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Bernard Aptaker Obituary

Bernard Aptaker
1926-2015
Bernard Aptaker, born in Zakrzowek, Poland on the 20th of January 1926, to Murry Aptaker and Sarah Roesner Aptaker, passed away on the 29th of June 2015.
Bernard was taken from his home at age 13 and interned by the Nazis in a series of concentration camps with his family for over three years. When he was liberated, the American army took notice of Bernard's proficiency at speaking over six languages and employed Bernard to work with intelligence officers to identify and capture German war criminals. He moved to New York in 1947 and landed his first job as a worker in a delicatessen.
While his formal education was limited, the acumen that enabled his mastery of foreign languages translated to business. Bernard became a dance instructor, learned the trade and soon owned his own dance studios in Los Angeles after he relocated there. His investment in dance studios was just the beginning of a long and very successful business career. Bernard was an excellent and very successful entrepreneur who not only recognized opportunity but also had the courage and determination to seize and capitalize on it. While his primary focus became his vast real estate holdings, Bernard's business interests ranged from his initial dance school operations to trading precious gems in Africa.
His experiences in the concentration camps, which included the death of his mother and his brother Moshe in the gas chambers, left emotional scars that, by his own admission, greatly affected his views of humanity. The hatred and cruelty he witnessed that was visited by one group of humans on an another led him never to marry or risk exposing children of his own to the horrors he witnessed.
Bernard did, however, have a kind heart and charitable soul. He showed it most often in his love of animals, especially to his dogs, Zeus and Attar, that he cherished so much. He was an avid and aggressive philanthropist, especially when it came to causes for the protection of animals and fostering religious tolerance and understanding.
Bernard is survived by his brothers Stanley and Richard; his cousin Nathan Apteker; his nieces Jan Aptaker and Debbie Aptaker Vaupen; his nephews Steven Allen Aptaker, Matthew Aptaker and Seth Aptaker; and his grand-nieces and nephews Heather Urfrig, Allison Aptaker, Michelle Aptaker, Max Vaupen, Alexander Vaupen and Miles Aptaker.
A private ceremony for the scattering of Bernard's ashes was held in Malibu, California.
In lieu of customary remembrances and in celebration of Bernard's generous philanthropy, memorial contributions may be directed to charities involved in the care and prevention of cruelty to animals, to organizations that foster religious tolerance and understanding, or to any charity of one's choice.



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Published by Houston Chronicle on Aug. 2, 2015.

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Patricia Barrow

March 21, 2020

I was saddened when I found out you had passed... RIP Mr. Aptaker! I loved working for you in your management company, you were always so kind to me and oh so interesting. I especially enjoyed our Christmas party at your amazing home, meeting your dogs, seeing all those beautiful paintings and antiques was an education in itself. You taught me much, treated me special and thank you for remembering me with the gifts you brought back from Europe for me... I still have them and think out you often Fondly, Patricia

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Lynn Lee

April 24, 2017

Dear Sir,
I worked with Jim Covington, who helped you produce your Holocaust documentary. You were always so sweet to me when you came in for an editing session. You even gave me a beautiful little ring which I still have. God bless you and may you rest In Peace. You were a very kind person and I'm sure made a lasting impression on many.

Stephen Ridge

February 15, 2017

Mr. Aptaker, I used to do work for you on your house on Voss. I noticed it looking a bit rough and now I am saddened to know why. I enjoyed talking to you and petting old Zues. You were very good to me and I also appreciated it. You will always be in my memory as a kind and decent man.

Jewell Maida

August 28, 2016

Being an Animal advocate; while cleaning out my desk, I ran across an article in the Houston Chronicle (06/06/2006) that I had cut out and saved with my many other articles regarding the cruelty of Animals.

I only wish that I could have met you. I would have thanked you for caring for the individuals who are the same as we are, only who are defenseless and have no voice.

I am sorry you are gone. The Animals need people like you. You are one of their hero's.

Jewell Maida

Gregor Medinger

July 22, 2016

Bernard, while we had not seen each other for a while I have shared my memories of you from time to time with friends near and far, and when it occurred to me that it was time to contact you again, it was alas, too late. May you rest in peace.
Gregor

David Long

September 3, 2015

I will miss you mr. Aptaker. You were a friend indeed. I was fortunate to have known you and listened to all the good advice that you gave me and the stories that you shared. God speed my friend !

David Long

September 3, 2015

Mr. Aptaker you were a good man . I'm going to miss you! You have giving me some good advice the years I known you . God speed my fruend

Lisa and Chris Minick

August 2, 2015

So sorry to hear.May his memory live with you always.

Dina Aptekar Hill

August 2, 2015

Dear Cousin Bernard, You will be missed more than you know and you meant more to us than you knew. I keep your picture of you and your dogs on my wall as a special remembrance of you and your generosity.

August 2, 2015

BDE, may his soul have an Aliyah

Pamela Culver

August 2, 2015

Our condolences to the family.

July 30, 2015

I had the pleasure of knowing Mr Aptaker for a number of years. I manage the drycleaning store where he traded on a regular basis. I'll miss his smile and his laughter most of all. Belle Griffin, Mgr of Twin Oaks Cleaners.

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