Photo courtesy of Mercadante Funeral Home & Chapel - Worcester
Shrewsbury, Massachusetts
1923 - 2015
Angelo ?Tony? Pacillo, 92, peacefully passed away Saturday morning, June 20, 2015, at his home in Shrewsbury, with his wife and children at his side. He will be dearly missed by his wife of sixty-seven years, Elizabeth ?Bette? (Moore) Pacillo, and his five children, Jean Scott, Raymond Pacillo, Joanne D?Errico, and Maribeth Pacillo, all of Shrewsbury, and Anthony Pacillo of Cambridge, as well as his four grandchildren, Michael D?Errico, Andrew D?Errico, Jennifer Pacillo, and Lucia Scott; two great-grandchildren, Massimo and Gianni D?Errico; a brother, Matthew Pacillo of Las Vegas; a sister, Dorothy Riggieri of Worcester; many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by two brothers, Giovanni and Michael Pacillo.
Born on May 23, 1923, Tony was the first son of Italian immigrants, Sante and Celestina (Candelmo), and grew up in the Shrewsbury Street neighborhood of Worcester. He loved reminiscing about ten cent hot dogs at Homer?s Lunch, picking dandelions for his mother?s salads, and hand rolling cigarettes for his father, always making sure to keep a few for himself of course. He proudly served in World War II as a Private First Class in the United States Army, from 1943 to 1945. Tony was the proprietor of Chandler Auto Body, on Shrewsbury Street. His strong work ethic inspired his children, as well as his generosity and kindness to anyone in need.
Tony married Bette in 1948, and they spent their lives surrounded by friends and family. The Pacillo?s house in Shrewsbury was always filled with laughter, card games, and great Italian food. Tony was happy to welcome everyone into his home, and his sharp sense of humor made guests feel like they were instantly a part of our family.
He was so incredibly proud of his family, and loved spending time with them. He never minced words and taught us countless life lessons that focused on strong values, helping others, and being grateful.
Relatives and friends are invited to join his family for Calling Hours on Wednesday, June 24, from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. in MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation Street, Worcester. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Thursday, June 25, in Saint Anne?s Church, 120 Boston Turnpike (Route 9), Shrewsbury, MA. Interment will follow in Mountain View Cemetery, Shrewsbury.
There is an online register, where you can leave messages, it can be found at www.mercadantefuneral.com.
Dear Pacillo Family, It is time again to remember your dear father and what a lovely gentleman he was. For several years I was your neighbor across the hall and I well remember what kind and good neighbors they were. All blessings to the family. My best regards, Elaine Brouillette, Shrewsbury, MA
Elaine Brouillette
June 15, 2025 | Shrewsbury, MA, MA | Neighbor
I am sorry for your loss. My prayers goes out to the family. Tony will be deeply missed.
Kimberly Ramirez
July 13, 2015 | Worcester, MA
Dear Mrs.Pacillo,Jean,Joanne,Ray,Maribeth & Anthony, You are all in our thoughts & prayers. Tony was a wonderful man with a keen sense of humor & so much grace & integrity. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him. May your cherished memories remain in your hearts and help you find the peace that he is living with now in the arms of his Heavenly Father, Holy Mother & Jesus his Savior. He's here with you always in spirit until you go Home to join him in eternal peace, love & joy. Love, ...
June 28, 2015
Dear Pacillo Family, Sorry to here of Tony's passing, Tony was a great person with a big heart always willing to help someone out. Myself and Dave Gozdur rented space at the Body shop from Tony back in the 80's. My thoughts and pray,s are with all of you in your time of sorrow. Mike Plouffe
Michael Plouffe
June 28, 2015 | Brookfield, MA
Anthony, My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
Michael Ferrara
June 27, 2015 | Los Angeles, CA
Joe and I were so sorry to hear of Tony's passing; always remember him
fondly...you all are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Joe and Patricia Pacillo
99 Preble Street
South Portland, ME 04106
June 27, 2015
Tony's big heart and kindness will always be remembered and we will always cherish the conversations we used to have when visiting from Maryland. He left a legacy of love, and was a beautiful example of how to live life. Bette, Maribeth, Joanne, Jean, Raymond and Anthony, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Christian, Giulia, Kim and Joe.
The Testa Family
June 26, 2015 | Rockville, MD
To The Pacillo Family... We were so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing...We were away and unable to attend his services...I have very fond memeories of your Dad....He was a wonderful caring and warm man...May your memories of him sustain you at this sad time...Our deepest sympathy...Jeanne (Leroux) Smith & Joe Hart
Jeanne (Leroux) Smith
June 26, 2015 | Westborough, MA
Dear Pacillo Family,
I have so many fond memories as a young girl going to Tony's Auto Body Shop with my Dad,swimming at Bette and Tony's pool and staying for an amazing dinner because Tony told you that you were staying and would never take no for answer. Tony was a wonderful husband, father, grandfather,son and uncle.He always made you feel like you were part of the family. Everyone was always welcome at The Pacillo House and the door was always open. He will be missed by all that...
Judy & Lee Silverstein
June 25, 2015 | Worcester, MA