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One of the greatest psychologists, a great human being, dearest Al
Sanjay
August 02, 2018
NEW YORK (AP) _ Albert Ellis, one of the most provocative figures in modern psychology and the founder of a renowned psychotherapy institute, died Tuesday at age 93.
He died of kidney and heart failure after a long illness, said his wife, Debbie Joffe Ellis.
Ellis developed what is known as rational emotive behavior therapy, which stresses that patients can improve their lives by taking control of self-defeating thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Many consider his work to be part of the foundation of cognitive behavior therapy.
''We all owe a great debt to Dr. Ellis,'' said Robert O'Connell, executive director of the Albert Ellis Institute in Manhattan.
A 1982 survey of clinical psychologists ranked Ellis as the second most influential in the field _ ahead of Sigmund Freud and behind Carl Rogers, founder of humanistic psychology.
Ellis had been involved in legal battles with the institute he founded more than four decades ago, accusing its board of improperly removing him. The board said the ouster was done out of economic necessity.
Last year, a judge ruled that the board had removed Ellis without proper notice and reinstated him to the board. He returned to the institute in June, O'Connell said.
''He helped countless people, and a large number of people he helped now help other people,'' Debbie Joffe Ellis said. ''And in that, there's no question that he has influenced the world in an intensely positive way. In this crazy, violent world, he was a compass for truth.''
Ellis initially devoted most of his spare time to writing fiction, and when he couldn't get anything published he turned exclusively to nonfiction, promoting what he called the ''sex revolution.''
In the late 1930s, as he collected material to make a case for ''sexual liberty,'' his friends began regarding him as an expert on the subject. They often asked for advice, and Ellis discovered that he liked counseling, as well as writing.
After receiving a doctorate in clinical psychology from Columbia University, he started a private practice specializing in sex and marriage therapy. R.E.B.T. grew out of his own experiences and the teachings of Greek, Roman and modern philosophers.
Early in his career, Ellis drew criticism from some in the psychological and psychiatric establishment because of his critical views of Freud and psychoanalysis.
Ellis wrote or co-wrote more than 60 books including ''A Guide to Successful Marriage,'' ''How to Live With a Neurotic'' and ''A New Guide to Rational Living.''
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One of the greatest psychologists, a great human being, dearest Al
Sanjay
August 02, 2018
God Bless Albert Ellis. May your soul rest in peace
dr.sanjeev george Varghese
August 13, 2011 | Bangalore
Remembering you today, as always, with reverence and gratitude, dearest Al.
Sanjay
July 24, 2011 | India
Thank You for your inspiration!
Brian Johnson
August 14, 2010 | Christchurch New Zealand
A friend referred to Dr. Ellis as Big Al as a joke - the name stuck with us
A fallible memory of a typical (1989, 1990) session with Big Al
* Waiting for the receptionist to tell you he’s ready.
* Walk up the staircase to a darkened but quiet 2nd floor.
* Empty room, opened doors across from Dr. Ellis’s room
* Darkness just before opening doors
* Always a little nervous before entering
* Bright fluorescent like light hits you as you open door.
* Greeting from...
J M
February 17, 2009 | Fairview, NJ
I brought Ellis into my life in the mid '60's when I was a teen living in a dysfunctional family. His words were the way out and through. They made perfect sense when nothing around me did. I remember as if it was yesterday the calm that came over me as I read the words that made everything ok. It was a transformative experience. I don't know where the book came from, or even what it was, but I hid it in a closet and just knowing it was there made me feel I could always drink from the well...
A. B.
January 30, 2009 | Palo Alto, CA
I met Al in the 1970s, receiving training at the Institute. I wrote a paper which Al graciously published, entitled, A theoretical basis for RET" (I can't locarte it, but I have copy and have updated it). Al had a profound affect on me and my work. I had written to him many times over the years, and he never, never, failed to respond with critical comments, sometimes positive, sometimes negative, always honest. I valued his comments and have been honered to know him over the years. When he...
George Steinfeld
July 26, 2008 | Trumbull, CT
I am a 54 year old graduate counseling student who wishes he could have met Mr.Ellis before he died. He is an inspiration to me. I pray that his family find peace in their greiving.
John Naseef
March 23, 2008 | Toledo, OH
It's been almost 7 months since Al's death. I still think of him, his kindness and wisdom, each day. His wife Debbie has my deep respect and condolences.
Gayle Rosellini
March 12, 2008