Andrew John "AJ" Selders

aj was not only my boyfriend of 3 years, but he was my best friend in the whole world. I am so proud that i was the love of his life and I do not regret any of the wonderful days i spent with him. we taught eachother things, and helped eachother through everything. He was soo unique and was not like other guys. I am so happy that i helped him grow into the young man he had become. It brings a big smile to my face. Aj has made me such a strong woman and I will constantly live the rest of my...

To Ron DeGood and Family: We extend our deepest sympathy to you on the passing of your grandson. We just heard about it today and are keeping all of you in our prayers. Rob and Nancy Prescher

my heart still breaks for the loss of this young man and for the family who loves him so much. He's safe now in Heaven and is an angel for another soul now.

I wish I had the words that would wipe away the pain that I, myself and many others feel from AJ's death. However, the only words I can offer is how deeply sorry I am for what happened. My heart goes out for all the grieving people I saw at the funeral. May god be with you in this tragedy. I am deeply saddened by his loss and hope that the healing power of friends and family will help bring comfort, for he shall dearly be missed. Those who knew him were lucky to be blessed with his...

Dear Pam,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying that God is very near to you during these tough days.
Gwen (VanderTuin) Hanna

Hello, With deep sympathy of your loss. My son Denis attended orion High School with AJ and Denis has been gone for a week ,just tonight he learned of AJ's tragedy. Denis is very sadden to hear of AJ's passing,AJ must of made a significate impact on my son, he often spoke of AJ and about his plans of entering the military. I pray that god will ease you through this time, with somehow giving you comfort in knowning he is now with the lord. You son AJ will be missed and remembered.

AJ was one of my best friends last school year we never hung out or anything outside of school but we had plans to. I went to his viewing and his Step mom i believe said she remembered my name from last year and it brightened my day. But my greatest condolences go out to AJ's family.

Dear Pam,
I am so sorry for your loss of Andrew. I still remember Andrew and John when they attended Bauerwood Elementary School. I know what it's like to lose a child, we lost our son, Scott, last August 23. Scott was 42 with a wife and two young children. He had a massive heart attack. I pray for you that God will be with all of you and give you peace. I don't know if you remember me or not but I was the secretary at Bauerwood when the boys went there. My thoughts and prayers are...