and she knows her name and listens. She makes ur mom so happy and ur father calls her a devil dog. But we all love her very much. Well i know u know u have another friend up there. Show him the ropes up there i know you will. Golf tournament is coming up it will be a wonderful day like it always...

Aaron, As I get older and move forward in life,I think of you more and more. It still breaks my heart knowing that God took you earlier than most. As I get older, I find that not many people have the qualities that you did from your honesty, work ethic, and great sense of humor. What I miss most of all is the memories we made and how you then told the story. Oh man the stories! I will take them with me forever. Ill never forget how you picked up Woodrow Wilson(200 pound bag of terrazzo chips...

Thinking of you and your family

HI AARON
ITS BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE I HAVE WRITTEN BUT I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERY DAY. I KNOW ITS A LITTLE EARLY BUT I JUST WANT TO SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I AM GOING ON VACATION SO I WONT HAVE EXCESS TO A COMPUTER. I WILL BE IN MEXICO FOR TWO WEEKS SO HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUG 24TH. AARON MOM & DAD ARE DOING FIND. NICK & CHERIE ARE GOOD AS WELL AS BRANDON & RIELY. MOM DAD AND I WORKED ON A COUPLE OF THINGS FOR THE GOLF TOURNAMENT THAT IS COMMING UP. MISS YOU VERY MUCH AND I TALK ABOUT YOU A LOT....

RICK AND SUE BENDER,
IT'S A WIERD HABIT I KNOW BUT I READ THE DEATH NOTICES EVERYDAY....I HAPPENED TO SEARCH FOR AARONS NAME AND FOUND THAT THE GUEST BOOK IS CONTINUALLY OPEN. BRIAN AND I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT WE HAVE YOU IN OUR THOUGHTS DAILY AND PRAY THAT EACH DAY THAT PASSES BEGINS TO GET EASIER TO GET THROUGH.... ALSO CONGRATS ON YOUR BEAUTIFUL GRANDDAUGHTER,SHE IS A BLESSING TO HELP FILL YOUR VOID.
LOVE, BRIAN & GINA BOLDT

It's been quite a while since I have written but just wanted to let Aaron's family know that I am always thinking of you!!
Nick P- I had such a great time with you that night! I would love if we could stay in touch...
My love always to Aaron and his family and friends.

Aaron:
I have viewed your guest book often and have begun writing entries several times, but I was never able to properly articulate the way in which I felt about you and the friendship we shared. I believe this problem occurred because I had been gone from home for so long that the memories started to fade and as I grew apart from many of the friends we shared growing up, I had no one to talk and share memories with who knew both you and I. As fate would have it though, a confluence of...