May God bless you and your...
So sorry for your loss. I send belated condolences to his family and friends. He will be missed.
Jen Wyle
November 28, 2025


Photo courtesy of Bangs Funeral Home - Ithaca
Ithaca, New York
Mar 22, 1994 – Aug 5, 2021 (Age 27)
Benjamin Edward Neilsen died in his sleep August 4, 2021. He is survived by his daughter, Eleanor “Ellie”, his mother Paulette Rosa, sister Aslinn (Michael) Dusseljee, and their children Chyanne, and Noah. His “Maine Family” Robert and Katlyn Worster and all their children, especially little...
Read MoreSo sorry for your loss. I send belated condolences to his family and friends. He will be missed.
Jen Wyle
November 28, 2025
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Roxanne Iacovelli
August 09, 2021 | Ithaca, NY | Friend
Paulette and Aslinn, I am so very sorry. So heartbreaking. I´m praying for you both, and for Ellie, and all Ben´s family.
Chris Ventura
August 09, 2021 | Friend
Paulette,
I am so very sorry. It was a shock to all of us at work, especially knowing that you were bringing him home for a new fresh start. Just know that I'm thinking about you and sending you wishes for comfort and peace. Deepest condolences to you and your family.
Chris Balestra
August 09, 2021 | Coworker
So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. He will always be in your heart for LOVE is ETERNAL.
Eva Desrosiers
August 09, 2021 | North Smithfield, RI

Cheryl Ward
August 08, 2021 | Spencer, NY | Friend
Paulette and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Ben was a great young man. I still remember the first time he came to our house for Ryan’s birthday. I thought he was a very sweet, funny kid. Keep your memories of him close to your heart. ❤
Cheryl Wsrd
August 08, 2021 | Spencer, NY | Friend
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. Sending thoughts and prayers to his family and friends and especially his little daughter
Stephen Camp
August 08, 2021 | Newfield, NY | Friend
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Patricia McDonald
August 08, 2021 | North Providence, RI | Teacher