Ariel-FURSE-Obituary

Ariel Alma FURSE

Obituary

October 18,1942-November 17, 2012
It is with extreme sorrow that we announce the peaceful passing of our dear wife, mother, grandmother, sister and friend, Ariel Furse, surrounded by her family at St. Joseph's General Hospital.
Ariel is survived by her loving husband of 50 years, Ray; her sister Joy (Carman); brother Jim (Lucille); her four children: Marty (Carolyn), Rusty (Kari), Shannon, and Gillian (Lane); her eleven grandchildren: Justin, Mikaela, Jonathan, Julia, Jenna, Malia, Natasha, Ariel, Miranda, Donovan, and Zachary and many loving nieces and nephews, relatives and friends.
Ariel was born in Nipawin, Saskatchewan. Her family soon moved to Saskatoon. Extremely accomplished in whatever she did, she became a concert violinist (Saskatoon Symphony 7 years), Saskatchewan Provincial high diving champion for junior ladies, national level gymnast, and probably the best 'jiver' in the city.
Ray and Ariel fell in love and a year and a half later, were married on January 2, 1963. A three day 'honeymoon' in 20 below winter in a borrowed car and then to work. Ariel earned her PHT (Putting Hubby Through university) as a private secretary while Ray earned his B.Comm at U. of S., moving to Calgary in '66 and on to Prince Rupert in '68 and then on to their final home in '74, Courtenay, B.C. In Courtenay, all heaven broke loose when the family met Jesus with Ariel leading the way. On our small 'farm' she raised her family and became a world class cook, a very creative seamstress, taught violin lessons, became a top level hair stylist, hosted exciting bible studies in our kitchen, and after her first two strokes five years ago, became a very accomplished artist.
A celebration of Ariel's life will take place on Dec. 1, 2012 at Comox Pentecostal Church at 2 p.m. Reception and fellowship to follow in the Church fellowship hall. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the B.C. Stroke Foundation in Ariel's name.
A special thank you to Fran McGuckin, Ariel's best friend, for her love and help in the years after Ariel's first stroke five years ago. And to Dr. Peter Gee for going beyond the call and to all the doctors and nurses and staff at St. Joseph's Hospital (especially Emergency, ICU, and 3rd Floor) who gave exceptional compassionate care to Ariel and our family. Special thanks as well to the Stroke and Speech Therapy Group in Campbell River and Nanaimo for their special support and friendship. And to her 'Painting group' friends who gave Ariel real 'life after stroke' fun.
And for His mysterious and wonderful grace, our family thanks our wonderful Lord and friend, Jesus.


This obituary was originally published in the Comox Valley Echo (Courtenay, BC).

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With tears I read the entries left for such a wonderful woman of God! She left a legacy that will be carried on in the lives of her family for eternity. Thank you for sharing her life, character, and attributes. We continue to pray for His peace to be with you through those tough momements of missing her.
I am sure my mom and her are praying they will see us soon!
Awaiting His return!!!
Love and hugs to you all.

Save some seats for us at the banquet table, Love, Marty

Read by Eric Macdonald at Ariel's Celebration of Life Dec 1/12
THIS IS FROM SON MARTY

Dear Mom,
You were the first of us Furses to meet Jesus; now the first to see Him face to face. You were the first to experience the joy of His presence; now the first to be found in His presence, full of joy and glory -- unending.
As I consider our loss, I am reminded of this Bible verse:
"But we do not want you to be uninformed, brethren, about those who are asleep, so that you will...

My love, my wife, mother of our wonderful children, my closest friend, I will miss you always

From Ray , Ariel's husband and best friend, together for 52 years Read at Ariel's Celebration of Life Dec 1/12
Words fail.
We often talked of our deep love for each other. We expressed it daily to each other in our words and actions.
Only now that you are gone do I realize how very, very, deeply I love you my sweet Ariel.
Remember Ariel, when we first met, I was going to be your "Bridge over Troubled Water"? It turned out my bridge was not so strong and it took Jesus coming into...

She was like my warm fuzzy blanket

Message from Rusty's wife Kari (Ariel's daughter-in-law) read at Ariel's Celebration of Life Dec 1/12

My mother in law
I remember when I first met Russ' mom. Russ and I weren't dating yet – we were just friends but he wanted me to meet his parents. His dad picked us up at the ferry and we drove to Courtenay to meet his mom and the little sisters. I remember being a bit nervous, but his mom and dad put me at ease that weekend. I don't remember all the details, but I remember a lot...

Ariel Furse had humility that I have yet to see matched

Memories from Carolyn - daughter-in-law (Marty's wife) read at Ariel's Celebration of Life Dec 1/12

I received such a warm welcome into the Furse family from my mother-in-law. She was so excited that her 39 year old bachelor son finally had a wife! We got along really well right from the beginning. She was so easy to love.
Ariel Furse had humility that I have yet to see matched.
In all of her accomplishments she had not mentioned to her own children that she was both the...

she was the prefect wife and mother and her undying love for Jesus has inspired me endlessly

Message read at Ariel's Celebration of Life Dec 1/12
(Daughter) Gillian wrote:
My Mom was an amazing woman and mother. As I reflect on my life with Mom, so many wonderful things come to mind. She was always warm and loving. She had an amazing smile that just told you she loved you. She always knew when I needed encouragement or even a silent embrace. She seemed to know when to be firm and when I needed her to listen. Mom was my best friend. we spent many hours laughing, playing,...

I love you so much more than my heart can hold!

Poem from daughter Shannon - read at Ariel's Celebration of Life Dec 1/2012

I Love You Mom
To show you my love,
How do I Begin
My heart, My Mom
From deep within

The guidance and patience
The endless hours
You gave us so freely
From your heart to ours

Beauty, painting and music
From cooking to sewing
Your creativity endless
So much never ending

Every minute, each hour
It is every part
That my thoughts of you
Shall never...

Rusty loved his Mom so very much.

From Ariel's son Rusty, read by Eric Macdonald at Ariel's Celebration of Life Dec 1/12

My Mom Rusty
My mom underwent pain and suffering during my birth. She experienced fear and panic as I was a toddler who climbed tall trees in the back yard without her knowing. She waited the hours in the dentist and doctors' offices for appointments, and had to take the phone calls from the hospital when I was being a disturbance to other patients when I had pneumonia. She fought with me...

Read by Eric Macdonald at Ariel's Celebration of Life Dec 1/12
THIS IS FROM SON MARTY
Dear Mom,
You were the first of us Furses to meet Jesus; now the first to see Him face to face. You were the first to experience the joy of His presence; now the first to be found in His presence, full of joy and glory -- unending.
As I consider our loss, I am reminded of this Bible verse:
"But we do not want you to be uninformed, brethren, about those who are asleep, so that you will not...