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I will never forget the first rap that I ever heard you deliver! I will miss you Brian a.k.a Chunky. Renee
November 28, 2009


CREMIN - Brian O'Day, born September 30, 1977, left this earth on August 31, 2009, This super nova of personality and love, passion and mirth, left all of us far too soon. He burst onto this earth and blazed a trail of light and creative talent that will long be remembered by all who knew and loved him. He is survived by his parents, Pat and Margie (White) Cremin, his beloved sister Catherine, his treasured niece, Asia Brianna, and his very special nephews Atticus, Solomon, and Gideon, who will long celebrate their "Uncle B." He met and began a wonderful new life with the love of his life, Liz (Carner) Cremin, and his soon to be born daughter, the light of his entire being, Tristyn Marie O'Day Cremin. Brian announced to his world on his last day that he would forever now be known as "the father of Tristyn O'Day Cremin." He is also survived by his great uncle Monsignor James Halpine, endless uncles and aunts, more cousins who loved him as a brother than anyone could count, and his new family Christy, Aaron and Madison Carner. His innumerable friends and buddies will never see this world the same. His music lives on in CD's and the memories of those of us blessed to have known this genuine, incredible, special young man, who left all of us way before we were finished loving him. Brian graduated from Bishop Kelley in 1996, and attended St. John's University in New York to receive his certification in audio engineering. He was employed as a loving, caring psychological tech at Brookhaven Hospital, where he met and forever loved his precious Liz. Brian had an unbelievable heart! We will love you and think of all the joy you brought us each day for the rest of time, old pardner. Go with our love, we will all be waiting to see you again. We will remember his life at a rosary at Fitzgerald's Funeral Home at 7 p.m., Friday, where we can tell our favorite "SREAL" stories. A funeral mass will be celebrated at Holy Family Cathedral on Saturday at 11 a.m. You may remember our Brian in lieu of flowers with a gift in his name to the MS Society, 4606 East 67th Street, Suite 103, Tulsa, OK 74136. Fitzgerald Funeral Service, The Ivy Chapel 585-1151 Brian O'Day Cremin
This obituary was originally published in the Tulsa World.
I will never forget the first rap that I ever heard you deliver! I will miss you Brian a.k.a Chunky. Renee
November 28, 2009
Dear Pat and Margie, I only learned of your loss today, in an email from Carol Weber Shrout. I am thinking of you and your lovely family. Your strength and humanity will see you through. And you will see Brian anew everyday in his daughter Tristyn.
Love,
Marsha Elkins Huff
Milwaukee, WI
October 01, 2009
Dear Cremin Family-
I am sorry to hear about Brian's passing. My prayers are with you.
Pat Cremin
September 18, 2009 | Chicago, IL
Dearest Pat,
I just want to remind you, love, that I am here if there is any way I or The Tristesse Grief Center can help you, Margie and the family. I grieve with you the loss of your child and I celebrate with you the impending birth of his child, Tristyn. (Love the name.) I understand, as I know you and Margie do, the abundance of joy Brian must have felt in adopting that greatest of monikers -"father of Tristyn O'Day Cremin" - as deeply as I understand the devastating grief you...
Laura Gonsalves
September 14, 2009 | Tulsa, OK
Pat, Margie, and Catherine,
I am so sorry to have heard of Brian's sudden passing. I did not know of it until today and wish I could have been there for you to have given you support. My prayers are with you and all of Brian's family.
Steve Podany
September 14, 2009 | Tulsa, OK
Oh my dirty pants Oklahomie Brian! You never failed to bring a smile to everyones face..... I remember when i first met you, and insisted on walking you home with an umbrella, bc it was raining and you were on crutches..... You have always brought the biggest smile to my face! I'm so happy that you have been, and will always remain a huge part of my heart, and life, from the day i met you til forever..... xoxoxo< thanks for now watching over us!
Tina McCartney
September 13, 2009 | Ny, NY
Pat, Margie, and Catherine,
i was so saddened to hear about Brian passing. I wish it hadn't been so long since I'd seen him, but I got a beautiful picture of the man he'd become when I googled him and looked at his myspace where i was touched to see among his other information, his acknowledgement of what his family meant to him, mentioning his mom, dad, sis, nieces & nephews, and his whole family, and how much they all meant to him. Then to see and hear how others have responded,...
Dee Poe
September 11, 2009 | Topeka, KS
Margie,
We grieve with you for the loss of your son. In Christ, we will see him again and have fellowship with him for eternity.
Nick & Euphanel Goad
September 10, 2009 | Round Top, TX
Into the open, into the ether, to the highest plane, may you find Peace...
bye Brian
Bernie Cremin
September 09, 2009 | Tulsa, OK