Bette Gruskay

For many years she and her husband were very dear friends and she helped makes one drastic changes at the Amity Regional HS. She mothered some very fine children and grandchildren. I have missed her Jim Rutherfird

Bette was instrument in enhancing the quality of teaching and teacher attendance ; both impacted and befitted the academic endeavors of the Amity students. She was willing to listen, take appropriate action; and dared to envision the future. Along with her buddy, Frank, she raised 3 wonderful children.

dear frank, jeffrey, susan and nancy and the whole mishbucha
we are standing and sitting with you this week and forever

bette and your whole family means so much to us and we will always be friends
may you be comforted and know how much your friends and family love you

from gaia, navah, tobie, david, barry ,Stephen and joyce

To the Gruskay family, Bette had such a profound impact on the arts in our community, especially in providing music to children. She will be greatly missed be her colleagues at the Symphony.

Dear Uncle Frank, Jeff, Susan and Nancy.... We just heard the news last night {my dad is out of the country}. So sorry for your loss. I will plan on contacting you next week individually to chat...Andrew, Susan, Zoe + Jacob Gruskay

Dear Dr. Gruskay and family,

I was deeply saddened to hear of Bette's passing. I have many fond and wonderful memories of working with her on the Buy a Note campaign over the past several years. It was an honor to work with Bette and to learn from her vast experiences and expertise. I will never forget her kindness and generosity.

May your many wonderful memories console you in this time of sadness. My prayers are with you.

Dear Susan and the Gruskay family:

While it has been decades since I saw your dear Mother, my memories of her are very vivid from our elementary, junior and high school years where I spent a great deal of time with your Mom. She was beautiful, gracious, loving and fun and did a fabulous job raising her family.

With condolences and prayers,
Candace Jung

Our sincere condolences to Drs. Gruskay & your family on Mrs. Gruskay's passing.

Dear Dr.Grusky

My Mom worked for you an Dick Shelling many years ago in Milford. She was Lucille Mastrangelo. My memory of Betty was the first time I met you both, she took me into your home. I was 13 and very much admired a large brandy sniffer on a shelf. She took it down, told me when the two of you had used it, and gave it to me. A very special memory for a young girl.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Judy Mastrangelo Freed