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Benjamin Cuellar Obituary
Ben was a teacher, and was working on his Master's degree at the University of Houston. He was a patron of story in any form; books, movies, graphic novels, and he particularly enjoyed comic books. Ben was a strong family man, and fiercely loyal to his friends. He was very opinionated, but had a heart of gold. He will be greatly missed.
A memorial service will be held 2:00 p.m. Saturday, January 19, 2013 in the Chapel of Heights Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Benjamin Cuellar
Angela (Morris) Roberts
August 6, 2019
Ben- I'm missing you today. Ben was a dynamic figure in my life and the life of others. Often, we were a pain in each other's side. There was something there. Something constant. I knew if I needed to speak to someone who was inherently good, I could always count on him. We were always fighters of the good fight and wanted more from the world than what we were experiencing. It has become increasingly more difficult to find people that contain even a few of the many glorious characteristics of Ben. I missed his call January 12th, and have been answering it in my mind ever since. I hope he hears me. I love you too Benji!
Allie Faden
February 7, 2013
I want to extend my deepest sympathies to the Cuellar family. I knew Ben from the master's program, and I truly adored him. He was a dynamic, kind, funny and caring man, whom I will always be proud to have been able to call my friend. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Teresa Hernandez
January 24, 2013
Dear Juan and family, Keeping you in prayer during this very difficult time.
Angie Lado
January 19, 2013
Juan, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm also sorry that I didn't get to meet Ben. He seems to have been a great person, so loved by those he taught. You and your family will be in my prayers. Rest in peace Ben.
January 19, 2013
Juan, our heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family. May your faith in God help you find comfort and peace.
John and Charlene Hoxter
Robin & Belynda Smith
January 18, 2013
Juan,
Although most of us never met Benjamin in person, it is obvious from the many kind words and heartfelt compliments, that Belynda and I, along with your entire professional family knew a significant part of Ben, just by knowing you. Quoting from the many Guest Book entries: Friend, loyal, helpful, good natured, jokes, humor, funny, witty, sarcasm, knowledge, intelligent, smart, teacher, mentor, respect, attentive, compassionate, sympathetic, and the broadest praise: Role Model. If I were to use these words to describe one of my colleagues, Juan Cuellar would be the first name that Belle would respond with.
Please take some comfort that in Ben's life, he managed to touch many in a way that you can be proud. Those connections will forever be positive influences on Ben's contacts.
Ben, Juan and your entire family are in our prayers and thoughts.
Bettie Tyree
January 18, 2013
On behalf of Sylvia my sister in Christ and co-member in the helping Hands Ministry at Lakewood Church, I pray that God be with Sylvia and the family where He will grant you peace and understanding while trusting in Him...
Richard & Debi Plumlee
January 18, 2013
In memory of Benjamin Cuellar. May he rest in peace and may the Lord watch over his family and give them peace and comfort during this difficult and sorrowful time.
Victor Santillan
January 18, 2013
I met Ben thru Jeff at starbucks immediately he gave you a need to speak to him .. we had some intresting conversations in the short time I knew him everytime I saw him on his motorcycle I asked him if I could ride it I was never able to convince him although I think I almost did when he asked to see my motorcycle license ... but no still didnt talk him into letting me we were not close friends at all nothing like some whom have written kind words about Ben here but Im absolutely sure not being closer to Ben was,,, is, my loss.
My deepest condolence goes out to his family friends and students ....
Victor H. Santillan.
Mary Moreno
January 18, 2013
You were funny and smart. You will be missed.
Tiffany Luedke
January 18, 2013
Ben, you will be greatly missed at Stratford. I always enjoyed working with you especially when you were my mentor. You were always so helpful to me when I was a new teacher.
Kenny & Diane Broussard
January 18, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. If there's anything we can do to help, please do not hesitate to call on us. A donation has been made to NAMI in Ben's memory.
Mandy Beal
January 18, 2013
Ben Cuellar was a good man. He was funny and fiercely loyal to those he loved. He will be missed by many.
Chris Ronquille
January 18, 2013
Juan, you and your family will be in our hearts and prayers.
Kate Foster
January 17, 2013
Lindsey, my thoughts are with you and your family during this very difficult time. I never met Ben, but he sounds like he was a truly wonderful person. I'm here for you guys if you need anything. <3
Mark Fey
January 17, 2013
Juan
They say that time does not erase what love has created, I hope that the good memories that you have of your son can help you through this difficult period. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
Jessica & Cindy Harper
January 17, 2013
Juan - Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family in the loss of your beloved son.
Rick Heiberg
January 17, 2013
My most heartfelt condolences to you and yours. We are just not supposed to survive our Children. Take solace in Knowing a groundswell movement of hundreds of your friends are spreading the word and sharing your sorrow.
Sharon Grant
January 17, 2013
Juan - I was so saddened to hear of Ben's passing. I will never forget his wit, intelligence, and good humor as a child. It sounds like he maitnained these qualities as an adult. I'm so sorry for your heartache and for your family's. I will keep you all in my prayers.
with love - Sharon
Will miss these hugs.
January 17, 2013
Hailey Snyder
January 16, 2013
Mr. Cuellar,
I will never forget English class with you my sophomore year. Ever since day one I hated school and thought it was pointless. But you, Mr. Cuellar, taught me more than any other teacher and I actually enjoyed it. Even though almost every class you separated me, Cameron, & John, I always looked forward to your class. Your jokes, sarcasm, and incredible knowledge to teach will be deeply missed.
I don't think I will ever forget you. Thank you and rest in peace.
Jessica & Victor Velásquez
January 16, 2013
There is not a time in my life that Ben was not a part of.
My son's midle name is "Alejandro" .
My Husband kept warm with your sweater when we were at the hospital for our baby to be born. And when he grows up he will know you were "El Capitán".
Words can't express how much I will miss you!
January 16, 2013
Within the Cuellar family you will find some of the most devoted, caring, and passionate people who all seem to be blessed with a unique penchant for witty, good natured humor.
Janet Fox
January 16, 2013
I was so sorry to hear about Ben's passing. Juan, you and your family have my deepest condolences. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Tracy Jackson
January 16, 2013
May the family and friends of Benjamin find peace and closeness. I am Benjamin's Aunt Silvia's church member. Silvia is very special to us. Our church family is praying for Silvia and her extended family.
Michele Dr. Cutler
January 16, 2013
Rest in Peace, Ben, you were our patient for many years and you were such a good kid, you will be missed, Ms.Rangel(Sanchez) our prayers are with you always.
Steve and Sue Grissom
January 16, 2013
Juan and family
We were very sad to learn of Benjamin's passing. May God grant you peace in this time of loss, and wrap his arms around your family and give you comfort and healing. Our prayers are with all of you.
Randy Rawls
January 15, 2013
Mr. Cuellar was someone I looked up to. I realize this only now after he is gone. I remember his class and our discussion about respect. He understood where I was coming from better than many a teacher. Though we were not close, I thought of him as a friend, and a role model. As I hold him in high respects, I pray for him, his family, and the people who enjoyed his class as I did. He recommended me for an advanced class, and I returned
to his class in Analyzing Visual Media. He helped me greatly when I was injured. Some teachers showed no sympathy, and gave me no breaks. He lightened my workload so I could focus on my recovery. When I returned to Stratford this year, I was disappointed that he was no longer teaching there. Thank you Mr. Cuellar. I will always hold your memory. I hope to attend your funeral, as I will miss you greatly.
Luisa Sabillon
January 15, 2013
Rest in Peace,Mr Cuellar,you helped me in more ways than you can ever know..
Rose Vance
January 15, 2013
Ben was an amazing person. The kind of guy everyone should meet at least once in their lives. I will never forget all of our talks and time shared. Our New Orleans trip has always been and will always be one of my greatest memories. I love you Ben and miss you dearly.
Chris Folmer
January 15, 2013
Ben was a great guy who left us too early. I remember fun times in high school and he always had a good heart. He will truly be missed..
Anabell Rangel
January 15, 2013
Ben was a really good brother I remember wen we used to go outside and get onions cus he was Goin to make tuna for us those were the good old times.but I knw I haven't seen you in a while but wat I really du knw that you will always b in my heart bro.luv you very much Ben. Anabell Rangel
lucia martinez
January 15, 2013
Ben we didnt always see eye to eye. I still can't believe this is happening....I love you so much and I know that most of all Jack and mom....and they're hurting but we hope you're at peace. Love you bro.
always,
Lucy
Linda Eppich
January 15, 2013
Ben was always to first to help me out with a technology problem in my classroom or to share a new idea. He was an amazingly compassionate teacher--and an astoundingly gifted writer. I missed him so much when he left us to pursue full-time graduate work--his departure was such a loss to Stratford's English department. He included everyone in his invitations whether they were young or old, dear friends or merely acquaintances. My prayers now are for Ben's family here on earth. I know that in the future they will be reconciled with Ben in heaven, and we here at Stratford will see our good friend again.
Dania murdock
January 15, 2013
Ben, I am still in shock. I'll see you later teddy bear. Rob and I send our condolensces to the Ben's family.
George Mckeon
January 15, 2013
Ben was a good friend of my daughter and she spoke very highly of him. Please accept my condolences at this very sad time.
Robert Brown
January 15, 2013
Juan and all your family have our sincere condolences for your loss. Juan my friend you are also in our prayers. Bob & Jan Brown
Julie Hargrave
January 15, 2013
Ben will remain in our hearts for forever. My deepest condolences to the Cuellar Family.
Anne and Pierre Carrette
January 15, 2013
Please Benjamin's extended family receive our sincere condolences for your incommensurable loss.
Jaime Ortiz
January 15, 2013
My most sincere condolences to Juan and all his family.
May God's love bring peace and give strength to everyone in your family through these hard times.
Descanza en Paz Benjamin!
One of the many random times Ben came out to have a good time and be a great friend.
Celeste Anderson
January 15, 2013
Ben, I immediately had to know you when I met you at the New Jersey Writing Project training. I thought-this guy is so funny and witty. I must be his friend. And I was so fortunate to become just that. Thank you for being such a wonderful person in this world. I have many memories and I will never forget you.
Mohd Alam
January 15, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers with you and your family, Juan. I pray that God gives you and your family strength through this difficult time.
Utibe Edet
January 15, 2013
May the good lord grant eternal rest to Ben and fortitude to the Cuellar family in bearing this loss. UT & Eno.
Millie
January 14, 2013
I clearly remeber mr.Cuellar, he was my sophmore english teacher four years ago. I remember loving his class and even though he had a sarcastic tone, it made me love it more. We never talked much since i was quiet but he was very attentive to my writing since he would put super helpful comments. I will always remember Mr.Cuellar
Darrin Lyons
January 14, 2013
I was one of his students at Stratford he was one of the best teachers I have ever had if it weren't for him teaching me, I would had never had passed last year I allwayse. thought of him as a friend in a sort of way he also taught me a little bit about life . I used to love listening to his hilarious jokes every outher day in class. Even thow rude students made rude remarks towards him he always kept his head high. Mr .cuellare thanks for the great memories you will always be remembered by me. Rest in peace.
Lisa Hranitzky
January 14, 2013
I remember hearing many stories about Ben, his humor, and his love for his family. God grant you strength and comfort in the coming days as you mourn his passing. Our family will keep you all in our prayers. Trust in God's infinite love and mercy and know that He is with you.
January 14, 2013
Mr. Cuellar was the best teacher I ever had. He made learning interesting and his wit always seemed to make me laugh. He was such a gift to my school and he impacted my life in so many ways. I pray for your family and friends, Mr. Cuellar. Be at peace.
Ivy Morgan
January 14, 2013
He was one of the best teachers I ever had. It was an honor to know him, and I will never forget him
Jan Rucker
January 14, 2013
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you Juan, Rhea, Lindsey and Chandler during this most difficult time. I am so very sorry for your great loss. Always cherish the wonderful memories and special times you all had together.
Gil Sanchez
January 14, 2013
Mr. Cuellar was an amazing teacher, if it weren't for his teaching style, I probably would have still been a terrible writer, I will miss his witty responses, and the way he use to stroke his beard in class :(
Tricia Van Susteren
January 14, 2013
The world has lost a great guy and gifted teacher. Prayers to Ben's family. He will be greatly missed.
January 14, 2013
Mr. Cuellar was my homeroom teacher for four years and one of the most amazing teachers i have ever encountered he will be greatly missed.
January 14, 2013
Mr. Cuellar was an outstanding teacher. He taught me how to be a better writer. My writing improved so much while I was his student.
He had a book of all of his writings. He would let us look at it when we had free time. He was such a good writer.
I remember details about a lot of his stories.
A good teacher like Mr Cuellar is hard to come by. I appreciate the efforts he made to help us learn more about the books we were reading.
He said he was leaving to learn more about literature, it seemed like he couldn't get enough of learning and reading. He was very smart. I will always remember him and miss him and I will treasure his memory.
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