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Brett Gilmartin Obituary

Brett Ryan Gilmartin CHARLOTTE - Brett Ryan Gilmartin, 31, of Charlotte, our beloved son, brother, uncle and friend, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, August 1, 2014. Brett was attending UNC Charlotte, majoring in physics and minoring in Japanese. He was set to graduate this year. Brett was a skilled composer who understood the rhythm of computers and the music of mathematics. Brett had a love for Anime and all things Japanese. Brett was always sweet, kind and gentle. He brightened every room he entered. Everyone he met he touched with his guileless soul, his lightning wit, and his love. Brett is survived by his parents, Roger and Jacquie Gilmartin; siblings, Sean (Marilou) Gilmartin, Paula (Chris) Buhrer, Erin (Greg) Sutherland, and Meaghan Gilmartin; grandparents Leo and Laverne Gilmartin, and Paul and Helen Gene Sabin; five nephews, three nieces and many others who will miss him being a big part of their lives. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, August 5 from 6:00 until 8:00 pm at McEwen Pineville Chapel, 10500 Park Rd. The Funeral Service will be held on Wednesday, August 6 at 11:00 am at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, 5815 Carmel Rd., Charlotte. Interment will immediately follow at Forest Lawn East Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be given to the American Heart Association 222 S Church St. Charlotte, NC 28202. Online condolences may be left at www.McEwenPinevilleChapel.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Aug. 4, 2014.

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Helen gene sabin

October 26, 2014

Jacquie thanks for giving me this address. What wonderful tributes to Brett. I have often remarked on how at 4 years old Brett tried to teach me about astronomy and I didn't know what he was talking about!He was so brilliant and I can see that he helped out many others. Wish we could have been around him more. I am one of Brett's grandmothers.

Piyush Dhoot

August 20, 2014

Like many people who have written previously, I only knew Brett from an online community. However, his eloquence, level headedness and thoughtfulness always made interacting with him a pleasure. Our community will not be the same, and neither will I.

Benjamin Whitehead

August 9, 2014

My sincere condolences to Brett's parents, siblings, grandparents, nephews, nieces and those close to him. While I may have only known him through our interactions online and despite the physical distance between us, I still feel as though someone close has been lost. He'll be in my thought.

Tim D

August 8, 2014

My sincere condolences to Brett's family. He was a positive presence in my life and will be sorely missed.

August 8, 2014

Echoing that I only knew him from online communities, but his intelligence and thoughtfulness were clear to all who interacted with him. He will be missed.

Octavio Trejo

August 8, 2014

I never had the fortune of meeting Brett in person but we shared many common interests online and I'm glad that I at least had the chance to interact in some way with such an outstanding and caring individual.

Goodbye Brett and may you rest in peace. The world is now lesser without you in it.

August 8, 2014

I only knew him from an online community, but we were part of the same community for about 15 years. He was very intelligent, well spoken and understanding. You will be in my memories Brett.
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Lain

August 8, 2014

I only knew him from his posts on online message boards, his thoughts on twitter, his chats on IRC. He was a cool, bright and nice individual and will be missed.

Welker

August 8, 2014

Goodbye Brett. You will be missed.

Ahmed Al Mazidi

August 8, 2014

One of the most thoughtful person I have ever had the pleasure of talking to. You will be missed, Brett

João Rocha

August 8, 2014

A very bright young man who shall be missed by many. Thank you for having been a part of our lives.

bjork

August 8, 2014

I'm sad to learn this news today. I'll never forget our ongoing debates about Hawaiian cost of living. You were a solid individual, condolences to friends and family.

Bob

August 8, 2014

Brett earned the respect and admiration of people all over the world, me included. I am profoundly sorry to the family for this tragic loss.

Jesse

August 8, 2014

The impact of this loss is felt the world over. May you rest in peace.

Jericho Christenson

August 8, 2014

Brett was an amazing and kind individual. He was intelligent and thoughtful, he will be missed by many people. RIP.

William Tang

August 8, 2014

Though we never met in person your presence online was ALWAYS welcome and greeted with a smile.

I wish I took the opportunity that you granted to me at the time to open up. I deeply lament letting that chance escape my grasp.

We shared alot of interests, you taught me patience and helped me refine my rough edges, and I was able to overcome my social weaknesses through your help. I hope that I contributed something meaningful in the time that we talked together.

I hope you find peace and you won't be forgotton.

Tyler

August 8, 2014

Rest in Peace Brett you will be missed

Zach

August 8, 2014

Rest easy.

Frank

August 7, 2014

Brett was an active member of our NFL online community and was always loved and appreciated for his insight and opinions. he will be missed.

Gabriel B

August 7, 2014

I only ever knew Brett online, but I shed actual tears when I heard the news all the same. That's just how likable he was. He was so intelligent and opinionated, you couldn't help but want to engage him. You will definitely be missed, Brett. Thanks for always listening.

Eric Jacob

August 7, 2014

Brett was loved and respected by more people than you will ever know. There are thousands of us online morning his death right. He was a pillar of our community for over 15 years and he will not be forgotten. Prayers for your family!

Justin Epperson

August 7, 2014

Brett was an amazing guy and one of the best people I knew online. Thanks for all the talks good times.

Christopher

August 7, 2014

You were a shining beacon of intelligence, kindness, and understanding. You were passionate about what you enjoyed. You were a good friend. May your soul find peace in a better place, and may your family and friends be comforted.

Daphne Deschanel

August 7, 2014

Your knowledge of Japanese language and culture was inspiring. Brett greatly affected an entire community and will be missed. You made us beautiful.

Jonathan Laureano

August 7, 2014

Thank you for all the good times. You'll be definitely be missed.

Emmanuel Munoz

August 7, 2014

Thank you for everything. You were a huge part of the community and a huge influence on me. I'll always have you in the back of my mind.

I'll miss you.

Jacob Andrewartha

August 7, 2014

I only knew Brett online but despite that he was very influential on my life and really shaped a lot of my thinking in terms of science and reason.. I'm going miss him terribly and condolences to all his family and those who knew him personally.

Christopher Yu

August 7, 2014

I've only known Brett online, but we've been friends for many years. He was a passionate person who wasn't afraid to speak his mind, had a great love for for his various hobbies, and a sharp mind for science and politics. I will miss his insights and his correspondence. Such a sudden and tragic loss for someone so gifted and young.

My condolences to the family, and I hope it brings some consolation that he has had a great impact on the lives of many who may never have even met him in person.

Jonathan Fu

August 7, 2014

Brett had friends in many places and influenced many because of the internet. It is really sad to hear he passed away. He will be missed. Rest in Peace Brett

Anthony P.

August 7, 2014

You'll be missed, Brett. RIP.

August 7, 2014

Brett was a great guy and left a positive impression on everyone he met. He has many people that will miss him.

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Joseph Cerulli

August 7, 2014

You're gonna be missed. Without a doubt, man.

N

August 7, 2014

I wish I could have finished all that you wanted me to before your time was up. You'll be missed greatly.

Edward Vanance

August 7, 2014

Goodbye Brett. You were a very important part of our community and you will be sadly missed, and fondly remembered.

August 7, 2014

I only knew Brett online, but I identified him by his intelligence and his devotion to what he believed was right. He was a great person and the world is worse off with his passing.

Allen Kwan

August 7, 2014

Brett, you were a great guy and I will miss you in my life. Thank you for all the good times.

Michael

August 7, 2014

Although I never actually talked to him, his intelligence and general positive attitude will be missed. NeoGAF lost a friend, today, and know that his family is in my prayers.

Aaron R

August 7, 2014

I talked with Brett often online over the last five years. He was one most intelligent and analytical people I've ever talked with, and had an extremely keen critical mind for politics and social issues (not to mention his obvious enthusiasm for physics, games, and Japanese culture). I am really stunned to hear of his passing, he had a life that was so full of promise. I often asked for his advice when I had trouble thinking through things, he was an excellent confidante.

I know I'm not the only one either--dozens of people who befriended Brett online really felt he was an honestly amazing guy.

Wow.

Rinku Patel

August 6, 2014

I'm deeply saddened to hear about Brett. He was very nice and a great co-worker. He was always smiling. It was pleasure working with Brett. RIP Brett.

Dr, Yasin Raja

August 6, 2014

I am deeply saddened to learn about sudden passing away of Brett Gilmartin. He took couple of courses with me including Modern Phys Lab. He was very decent, well-organized, focused and pleasant young man. My sincere condolences to his parents, sibling, and extended family. May God bless his soul.
From, Dr. Yasin Raja,Phys & Optical Sc. Dept., UNC Charlotte.

Tory Holding

August 5, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. He was such a nice guy and always so helpful when I shopped at Harris Teeter. I will miss his smile and his presence at the store. Praying for comfort and strength.

Nettie Britts

August 5, 2014

Hi Jacquie, I was so sorry to hear of your son's passing. If you need someone to talk to, or anything, I'm here.

Eric Thompson

August 5, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss :( I knew him for 2 years, one of the cooolest guys I've ever hung around.

Dale Duke

August 4, 2014

I only knew him a short time but he was such a nice guy. My condolences to his family

Diane Bollinger

August 4, 2014

Allen and Lauren join me in sending our sympathy and sorrow to you, Jacquie, Erin, Meaghan, Roger and your family. We remember Brett fondly from an early age. He was so soft-spoken and kind, always with a smile on his face. All our love to you during this sad time.

Melinda Worrell

August 4, 2014

Thoughts and prayers are with you over the loss of Brett. He will be missed by his Harris Teeter family.

Barbara Westbrook

August 4, 2014

Jacqui, I am so sorry. I love you. I know Heavenly Father is holding you tight and always will.
Barbara Westbrook

American Heart Association

August 4, 2014

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Jasmine Stoecker

August 4, 2014

He was a great guy. He'll be sorely missed.

Venecia

August 4, 2014

Sorry for the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and your family.

August 4, 2014

ny name is sally askildson and i knew brett as i worked the third shift at harris teeter i extend my sincere sympathy to you and your family and hope god will be at your side

Joshua Peters

August 4, 2014

He was a great guy, friend and miles and miles the best tetris player I have ever seen. He will be missed by many of us at UNCC

August 4, 2014

Please accept our condolences for the loss of your beloved son Brett.
With sincere sympathy,
Bryce Davis
Diane & Jim Rich

August 4, 2014

Please accept our condolences for the loss of your beloved son Brett.
With sincere sympathy,
Bryce Davis
Diane & Jim Rich

Tammie Pierson

August 3, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you peace and comfort during this most difficult time.

Karen Pratt

August 3, 2014

So terribly sorry for your loss.
God be with you and give you the strength and faith you need at this time.

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