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Our trip to Alaska was one of the highlights of my life. Barry was the brother I never had and I miss him and think of him every day.
Mark Scheier
November 27, 2025


Photo courtesy of Concord Funeral Home & Cremation Service
Boxborough, Massachusetts
May 22, 1951 – Dec 3, 2020 (Age 69)
On December 3, 2020, Barry Stephen Harsip, 69, lost a brave and very painful battle with a terminal neurological disease. This tragic loss is exceptionally heartbreaking because of the number of lives he touched in such memorable and meaningful ways. His quick wit, unique sense of humor and...
Read MoreOur trip to Alaska was one of the highlights of my life. Barry was the brother I never had and I miss him and think of him every day.
Mark Scheier
November 27, 2025
Every day I remember Barry...... his optimism, enthusiasm, his sense of humor, his insatiable drive to remain physically active, and his constant caring for everyone he knew. He maintained friendships in everything he did..... including multiple schools & colleges, businesses, neighbors, family & the general public. I can't remember a time that Barry was at odds with anyone, ever. My love goes out to the Harsips & DiMarcos, who will always cherish the memories they shared with Barry.
Ilene Harsip
September 11, 2021 | Family
Condolences to the Harsip family. I was relatively late to this sad news of his passing, and am only now getting around to saying how much I miss Barry. I only wish it were possible for me to learn more from him in this life. He was a model for me, in my field, and even in my community, as I am a family lawyer who happens to have lived in the two neighboring towns where he worked and lived. We had a number of cases as opposing lawyers, over the years, including a few very hotly contested...
Steven Ballard
June 26, 2021 | Boxborough, MA | Neighbor
Barry was a great guy with a big heart. I met Barry when it was Graham and Harsip 24 years ago. I loved bantering with Barry and he loved and respected women very much. The way I learned about Barry's passing was I had a dream about him this morning 4-26-21 so I looked to see if there was an obituary, sad to say their was one. I called the office to give my condolences. If I didn't move to Plymouth, Ma I would have stayed friends with Barry and the office team. When Barry found out my dog...
Pamela Anelli
April 26, 2021 | Plymouth Ma, MA | Friend
My condolences to the Harsip family, and everyone from Graham & Harsip and Harsip & Stewart. I met Barry at Graham & Harsip law office. I have often thought of Barry remembering what a great person and legal advocate he was, and I was very sad to hear of his passing. Whenever I am in a legal forum I think of his example as he was wise, compassionate, and true. Barry was a very good and caring person and a very smart and ethical professional. He was a really great person. I hope he knew...
MaryAnn Samantha Kenneth
February 23, 2021
My condolences to the Harsip family, and everyone from Graham & Harsip and Harsip & Stewart.
I met Barry at Graham & Harsip law office. I have often thought of Barry remembering what a great person and legal advocate he was, and I was very sad to hear of his passing. Whenever I am in a legal forum I think of his example as he was wise, compassionate, and true. Barry was a very good and caring person and a very smart and ethical professional. He was a really great person. I hope he...
MaryAnn Samantha Kenneth
February 23, 2021
Love of family, friendship and laughter... Just a few of the joys that Barry brought to many... Always with us.
Tom Graves
February 21, 2021 | Friend
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Barry. I just received the news along with Courtney and Macy from Jerry's barber shop where Nancy Courtney and myself(Cindi)enjoyed many funny stories and jokes as we all had turns cutting Barry's hair. He is sadly missed
Cindi Lefebvre
January 29, 2021 | Pepperell, MA | Acquaintance
It's no wonder that I'll never forget Barry even though I only spent a few hours with him. That is the kind of person he was, making lasting impressions on people, no matter how small the opportunity was. In the short time we spent together, we talked about business, philosophy, sports, history, trips, paintings, and, of course, he told a few stories. He was truly special. I wish the very best to his family.
Balint Gyimesi
January 10, 2021 | Chelmsford, MA | Acquaintance