Brenda-Briggs-Obituary

Brenda Friend Briggs

Richmond, Virginia

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BRIGGS, Brenda Friend, Esq., age 64, of Chester, Virginia, peacefully passed away on June 10, 2009. She was born in Chester, Virginia, and was the daughter of Louise P. Friend and the late James Briggs Friend Sr., both of Chester, Virginia. A woman of many talents in various specialty areas, Ms. Briggs served as an educator for over 30 years, a legal service provider for the Virginia Department for the Aging, and, most recently, a compliance officer with the Department of Education, and an adjunct professor at J. Sargeant Reynolds Community College. Board member of the Chesterfield Historical Society, Ms. Briggs devoted her life to education, legal resources for the community and the research of local history. Additionally, Ms. Briggs served faithfully on the following civic organizations: 4-H Club, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc., Petersburg Chums, Martha Mason Hill Memorial Foundation, the Virginia Association of Black Women Attorneys, and was a lifelong member of First Baptist Church, Centralia. Brenda had a strong desire to stay connected to her close friends who have touched her life. Those friends who have been dear to her heart include the Carver High School Class of 1961 and her friends she met along her journeys at Virginia State University, Howard University, and the T.C. Williams School of Law. Brenda's vision was to bring legal savvy to the layman to promote self-advocacy. Preceded in death by her brothers, LeCogbill Elijah Friend and Louis Timothy Friend, Brenda is survived by her daughter, Nicole Briggs-Gary and husband, Kenneth A. Gary; two grandchildren, Kingston James Briggs-Gary and Kennedi Myah Briggs-Gary; mother, Louise P. Friend brother, James B. Friend Jr.; dear friend, Laverne Pride Yates; former husband, James E. Briggs; and four godchildren, Carla Friend Huggins, Terrance Wilson, Tamani Wilson, and Monet Cogbill; a host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends. The family will receive friends for the Wake and remembrance at First Baptist Church, Centralia, 2920 Kingsdale Road, Richmond, Va. 23237, on Tuesday, June 16, from 5 o'clock p.m. to 7 o'clock p.m. The homegoing celebration will take place at First Baptist Church, Centralia on Wednesday, June 17 at 11 o'clock in the morning. The interment will follow the walking processional from the church to the Friend Family Cemetery at 3217 Kingsdale Road. Respectfully, Brenda's wish was for her family and friends to remember her with live plants or donations to the Martha Mason Hill Foundation, in lieu of cut flowers.
This obituary was originally published in the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

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Dearest Nicole and to all of your dear Mother's family! I am your Mother's 4-H International Youth Exchange (IFYE) BROTHER. It has been over 43 years that your dear Mother, Jeanne Hillman Rider of Montana, and I were notified by our state 4-H leaders that we would be IFYEs in 1966 to Japan leaving in June. It didn't take long for us to begin exchanging letters (no e-mails or cell phones then)and finally we met at the National 4-H Center in Washinhgton, DC. There I met your grandparents...

I offer my sincere sympathy to the Briggs and Fried families. Brenda will be sorely missed.

My thoughts and many prayers are with you all in this time of grief. May the many memories you have of her bring you comfort.

I worked with Brenda at the Virginia Department of Education for many years; however, I first met her and her cousin, Jane J. Baskerville, when they did student teaching at Crestwood High School. They used to ride with me to Petersburg every weekend. Those were some fun-filled trips. I will always remember Brenda as "one classy lady." She had such a cool, calming effect whenever she talked and you respected whatever she said. She will be missed by all. Love, Foster

To Nicole and family,
With deepest sympathy to you and yours. May God grant you peace during this most difficult time.

Tim and Wanda Lark

With Deep Sympathy to the family of Brenda Briggs. We will always have beautiful memories of a life lived to its fullest. We will always keep her memory alive in our hearts.

Ralph, Linda, Heather & Madison Smith, Las Cruces, New Mexico.

To Nicole and Family:
I met your Mom in 1970 on the second day of my marriage to James Hatcher. Your mom and dad graciously entertained us in their home in D.C. Ever since we have been friends although we hadn't seen each other very often lately. We will all miss her. Keep strong and look to God for your comfort. My prayers are with you.

Nicole and Jim:
My family and I can't express in words what this news meant to us. Losing touch over the years did not erase the fond memories of the past. We are out of town on vacation and couldn't be there to attend. We will not forget her and will be in touch with you.

I, too, had the privilege of working with Brenda at the Virginia Department of Education. Her incredible sense of humor and her warm smile were always present, and her care for the children she worked to protect was always evident. The world is a better place due to Brenda's efforts and commitment to her family, Virgina's children with disabilities, and her friends.

My sincere condolences to her family,