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Thinking of Tanny on her birthday. Sleep softly, dearest Pepys.
Merril
September 28, 2025 | Family


New York, New York
O'KARMA--Alexandra, actress, died on September 6th in New York City. Born in 1948, she graduated from the National Cathedral School and Swarthmore College before making her home in New York with her beloved husband, the late actor Ian Stuart. A consummate actress herself, she appeared in plays...
Read MoreThinking of Tanny on her birthday. Sleep softly, dearest Pepys.
Merril
September 28, 2025 | Family
Thinking of Tanny and her wicked wit. How much of her childhood she spent upside- down doing handstands. The Blackfeet her father worked among called her Princess Proudfoot. The world is a poorer place.
Merril
September 04, 2025 | Family
I gifted my audio tapes of West with the Night along with a copy of the book to my grand daughter. I would truly love to have cds of Alexandra's reading. Would the family consider making such cds available for sale?
Elaine Maxwell
September 06, 2024
As always, thinking of Tanny/Alex especially at this time of year. Remembering her eyes, which stayed the same right to the end. Large, lovely, level, crystal grey--or so I always thought. "Not a bit of it," said Tanny. "They're green!" Could have fooled me, Pepys. I've also been remembering our life together at 640 West End Avenue, I struggling to make it as a singer, Tanny already on her feet in the theatre. Not unmitigated harmony, but what a boon to have the chance of living with a...
Merril Stevenson
September 05, 2024 | Family
Me again, Pepys. For the first time in a couple of years this website is letting me post. I've been sortimg out the library and came across your recordings of "West with the Night' and "Queen's Gambit". These were the only ones you let me keep, except for "Rebecca". i used to play them just to hear your voice but now have no tape-player. Can you convert these things to CDs? I miss your wicked sense of humour and your way with words. Sleep with the angels, Peeper.
Merril Stevenson
September 04, 2023
Thinking of you, dearest Pepys. Love always Tist
Merril Stevenson
September 04, 2023 | Family
Alex. I miss you. I miss your humor, your wit and your appreciation for my lack of humor and wit. Despite the last few years of Alex's life, I witnessed a friend who never tired of laughing and remembering all the goodness around her. She especially loved her sister and brother and her friends and her husband. I learned so much from Alex. I miss both Alex and Ian very much. God bless you Alex and God bless everyone Alex loved in her life. Bill
Bill Gilinsky
September 04, 2022
Thinking of Tanny today, as always. A strong, sharp spirit. Right now I'm remembering how much she liked Gary Cooper, not just Pride of the Yankees (which we watched more than once) but also the one about WWI-- was it Private York? Me, I'm a For Whom the Bell Tolls sort of woman. It was lovely seeing Brother Bill in New York last month. Sleep with the angels, Pepys. Your Tist
Merril Stevenson
September 04, 2022
The message by Elaine Maxwell exquisitely captures my feelings about Alexandra. When she is reading "West With the Night", her voice makes it clear she knows the very soul of the book. Her reading is truly special.
John Beamish
December 10, 2021 | Other