Palmer, Massachusetts
1951 - 2017
Bernard H. "Barney" Benoit, 66, of the Bondsville Village of Palmer, was Called Safely Home on Friday, July 14, 2017. He passed into Eternal Life at Baystate Medical Center in Springfield surrounded by the care and comfort of his loving family. He was born in Holyoke on June 30, 1951, a beloved...
Read MoreHey Barn still miss you and always think about you the most in Base ball season...the Sox are in last but making a move....love and miss you. Betsy M
Betsy
July 10, 2023 | Friend
Dear Barney, Another year is about to pass since you left. I can't believe this year will make 6 years that I am no longer able to call and have our sometimes daily chat. I miss you so very much, Big Brother, life has dealt me some challenges, as I'm sure you are aware. I am doing my best to face them with a positive attitude. But I would give anything to have you hear for advice. I will love you and miss you forever... Your sis, Betsy
Betsy Bender
July 10, 2023 | Family
I can't believe another year has gone by. I miss you more today than the day you left us. So much going on. I wish you were here to talk to. You are always in my heart and in my mind. Love you and miss you...
Betsy Bemder
July 10, 2020 | Chicopee, MA | Sister
You are always in my heart. I miss you more than you know. These last two years sometimes feel like they flew by, and other times feel like they have been the longest 2 years ever. Suffering yet another big loss this year hasn't helped.
Barney- my rock, my big brother- I love you. Always with me...
Love you,
Betsy
Betsy Bender
July 13, 2019 | Chicopee, MA
Miss you sooooooo much Barn
Darlene Drinkwine
July 12, 2019 | Springfield, MA
Barney, few days go by that I don't think about you. I just got done doing a major project in my yard & I thought, boy I sure could use you right now. You will always be missed whether its doing something around the house. Watching tv , out for a cocktail & some keno or just doing nothing
Love you & miss you very much...
Darlene Drinkwine
July 11, 2019 | Springfield, MA | Friend
I miss you Barn and for me it hasn't eased. I think of you every Redsox sox game and it was hard not to be able to call you when Brady and Company won yet another Superbowl...I will always love you.
Betsy
July 10, 2019 | Friend
Michael & Kevin, I can't help with the pain that you are going through, but know this, your father loved you both very much and was so proud of you.
Betsy, Barney will always be your "Big Brother". I know you will miss him terribly, but he will always be with you in your heart.
Even though our marriage broke up, he was always good to me and I will remember that forever.
He was a GOOD MAN!
Linda Benoit
August 02, 2017 | Chicopee, MA
My dear big "youngest" brother...I'm not sure what to do now. You were always my rock when I needed support. My heart has a HUGE empty place in it but it also has a bright spot for the memories of the best brother a sister could ask for. You are one of a kind, Barney, and I will miss you forever. Know that I will always be ther for Mike and Kevin. Give everyone a hug and kiss for me...Love you always, your little sister, Betsy
Betsy Benito Bender
July 30, 2017 | Chicopee, MA