Benjamin-Brinton-Obituary

Benjamin Harrison Brinton Jr.

Obituary

BRINTON, Benjamin Harrison Jr., age 91, slipped away on August 26, 2009. He was born in Oil City, Pa., where his great-grandfather, Karl August Morck, settled from Germany. Karl Morck Jr., Ben's paternal grandfather, was a jeweler and inventor of a practical bifocal lens. His oldest daughter was Ben's mother who married Benjamin H. Brinton. Ben Sr. started a brokerage firm in New York City and served as treasurer of the New York Stock Exchange from 1935 until 1940. Ben Jr. is survived by his wife of 45 years, Virginia Clarke White Brinton; his younger brother, William Morck Brinton and wife, Mary Jane Wyman Brinton; and many nieces and nephews. Ben graduated from Choate School and Yale University and studied French in Paris at the Sorbonne. He attended the Moral Re-Armament conference in Caux-sur-Montreux, Switzerland in the early 50s where his life was transformed morally and spiritually. He accompanied Dr. Frank Buchman, founder of MRA, now called Initiatives of Change, and 200 others to Asia. They performed five plays that encouraged democracy: first in India, then in Pakistan and Sri Lanka. Ben and Virginia were married in 1964, and he obtained his Master's degree in French at the University of Virginia and taught at Patrick Henry College in Martinsville, Va. and for five years in the U.K. He worked again for Moral Re-Armament (IofC) when he and Virginia returned to Richmond by distributing MRA publications, which became Grosvenor Books, USA, under the leadership of J. Terence Blair. He taught English as a second language in the Richmond Public Schools. Ben and Virginia moved to Lakewood Manor 10 years ago. While living there, he read stories to a second grade class at Ruby Carver Elementary School. Ben greatly enjoyed his many hobbies: tennis, swimming, chess, and playing his harmonica. He was a member of St. Matthews Episcopal Church, singing tenor in the choir and active in the TGIF Friday breakfasts. He was a past member of the Kiwanis Club and the Order of St. Luke, a healing order through prayer. Ben's chief aim in life was to be a peacemaker personally and globally. When someone recently asked him what he was living for, he said that he wanted to build a peaceful world. A memorial service will be held at St. Matthews Church on Wednesday, September 2 at 11 a.m. Private interment at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Matthews Episcopal Church, 1101 Forest Avenue, Richmond, Va. 23229, or to Initiatives of Change, 2201 West Broad Street, Suite 200, Richmond, Va. 23220.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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Dear Virginia,

Dolores and I are very sad to learn of Ben's death, and we appreciate so much your letting us know, as we were out of the area at the time.

We have many fond memories of Ben, and I appreciate very much Ben's devotion to tutoring with Kiwanis over many years.

We will be in touch to visit with you soon.

Sam & Dolores Clement
272-9039

Mrs. Virginia,
Earl and I met you and Mr. Brinton in our work with Hope in the Cities (Initiatives of Change). We are sorry about the passing of you husband. We remember being in your presence and sharing with the two of you in dialogue groups. We pray that you will be sustained during this period of bereavement and your memories give you joy. God Bless and peace be with you!

Dear Virginia,

My sympathy and love to you. Ben was a special person. May God comfort you and give you peace.

Sincerely,

Sharon Freude

Virginia,

Ben was among the Greats. For many years he met with us at the Thursday Morning Prayer Breakfast. He was outstanding. His thought and ideas stood out. We have missed him very much. We want you to know that you are on our minds and in our prayers as you try to adjust to a new way of life without him.

Sincerely,

Thursday Morning Men's Prayer Group,
Norman D. Graham
Richmond, Va.

dear Mrs. Brinton,i used to serve you and mr .brinton at ft. magruder in williamsburg over 15 yrs ago when you'd come ,perhaps every 6 months for a little get away-i remember you told me about the walking path behind the rockefellor home,Basset Hall,where you loved strolling to get away from it all.i have often wondered about you and believe after i left ft. magruder i searched and found your address and sent you a christmas card-you were such a loving and charming couple and i see you have...

Virginia,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God enfold you in His love, making you aware of His presence and His healing power to comfort and strengthen you.

I love you.

Blessings,

Jacque Dodge Womble

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