Ben And Brenda Wilber

Iam so sorry for your losses I just seen this so sad never knew . Ben was a great guy and remember (Tub) his Dad & Mom my prayers and Gods Love for the familys of both Dashia & Ben was shocked just now seeing this . In God's hands now amen.

Ben, Tyler, and Dashia,
My heart greaves for your loss. Anytime we would run into your dad it was always a pleasant and joyful conversation. I know he will be missed, but his spirit lives in each one of you. Embrace the memories,share his legacy. And please come and see us.
Dana and Doug Leters

I missed Brenda immediately when she retired from IUH Ball. She was a beautiful, kind-hearted lady, and occasionally I would ask Ben “how’s Brenda”. He always had wonderful things to say about her. Always.
I miss Ben. I would see him almost everyday. He would stop in my office for candy bars (I was a terrible enabler, and not helping Ben with healthy habits). I will miss our shared jokes, our sarcastic comments, our hopes, and our complaints. God bless you Ben and Brenda. I will...

I always called Ben the warden because you could hear him coming down the hall with all those keys he carried just a jangling. I would start smiling before I would even see him. What a nice man who raised two very nice sons and a legacy of goodness. What a legacy. My thoughts and prayers for both families. Heaven gained two angels.

I will miss his big smile and the love he had for everyone he met. Ben I will see you in heaven someday.

Ben was a smiling face and kind-hearted man I will always remember from my time at the hospital. He worked with my brother and tried to keep Bob in check. Tough job! Ben Jr. is one of the kindest, gentlest humans I know and that is testament to his Dad. God bless all of Ben and Brenda's family. Peace to each of you.