Barbara Gray Macondray

Barbara Gray Macondray
January 1, 1924 - May 3, 2022
Barbara Jane Gray Macondray of Sausalito, CA died peacefully at home May 3 at the remarkable age of 98.
Barbara was born January 1, 1924 in Richmond, VA. She grew up in southeastern Virginia among family who loved her dearly. She graduated from the College of William and Mary, then worked as a buyer at Miller and Rhoads department store. She and a friend jumped in a car and headed west in search of jobs and husbands. Arriving in San Francisco, she thought, this will do! She worked for J. Magnin and H. Liebes department stores in San Francisco as buyer of women's casual wear and store manager for many years. Eventually she opened her own shop in Kentfield, CA, the "Barbara Gray."
She met Stewart Alberto Macondray, who was a handsome single father, and married him January 1, 1966 in Pine Grove, CA, at a double-surprise party—Stewart managed to turn a birthday party friends organized to surprise Barbara into a wedding meant to surprise those very same friends. The marriage was long and rich, full of love, good food, endless travel adventures, and enduring friendships.
Barbara appreciated all manner of surprises in life. Letters home and travel journals were full of hilarious stories, like careening through tiny Spanish country roads in an ancient Lionel. The car was too big for the road but small enough to lift and spin around when discovered to be headed in the wrong direction. The stories always included exceptional food and wine shared with friends and family.
Barbara loved Sausalito where she lived the last five decades of her life. She had a view of the harbor and a love for the fog.
She is preceded in death by her parents Kathryn Moyer and Marvin Gray, Sr., stepmother Frances Stringfellow, sister Kathryn Bradshaw, and her beloved Stewart. Barbara leaves stepchildren Malcolm Macondray, Kayla Macondray and Elodie Bergmann; her brother Marvin Gray, Jr.; two grandchildren, four great-grandchildren, and other beloved family members and dear friends. At her request, no memorial service is planned.
The family is grateful for the exceptional care of Leslie Munday and others at Eldercare Specialists, and the gentle tending of the team at Helping Hands.