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Alan Lockman Obituary


ALAN J. LOCKMAN  Architect  
Peacefully passed away surrounded by family on December 10, 2011. Survived by loving wife of 39 years Jacqueline (Lawrence); his children Ilene Slatko, Melanie Berkemeyer, Loren Lockman, Emily Lockman, Jennifer Juul, Justin Lockman, Jessica Newman, and seven grandchildren. A celebration of his life will be held Tuesday, December 13, from 1 to 4 p.m. at JOSEPH GAWLER'S SONS, 5130 Wisconsin Ave NW. Interment private. On-line condolences www.josephgawlers.com    

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Published by The Washington Post from Dec. 12 to Dec. 13, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for Alan Lockman

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Fred Magaziner

May 27, 2012

I just found Alan's business card he had given me at our last City College High School reunion f the Class of 1950. On Googling his name today, I was shocked to learn of his passing. My intention was to call him. We spent our childhood play time and schools Pimlico Elementary, Garrison Jr High, & high school together until he left for Penn. Alan had a special attitude about him that was recognizable humorous, confident, and friendly. Although he not necessarily known for his athleticism, he once brought out strange objects that none of us had seen in our neighborhood before thereby introduced us to lacrosse with his new stick and ball.

We met Jacqueline once at the beach at Sea Colony. Joan & I want to express our deep sympathy but retain our fond memories of AJL.
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Emily w/Dad, 2005

December 16, 2011

Granddaddy with Shyanne

December 16, 2011

AJL, the man

December 16, 2011

Don Berkemeyer

December 16, 2011

TO DAD


What do you say, ‘bout a man when he's gone
To find the true saying, its hard, some part wrong
To miss so much moment, to forget little things
Not to feel his love present, when only sad rings

But I'll try anyway, to express from my view
The life of our man, the one we all knew
Father and husband, uncle brother and friend
With so little time now, these words love to send

He was loud he was soft, and often a lover
His feelings all out there, not under cover
He filled up a room, with talking and fun
But when he thought fools, they'd better off run

He fixed and he fiddled, assembled, adjusted
And ne'er afore long a thing fixed, if it busted
He toiled over spaces so we'd feel warm and cozy
T'was a game, was a joy, to surround us in rosy

Now the world is much nicer for spaces he drew
And in Washington special, there's more than a few.
All brick and clean beauty, so carefully crafted
And to think that by hand all, the plans had been drafted

For all the so many, he touched in this town
Which for so many years, he made his home ground
All as one on this day, we are feeling his missing
For hear now our words, once more his cheek kissing

And to me oh so gracious, to be treated like brother
So generous and kind and wise like no other
He welcomed me in to be family and friend
Hence I morn him so deeply now here at the end.

So long my dear friend, grand father and brother
Dad husband and cousin, and uncle and other
You leave a great hole, for the rest of us here
It's right in our hearts, where we hold you so dear.

Don Berkemeyer

December 16, 2011

Don Berkemeyer

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Don Berkemeyer

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December 16, 2011

Corina Noje

December 15, 2011

Dear Justin,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these difficult moments. Lots of love, Corina

Steve & Anne Ritchey

December 14, 2011

Ilene, Rory, Sydney --
Our most sincere sympathies to you and all the rest of your family. We hope your happy memories will help you get through the early days of sadness.

Ruth & Chuck Duvall

December 14, 2011

Jackie - we have so many wonderful memories of Alan, it's hard to know where to start. We remember his jokes, and what a fun loving person he was. We know that he will be sorely missed by you and the children, and you are all very much in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time.

Jim Geraghty

December 14, 2011

Melanie and Family,
I just wanted to let you know I am very sorry for your loss and that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

December 13, 2011

Jackie and Family
We are thinking of of you during this difficult time. Cherish the memories. Love and Prayers..
John, Betty and Kara Neesen

Richard Zambito

December 13, 2011

December 10

Dear Friends,

We will all remember Alan as a colleague, friend, pal, mentor, architect and most of all just one heck of a great guy that will be missed dearly by each of us.

His legacy lives on through not only all the buildings he designed that line Connecticut Avenue and K Street, and the more recent projects that he has done with all of us, but through all the lives he has touched with his spirited humorous laugh, his good nature, his feisty inspired persistence, his knowledge, and his love of work and life; and the wonderful gift of family and friends that shared in his beautiful journey.

Good night Alan,

Peace
Richard

December 13, 2011

December 10

Todd and Keri Whaley

December 13, 2011

Our thoughts are with you and your family during this time. I worked with Alan a few years ago and always enjoyed his wit, intelligence, sense of humor, and professionalism. He will be missed.

Bob Bowen

December 13, 2011

I met Alan while traveling for work and spoke to him many times on the phone as a fellow collegue and he made a lasting impression on me, he was very kind and willing to share his experiences. He will be missed dearly.

Kate Larish Coleman

December 13, 2011

Dear Lockman Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time. God Bless you all!

Todd and Keri Whaley

December 13, 2011

My deepest sympathies are with you and your family during this time. I worked with Alan a number of years ago and always enjoyed our conversations, our occasional lunches together, his trademark bow-tie, and his wonderful wit. He was a wonderful man and a good friend.

Kristen McMillan

December 13, 2011

Justin and your whole family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. Please know that we are here for you. Sending lots of love and hugs your way, Kristen (Nelson) and Bill McMillan

Jen (Viehman) Pilling

December 13, 2011

Dear Jackie, Jen, Jess, and Justin,
I am so saddened by the news of Alan's passing. I have the fondest of memories of him: a great sense of humor, a dashing bow tie, and a huge heart. He will be terribly missed by all who knew him. I am so sorry for your sudden loss and have you all in my thoughts and prayers. Love and hugs from Philadelphia.

December 13, 2011

Jackie our thoughts are with you and your family. Sorry I can't be with you on this sad day. Alan's creations remain as a tribute to his professional accomplishments. It was a great experience to work with him. Best, Jim Butterfield [email protected]

December 13, 2011

Ilene and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your father's passing.
Karen Kosiba Edwards

Sarah Cooper

December 13, 2011

Lockman Family
May the strength and prayers of others comfort you in your time of grief. I smile and laugh as I think of Alan.

Susan Raneri

December 13, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Lockman family. I will always remember Alan, my client and friend - the master of the architectural detail and his great sense of humor!

December 13, 2011

Dearest Justin and Family,

Sending you our our love, thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. Thinking of you-- love, Sapna, Raj, Kishen and Asha

Betsy Johnson

December 13, 2011

Jackie, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

December 12, 2011

Dear Jessica and Family,
We are deeply saddened to hear about your father. We had such a nice visit with him and your mom at Brian's wedding in July. We hope that you will all find some small measure of solace in your memories and the love we send across the miles to all of you.
Aunt Helene and Uncle Bruce

Isabelle Schuessler

December 12, 2011

Jackie: I was so sorry to read of Alan's passing tonight. I have such fond memories of you, Alan and the children in those wonderful times we shared. Thank you, and love to all.

Carolyn Fernandez

December 12, 2011

Jackie, I'm so sorry to hear about Alan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Stephanie (Ralph) Zilberman

December 12, 2011

Dear all the Lockmans,
Sending you all lots of hugs and kisses. With warm thoughts and all my love,

Mike, Liz, Andrew, Lauren and Haley Kueffer

December 12, 2011

Dear Jen and family,
You are in our thoughts during this difficult time. We are deeply saddened by your loss. Even though we cannot be there for the service know that you will be in our thoughts.

Granddaddy with Shyanne; they adored each other

Emily Lockman

December 12, 2011

Stan & Erna Benjamin

December 12, 2011

Lockman family, Our thoughts and prayers will be with you in the days and weeks ahead. With deepest sympathy,

Scott Stinson

December 12, 2011

I remember the thrill of working with Alan in the late 70's as a young intern. The office was always busy with interesting projects. Alan entrusted me with more responsibility than I could ever imagine. He was always there to help fix my mistakes; to teach and explain. I don't know how he found the patience! He never lost his love for architecture. I have many fond memories of Alan during those wonderful years. Jackie, my prayers are for you in this difficult time.

Catherine (Baker) Boyd

December 12, 2011

Dear Jess and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you all. I will always have wonderful memories of Mr. Lockman and remember the smiles that he brought to so many of us. Love to you all!

Helen Jeffery

December 12, 2011

We miss Alan! I remember him as a generous colleague and great mentor to our junior staff. I remember when he said to a young knucklehead, "hey, there's supposed to be someone sitting in that chair!" well guess what, that fellow is now a competent architect. Alan, so many have benefited from working with you,

Trent Sorensen

December 12, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Alan's great spirit and astute humor will always be remembered...with a huge smile.

Gregory Stackel

December 12, 2011

I have only known Alan for a few years since I moved to DC but as we worked together and talked I got to know him a little. He was a warm, decent man, concerned with the development of younger architects. He was a strong force for those around him. He was friendly to me and I respected him greatly. He will be missed. My thoughts are with the Lockman family.

Susan Buckley

December 12, 2011

Jessica,
Kevin and I offer our deepest sympathy on the passing of your dad. You, Scott and your mom, along with the rest of your family, are in our thoughts and prayers. We are thinking of you.

Marian Jacobs

December 12, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Peter and Justine May

December 12, 2011

Our heartfelt sympathy at this most difficult time. May God comfort you as you mourn.

December 12, 2011

Jackie: I am so sorry for your loss. Linda Chaletzky

December 12, 2011

Jacky my thoughts are with you and your family and in my thoughts I give you a big hug, may your memories help you during this difficult time. With much love,

Madeleine Wyss, Alexandria

Jane and Hal Rodman

December 12, 2011

So sorry to hear of your sudden and unexpected loss. Alan
was a wonderful person.

Walt and Mary Ann Feige

December 12, 2011

Dear Lockman Family,

We were very saddened to hear of Alan's passing. Know that we are thinking of all of you and offer our deepest sympathy.

December 12, 2011

Deeply saddened to learn about Alan. A gentle hug to the beautiful Lockman family during this difficult time.

Nan Nelson (Bethesda, MD)

Diana Kolar

December 12, 2011

I'm so sorry about your father. I did not know him well but I remember him as being full of fun and happiness. His greatest legacy will be the wonderful children he raised.

Mary Fran Holmes

December 12, 2011

My heart goes out to your grieving family. I have you in my thoughts and prayers.

Carmen Bailey

December 12, 2011

We are thinking of you guys and wish we were closer to come give you some big hugs. I always remember your Dad smiling and wearing his Bow-Tie and the fun times had at the beach, in DC and Richmond.

Take care guys - our thoughts and prayers are with you - love you!,

Carm

Kristy Berksza

December 12, 2011

Lockman family, you are in my heart this week. May memories bring you smiles and peace during this difficult time. Sending my prayers and love!

Pete and Adele Whitford

December 12, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God surround you with His strength and comfort you. Love,

Michelle Feige

December 11, 2011

Thinking of your family and all your kindnesses with love and deepest sympathy.

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