Alan Z. Feuer

And Nicholas Elling, whose arrival into the world you celebrated with us and whose graduation you celebrated with us was a dancer in 2023 and my escort for the 2024 Ball....both of us remembered you fondly on both of those evenings and missed you. Your legacy lives on.... The Elling Family

The 63rd Quadrille Ball was just a month ago on 24th Feb. Many of us attending remembered Alan with fondness. Several approached me in my role as the event's MC to say they still missed his presence. As we will miss him this Tuesday, 12 years since his passing. A good friend and sage counsel whom I remember on many other days each year. RIP Alan.

Knowing him enriched my life. I will never forget him.

I think of Alan whenever I ride a horse, which brings to mind my Irish ancestors. He would have been at home in the world of the Anglo-Irish Ascendancy with his exquisite and kindly manners, and, as important, that world would have been at home with him.

Alan brought warmth and common sense to my life in New York City. If my dear mother had not been a force in my joining St. Barts, I would have missed the blessing of Alan who was inherently sweet.

Dear Alan, 28 years ago you and some Quadrille friends were planning the annual Hungerian Ball at the Ellings' (both Quadrille Alumni) apartment. Suddenly Nicholas Elling decided to enter the world, so as his Mom was rushed to the hospital by her family, you were left to tend three year old Bettina. You fulfilled your role as babysitter, unaccustomed as you may have been to it, with your usual charm, probably telling Bettina how pretty she was, and it made her happy as it made all the ladies...

Dear Alan,today 28 years ago you and some Quadrille Ball friends were planning the annual Hungarian Ball at the Ellings' (both Quadrille alumni) apartment. Suddenly Nicholas Elling decided to enter the world, so as his Mom was rushed to the hospital by her family, you were left to tend his three year old little sister. You fulfilled your role as babysitter, unaccustomed as you may have been to it, with your usual charm, probably telling Bettina how pretty she was;and it may have made her as...

At every important social event, if Alan was there , you already knew it would be a success. His charm glued people together with a very high spirit

Eight years have gone by, and I have never forgotten this kind, good-natured, good-hearted gentleman. I was always happy to see him in the room. God bless him. May his memory endure in the hearts of his many loving friends.