Barbara-Stella-Obituary

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Barbara A. Stella

Bedford, Massachusetts

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DIED
February 12, 2024
LOCATION
Bedford, Massachusetts
CHARITY
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital

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Barbara A. Stella, 86, passed away peacefully on February 12, 2024, with her 3 children and son-in-law by her side.  She was born on May 28, 1937 in Boston MA to Sarah (Sadie) Mahoney and Cornelius P. Mahoney.


As a child Barbara could be found climbing trees and sledding down hills in the Arnold Arboretum.  In 1959 she met and fell in love with her husband, Carmen, and were married for 52 years.   They raised their 3 children Barbara Ann, John Michael and Ann-Marie in Bedford MA.   


Barbara enjoyed many interests including swimming in her family pool and the ocean, ice skating, bowling, gardening, and spending time with her grandchildren.  Together Barbara and Carmen enjoyed ballroom and square dancing, traveling to their favorite destinations Cape Cod, Ogunquit, Aruba and shared a strong faith in God.


In 1978, Barbara became a Mary Kay Consultant and excelled in her ability to connect with women, educate and help them feel and look beautiful.   She became a Mary Kay Director and over 42 years with Mary Kay, Barbara achieved awards including the “Triple Star of Excellence”, “Circle of Gold” and “Ladder of Success” numerous times over her career.  In 1982 the highlight of her career was flying to Dallas, TX to be crowned, #1 National Queen of Sales for the Emerald Division, on stage with Mary Kay Ash herself and a surprise guest, her husband Carmen.     


Barbara was the devoted wife of the late Carmen J. Stella, loving mother of Barbara Ann of North Chelmsford, John Michael of Bedford, Ann-Marie Snelson and her husband Brian of Chelmsford, beloved grandmother to Gina Grammel and her husband Christopher, Carley Lange and her husband Kyle and Thomas Snelson.  Sister-in-law to John A. Stella, sister to Cornelius J. Mahoney and Mary Lynch and aunt to many nieces and nephews.


Funeral from the Bedford Funeral Home, 167 Great Rd., Bedford on Tuesday, February 20, at 9:00 AM, followed by a funeral Mass in St. Michael Church, 90 Concord Rd., Bedford, at 10:00 AM.


 Visitation at Bedford Funeral Home on Monday, February 19, from 4:00 – 7:00 PM.


Donations in Barbara’s memory can be made to St. Jude’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or at stjude.org


Family wishes to extend their gratitude to the loving and compassionate caregivers and staff at Life Care Center of Nashoba Valley and Artis Senior Living.

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Barbara was my "Mary Kay Lady" for over 10 years before I eventually became part of her Team. She was always so positive and inspiring in every way. I cherish her memory and miss her dearly. My heart goes out to her family with love and sympathy.

I met Barbara on more than one ocassion, but was able to get to know her when Dave Gendreau and I rented a cottage on The Cape and she and her daughter Barbara stayed with us. She was delightful! We enjoyed her many memories of being on the Cape with her family and especially with her husband, Carmen. She glowed and was joyful; it was touching to watch as Barbara helped her mother participate in this vacation in a place her mother clearly cherished. I felt privileged to have been able...

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Barbara was always so welcoming & genuinely interested in everyone. Her smile & kind manner seemed to light up a room! It was a joy to know her. May she now be sharing in the warmth & love of her God, and welcomed home! Peace be with you!

We are deeply sorry for the loss of your mother. May God give you strength in this time of sorrow and may He bless you with peace.

She must’ve been a wonderful mother to have a daughter like Barbara Ann.

I have so many fond memories of our family visits in NJ and in Bedford while growing up. Years of happy memories will carry you through this difficult time. Barbara lived a full life and was so very blessed to be surrounded by her family and so well loved. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Lorraine

The love of a mother is unconditional. Barbara was a very loving and caring woman. I recall all of the fond memories of visiting family in Boston. Please know you are in our prayers, hearts and hugs. Cherish the memories.

Barbara is an Angel! I am so blessed to visit with her every Friday with John over that year. I will fondly hold those memories forever in my heart. She treated me like she knew me my whole life. My thoughts and prayers to Barbra, Anne Marie and especially John. I love you all!